How many people are you willing to show your stash of toys to?

Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
A few good friends.
Jan 31, 9:15 pm
raggedyanndy raggedyanndy
Hmm. No one's ever asked to see my stash. I don't think most of my friends realize I even have a stash of toys!!! But there's some friends I'd be cool with showing my stuff to.
Feb 4, 1:42 am
Castielskitten Castielskitten
I'm willing to only show my husband (as my best friend lives in another state completely yet she knows what toys I have because I do show her) but I do have at least three people who saw my stash. They hoped I didn't realize it but they kinda also didn't realize I would notice if my dildo was moved from one side of the bed to the other >_>.
Feb 4, 5:14 am
kittyloveswahwah kittyloveswahwah
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Originally posted by edeneve
how many people are you willing to show your stash of toys to? I showed mine to 2 people. others know about them, though.
Only my husband. I'm too embarrassed to show anyone else...
Feb 5, 5:44 pm
reknit reknit
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Originally posted by edeneve
how many people are you willing to show your stash of toys to? I showed mine to 2 people. others know about them, though.
No ones ever really wanted to see my stash or asked? Wouldn't really care about showing them though
Feb 8, 7:33 pm
edeneve edeneve
an update for WW & November. he has resolved the issue. we didn't talk about how he did it, though. I've been wanting to talk about it w/ him. I'm going to ask him soon.
Feb 12, 12:38 pm
November November
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Originally posted by edeneve
an update for WW & November. he has resolved the issue. we didn't talk about how he did it, though. I've been wanting to talk about it w/ him. I'm going to ask him soon.
Thanks for the update. I'm looking forward to hearing more.
Feb 12, 3:10 pm
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by edeneve
an update for WW & November. he has resolved the issue. we didn't talk about how he did it, though. I've been wanting to talk about it w/ him. I'm going to ask him soon.
Oh thank you for updating us. I hope everything has gone well, or that you will be able to speak with him about it, soon.
Feb 14, 4:44 pm
Rifflynnane Rifflynnane
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Originally posted by edeneve
how many people are you willing to show your stash of toys to? I showed mine to 2 people. others know about them, though.
Only me and hubs has seen them but others know about them.
Feb 17, 11:16 pm
Mistress M. Mistress M.
I have never been shy about having sex toys. Hell, my 68 year old mother has seen one of the ball gags I got in the mail.
May 13, 11:44 pm
dv8 dv8
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May 14, 8:58 am
Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
We did show our stash one time to our friends. Not by choice, we went on a long weekend trip and they actually seen our toys while looking for something. They were shocked by the amount and some of the toys. They had some questions and we were happy to answer.
May 14, 1:27 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by edeneve
how many people are you willing to show your stash of toys to? I showed mine to 2 people. others know about them, though.
Even though we have a good group of friends we discuss these "toys" with, the fact is, no one has ever seen them except me and my hubby. Oh, I know the housekeeper has seen them, and only a while back did I discover that my now married and adult daughter was aware of them years ago (to what extent I didn't ask), but other then that, nope. No one else.
May 14, 3:04 pm
edeneve edeneve
I had another opportunity, or at least it looked like an opportunity, to show my stash to a friend. did I? nope! not gonna do it ever again unless someone I know very well asks to see it.
May 25, 2:46 pm
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
My best friend and I have shown each other our stashes. But we are freaks according to every one who knows us lol Sexual partners are always more than welcome to explore my stash. I also recently showed some of my toys to a male friend, he was looking for ideas on what to get his girl and I gave him a few ideas and then showed him the toys so he could get an idea as what they were like.
May 26, 11:30 am
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by edeneve
I had another opportunity, or at least it looked like an opportunity, to show my stash to a friend. did I? nope! not gonna do it ever again unless someone I know very well asks to see it.
@ Edeneve: I can't blame you one bit after getting burned before. It's nice to bond over it, but it's not necessary, so you aren't losing out by not sharing, only risking something. It's a no-brainer in your situation.

And despite my openness and willingness to talk about anything with anyone, I know myself well enough to know I would be bothered by being treated poorly over the fact I have toys. I think I would likely be good enough friends to even get on the topic and possibility to show them, so I would regret having tension between us even though I'd think less of them for having a crazy reaction and being uncouth enough to let their negative feelings come through! Even if the situation were reversed, and I was the disapproving person, I would never make my friend feel uncomfortable for sharing anything with me, it's just poor manners!

