Is it cheating if it's with the same gender?

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Is it cheating if it's with the same gender?

xilliannax xilliannax
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
I was recently watching a TV show that said that it was cheating even if it was with the same gender because a kiss between a man and a man or a woman and a woman should be worth no less then a kiss between a woman and a man. What's your opinion?
Sex is a physical need.
Love is a mental want

Cheating only exists in the terms of love. If he LOVES someone else, its cheating.

Just my .02
06/22/2012
xilliannax xilliannax
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
Regardless of sex, it's cheating if one party is left in the dark.
Love this. Beautifully phrased
06/22/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
It would be offensive if it wasn't considered cheating. Thats like saying a gay kiss between two men or women means less than a kiss between a man and woman.
06/23/2012
ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I agree....it's all cheating to me
06/23/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
I was recently watching a TV show that said that it was cheating even if it was with the same gender because a kiss between a man and a man or a woman and a woman should be worth no less then a kiss between a woman and a man. What's your opinion?
Yes, it is cheating.
06/23/2012
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
I was recently watching a TV show that said that it was cheating even if it was with the same gender because a kiss between a man and a man or a woman and a woman should be worth no less then a kiss between a woman and a man. What's your opinion?
Yikes. This is a tough one! I have to go with it depends on the relationship. This may be warped, but I believe there are instances where two females can "friendly" kiss without it being cheating.

My partner and I share the same beliefs in this area, when it comes to cheating. I feel that if he kisses ANYBODY else, it's cheating and if I kiss someone else, cheating. However, if I actually saw him or heard of him kissing another man, especially if it was his closest guy friend, I would laugh hysterically. I wouldn't be mad or angry or FEEL cheated on. I know, it's strange, but I'm just being honest here. The relationship he has with his best guy friend is... funny? Cute? They're REALLy good friends. They say "I love you man" and everything. Not daily, but when they have sentimental moments like when his friend nearly died. It's really nice that they're like that, but if they kissed, I would just think it funny.

If this was something my partner did often, I'd be suspicious. I'd have to ask that the man kissing stop. Lol. I wouldn't freak out though. Plus, I highly doubt it'd ever happen.

Now, if my partner kissed a female.... Oh no! I would not have it. I'd leave. Unless it was a kiss from a family member or something of that nature. Like a grandma, aunt or the other elderly women in our lives. I would not think a thing of that.

As for me kissing another girl, well, I've done it. Who hasn't? Where I'm from, growing up, we kissed our close girl friends all the time. If we were excited about something, we might grab the other's face and plant a friendly kiss on em'. It wasn't sexual ever or any big deal. Me and my girl friends have experimented before in our teen days, but I wouldn't ever do that now. I wouldn't actually have a passionate, long kiss with anybody else because that, in my opinion, would be cheating. However, a simple pop on the face when it's a close friend or family member, that's nothing.
06/23/2012
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
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Originally posted by - Kira -
If it's discussed beforehand and both parties consent, then it's not cheating. That applies to both genders. If it's done behind one partner's back, then it's cheating. That also applies to both genders.
This, exactly.
06/23/2012
babychika babychika
Its cheating if the other doesnt know about it..
06/23/2012
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
It depends on the situation in my opinion, but if it's on the lips and more than just a peck (and the person isn't family) I'd say it might qualify as cheating. But if you're in the middle of a threesome (or are in a poly relationship/have obtained permission from your significant other) or it's just a little peck on the lips/cheek/forehead/ha nd it's alright.
Different people would see it in different ways though.
06/23/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
cheating is cheating
06/25/2012
Anne Anne
I think if you are truly in love with the same gender, then yes, it is cheating.
06/30/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
What if they are swingers or poly?
06/30/2012
MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
If you have to ask, it's cheating.
07/12/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I sure think so.
07/12/2012
ToyGeek ToyGeek
I think it all boils down to how your partner feels. Some people have open or poly relationships so nothing is cheating, other people would be hurt and feel betrayed by much less than a kiss.
07/12/2012
Charry Charry
If you've discussed it with your partner and both agreed that it's okay, it's not cheating. If not, it is.
07/12/2012
booboo111926 booboo111926
its all cheating to me
07/12/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Gender isn't a factor in what I do or don't consider cheating, though whatever boundaries people decide on together in their relationships are cool.
I'm queer and polyamorous, I don't really mind if either of my partners kiss other people, of any gender. If they want to have sex with someone other than me or each other, then that needs to be discussed, but I am happy to let them make out freely. =D
07/22/2012
rekarf rekarf
Unless you're in a polyamorous relationship and you've followed the rules you and your partner have or your partner knows you'd like to experiment with the same sex and they're ok with it, it's cheating.
07/25/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
I was recently watching a TV show that said that it was cheating even if it was with the same gender because a kiss between a man and a man or a woman and a woman should be worth no less then a kiss between a woman and a man. What's your opinion?
It's all cheating to me.
07/25/2012
xGOLDx xGOLDx
Anything not already agreed upon by both partners counts as cheating.
07/27/2012
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
It depends on the relationship but if either partner hasn't expressed that they're okay with it, it's cheating.
12/06/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
If its something you hide from your partner it's cheating.
12/06/2012
EdenG EdenG
Quote:
Originally posted by amazon
Never understood rationalizing cheating. It's a different partner. So if you're committed, then any other person is cheating.
exactly
12/07/2012
nova2014 nova2014
I think cheating is cheating no matter what the gender is, gender shouldn't make a difference
12/08/2012
KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
cheating is cheating. no matter which way you look at it.
12/08/2012
Vaginas Vaginas
unless you have an agreement with your partner and youre both totally okay with it, it is cheating
12/08/2012
mistressg mistressg
Quote:
Originally posted by Vaginas
unless you have an agreement with your partner and youre both totally okay with it, it is cheating
THIS.
12/08/2012
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
All of it is cheating!
12/08/2012
wildshores wildshores
if your partner doesn't know and agree, it's cheating.
12/08/2012
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