Hey, if someone I'm with wants to be spanked, of course I'll do it to the best of my ability, but I don't get turned on by it, (yet?).
As for being spanked, I HATE it; it hurts way too much & instantly makes me angry!
I think this is because I don't have much cushion, no matter how heavy I get and it seems like the bone is so close to the surface, it's like smacking your shoulder.
The other part of the problem is a build up of scar tissue from injections which make it painful to even massage the area.
I will say that watching someone's ass shimmy from a spanking is attractive when I've seen it in porn, but the redness does nothing for me.