@ SaucyxGirl: I think you really did that couple an amazing service by preventing them from having to make a lot of expensive mistakes. Now he has a much better, more informed chance to pick something she will really like and I think that's wonderful. BTW, fly your freak flag proudly, lol, I do!
May 26, 2:46 pm
KinkyCouple KinkyCouple
I have never shown my stash of toys to anyone. The only exception being my magic wand so my friend would know how strong the vibration was.
Jun 23, 1:35 am
SexScienceAndFood SexScienceAndFood
I wouldn't be comfortable sharing with the people I know in person, but no issues anonymously sharing my collection to people here
Jul 10, 2:35 pm
LoveReImagined LoveReImagined
I've shown my stash to my mother in law!!!! She's very interested and says she's never used a toy before. And she reads all my reviews! Which must be really weird for her! Ain't no shame in the toy game!
Jul 13, 1:01 pm
pinkslug pinkslug
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Originally posted by edeneve
how many people are you willing to show your stash of toys to? I showed mine to 2 people. others know about them, though.
Anyone who's interested in seeing what I've got! Haha, I love showing off my toys, and I love talking about them to friends. Most of the time I don't show ALL of them to people, but if there's a particular toy and they're around, I like taking it out. If they're around sometimes I forget to stash it away from my bed (Whoops!)
Aug 12, 1:27 pm
spaventosa spaventosa
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I'll show anyone who expresses the slightest interest, lol! So far that's nobody, but heck, the only people I wouldn't want to show would be maybe my parents, but only because I have so many and wouldn't want to hear them bitch about ... More
I totally got that phone call last week. It was my mom, yelling through the phone, "WHY DO YOU HAVE SO MANY DILDOS?!" I hope she's forgotten by now...
Aug 14, 12:23 am
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by spaventosa
I totally got that phone call last week. It was my mom, yelling through the phone, "WHY DO YOU HAVE SO MANY DILDOS?!" I hope she's forgotten by now...
OMG, that is truly horrifying, yet a little funny since I am removed from it. However, I have no problem imagining how it would feel to be in that situation! You poor thing! What I am curious about is how the heck that phone call went after the opening salvo?! Of course, it's none of your mom's business and I question what she was doing that she found them.

I really am surprised she'd call you about it. I mean what the hell does she really expect you to say to her? "Mom, I have a deep need to thrust things into my body? I just can't get enough variety? There are so many holes and not enough time. Did you know the red one does..." You get my point, I am sure, LOL!

If she brings it up again, maybe you could try to calmly say you never intended for her to see those, it's your personal business and you would never grill her about her hers, so please extend you the same courtesy. If she presses you, simply say you refuse to discuss this with her and repeat that every time you are expected to reply. You could add that a parent needs to know when to butt out of an adult child's personal affairs.
Aug 27, 12:42 pm
LanaBean LanaBean
My boyfriend is the only one that's seen any of them. In our 7 years together he's seen one and we tried to use another together. He thought it was weird and its just become something we don't do as he is totally not into it. I tried to change it by buying him a solo toy and he's still not sold. Other than that, nobody else knows anything about my stash. I'm not comfortable showing others to be honest. I know im late to the party,but fun topic.
Sep 1, 2:19 am
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
OMG, that is truly horrifying, yet a little funny since I am removed from it. However, I have no problem imagining how it would feel to be in that situation! You poor thing! What I am curious about is how the heck that phone call went after the ... More
We saw a movie last night, "Better than Chocolate". In one of the scenes, mom found a box of dildos/vibes under the daughter's bed. Actually it was not her stuff or bed. She was subletting while owner went out of town. Anyway the mom, never having experienced one before decided to try out a rabbit. Watch the movie to find out what ensued and the funny confrontation. We viewed it on Amazon Prime .
Sep 1, 5:57 pm
michael scofield michael scofield
Ive told and sent photos of my pocket vaginas to female friends and woman I started talking too after they ask whens the last time I had sex and they don't believe me when I tell them then I let them know I have a few pocket vaginas lol most never knew they existed
Sep 11, 6:04 pm
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by michael scofield
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Not to put you on the spot, but why don't they believe you when you tell them the last time you had sex?

I have to laugh because at the beginning of reading your response, I thought pocket vagina referred to the ones for MtF trans, homologous to a packer for a FtM, LOL!!! I remember seeing one in the old section where we could suggest items for eden to carry (I don't even know if that is still active).
Sep 13, 10:16 pm
toysforall toysforall
No one. I don't think I could ever even tell close friends!
Sep 13, 11:02 pm
symbol symbol
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
how many people are you willing to show your stash of toys to? I showed mine to 2 people. others know about them, though.
Anyone who shows an interest and seems relatively open-minded. I only have two toys at the moment, but my friend helped me pick out my rabbit vibrator and I totally showed off my Share to her when I got it. I've also taken the Share in to work for some of my co-workers to see since they were curious and had never heard of a strapless strap-on before. Everyone was pretty cool about it and it was fun to see their reactions.
Sep 19, 9:14 pm
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
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Originally posted by SexScienceAndFood
I wouldn't be comfortable sharing with the people I know in person, but no issues anonymously sharing my collection to people here
Same here. I have posted some pic along with my reviews.
Sep 19, 10:04 pm
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
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Originally posted by toysforall
No one. I don't think I could ever even tell close friends!
For sure. No close friends or relatives !Oh shoot I forgot, one of my relatives already know, col.
Sep 19, 10:05 pm
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