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For the first time in 10 years I farted during sex with my hubby. It was really embarrassing, I giggled and said sorry we took a water break and got back at it. but seriously I just couldn't hold it back it came out of no where. has this happened
For the first time in 10 years I farted during sex with my hubby. It was really embarrassing, I giggled and said sorry we took a water break and got back at it. but seriously I just couldn't hold it back it came out of no where. has this happened to anyone else? how did you handle it?
Happened once and terribly embarrassing! I am a big shy person when it comes to poop or pooting. In fact, my partner has harrassed me for two days about poop! He knows I get all crabby and freak out when he mentions anything to do with poop and me in the same sentence & so he makes jokes. He has killed me with this for two days! I had to pee and we were on our way home, but it was a long drive, so he makes jokes about how "aunt Kendra has to poop!" LOL. I brushed my teeth today and he said I probably was really pooping! OMG. It's the only kind of talk that makes me embarrassed, but I laugh when it's just the jokes. Thank God he got over that tonight though.
But I am really shy about those two things. I seriously like to just keep it totally private, not discuss it and I'd just as soon pretend it didn't exist, but that's hard. As long as it's talked about or joked about, it doesn't bug me so much, but when my name is used in the same sentence, I freak. Lol.
It's just something I've not been able to get comfortable with & we've been together for almost 7 years! LOL. I think it's a little normal to feel embarrassed when things accidentally happen. Thankfully, most people really aren't that grossed out if it happens during sex. It wouldn't make me stop having sex if my partner did as long as it wasn't you know... a very bad one. When it happened to me, he actually said he was proud of me!? WTF He said he was glad I was comfortable enough & that he hated to think I spend so much time avoiding it just because of being embarrassed.
Once we weren't actually having sex, but I was very sick... not pretty! Throwing up and everything and well, it happened and I was so sick that I did not even care. LOL That's about the only time I'm comfortable doing it around him is if I'm so sick I can't even be bothered with embarassments.
My question is: how on earth did you go ten years without an accident?! Tell me your secret!! LOL. I hope it's a one time thing because I know I don't want it happening to me again. I'm glad you guys were able to get back to sex though. As embarrassing as it is, I definitely wouldn't let it be something that made us stop in the middle of sex and not re-start.
How did I handle it? Not well! But my partner handles it well, so that's how we make it out without me going and hiding in a hole for a couple decades. With his "I'm so proud of you!" It's kind of hard not to just laugh and it takes away A LOT of embarassment I'd have had if he reacted differently. If he said "Ew," I'd probably make a diet of nothing but Gas-X for the rest of my life in fear of it happening again. LOL. It's just the only thing I can't get over being embarassed about, that and poop anyways.
Sorry it happened to you. I know it's not fun. I try to be really careful not to do it around him, even if we aren't having sex at the moment, which is probably why he called me a sneaky pooper today. I don't know what the deal has been with him and bathroom humor for the past two days. I can get used to the talk about it a little, but not actually doing it around him. I wonder how other people deal with it? I mean what if it happens in your sleep? I guess most people are comfortable enough to laugh it off, but I'm a little different. I prefer it to be silent! LOL. But laughing it off would be the next best thing if there was no denying it happened.