I suppose if I were a guy, I could see how it would be really hott too Usually I dont let my hubby do this but Tonight I think I will. He can thank this post hahah
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Why do guys have this fantasy...
11/16/2012
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My boyfriend feels the same way, I like to give him the satisfaction every once in a while. It also turns me on when he asserts some sort of dominance on me since we aren't routinely into sub/dom stuff it's nice sometimes to submit in some way.
Originally posted by
r00ster
Face. When a girl allows me to do it, I feel like it means she's submitting to me and that she's mine
11/20/2012
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Yay for eden inspiring people! I love when I get a good idea from the forums.
Originally posted by
BornInApril
I suppose if I were a guy, I could see how it would be really hott too Usually I dont let my hubby do this but Tonight I think I will. He can thank this post hahah
11/20/2012
Don't get it, but have never experienced it. All I can really think of is "close the eyes, close the eyes, close the eyes". Having anything on my face repulses me, which is the only reason I don't get it.
Although it's been hinted by male friends that coming on nerd-girl glasses is even hotter.
Now I'm curious.
Although it's been hinted by male friends that coming on nerd-girl glasses is even hotter.
Now I'm curious.
11/20/2012
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you are too funny!!!
Originally posted by
El-Jaro
Not mine. After it leaves my body, I could care less (pregnancy notwithstanding). They could spackle the wall with it for all I care.
11/20/2012
It's a dominant thing, i think.
11/20/2012
Not a fantasy at our house, it doesn't happen.
11/21/2012
Men are visual creatures, and this is just one hot visual, not to mention it means something for a woman to allow or want this.
11/21/2012
I love it. And I don't think I can write a better post about it than Supervixen did.
11/21/2012
I think its the sharing. It is having something you own and giving it to another person.
11/21/2012
I don't like having cum in my mouth but I have done it on occasion with some of my exes but not often. As for the facials I don't care who you are that is NEVER happening to me in my lifetime. I had an ex who wanted to do it because he saw it in a porn, not my thing. I prefer the deposit to be made inside me
11/22/2012
it's hot! That's all It might be in porn a lot but guys don't get the idea solely from porn, porn got the idea from hot sex! haha
11/22/2012
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Exactly!
Originally posted by
butts
it's hot! That's all It might be in porn a lot but guys don't get the idea solely from porn, porn got the idea from hot sex! haha
I'm happy that my response echoes, apparently, what so many people feel about such an act as the ones in the topic. Sometimes, I forget that certain sexual acts carry a symbolic weight to them that some people view as an act of disrespect or something that somebody does because they are mimicking porn. I have found that sexual acts between consenting partners aren't inherently intended to mean one thing or another, but the intentions behind them are the key to understanding one's comfort with consenting to them, and unfortunately, there are people out there who want to do this in a sexual situation with malicious intent, which can ruin it forever for their victims and their future partners. I don't understand the mindset behind people wanting to degrade or hurt their partners through sex. Sex should be joyful and fun, not malicious or hurtful. I hope that whoever we are with or will be with in the future, is someone who intends to share (as Zandrock said) their experiences in the bedroom in a mutually intimate way, and not to hurt someone else by their own symbolic definitions of disrespect. I hope that we're all with people, or will be with people, who want to engage in sex acts with us as a source of joy. I can understand why people might be uncomfortable with something like this, but I hope we also understand when we are sharing intimate moments with people, that we understand why they want to do something with us, and don't confuse a person's desires for the desires of others with malicious intent. Have fun and trust that your partner wants to have fun with you, not hurt you...as long as you're with a trustworthy partner.
11/22/2012
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Thank you!
Originally posted by
neil i.
Nothing personal, but you're not on my list of contractors if I redecorate my place.
11/23/2012
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We learned it from porn...more or less, but those don' t go together. I don' t want anything squirting on my face. Thankfully hubby doesn't find that action a turn on, but on my tongue or in my open mouth?? Every time...oh yes! My favorite treat!!!
Originally posted by
Babylove09
I've always wanted to know why is it that guys have a fantasy of cumming on the others face or in their mouth?
11/23/2012
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Wow....obviously you are a great lover! Lucky guy!
Originally posted by
Supervixen
Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I
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Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I feel about it.
I think there's also something about "marking" your lover that guys find sexy with facials or cumming on their partner. At least, I like to feel that I've been marked as his. He's indicated that he's doing that to me when he does cum on me, though that was a development that came later, because I was the one that told him I wanted him to cum on me in the first place.
Facials and cumming in your partner's mouth have been around long before pornography. Even if you saw it in a porn and got turned on by it, seeing it in pornography isn't enough to make it something you want--you have to be turned on by it, obviously. I think most men (and a lot of women) are visual...and what a visual it is, to watch yourself climax all over your partner. I like watching the moment of ejaculation, myself. It's a huge turn on, and makes me feel awesome to know that I made him feel that kind of pleasure. less
I think there's also something about "marking" your lover that guys find sexy with facials or cumming on their partner. At least, I like to feel that I've been marked as his. He's indicated that he's doing that to me when he does cum on me, though that was a development that came later, because I was the one that told him I wanted him to cum on me in the first place.
Facials and cumming in your partner's mouth have been around long before pornography. Even if you saw it in a porn and got turned on by it, seeing it in pornography isn't enough to make it something you want--you have to be turned on by it, obviously. I think most men (and a lot of women) are visual...and what a visual it is, to watch yourself climax all over your partner. I like watching the moment of ejaculation, myself. It's a huge turn on, and makes me feel awesome to know that I made him feel that kind of pleasure. less
11/23/2012
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Too funny. Maybe could work as hair gel...ha, ha?!
Originally posted by
El-Jaro
Not mine. After it leaves my body, I could care less (pregnancy notwithstanding). They could spackle the wall with it for all I care.
11/23/2012
table38792
Possible reasons I can think of:
marking territory/property
getting her dirty
seeing her enjoy it
accepting the end result of the orgasm
pride
etc
marking territory/property
getting her dirty
seeing her enjoy it
accepting the end result of the orgasm
pride
etc
11/23/2012
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I don't mind it anywhere....except my face. However, he knows it's such a treat for me, he let's me swallow, mostly! It's all good!
Originally posted by
Babylove09
I agree with you I am one for swallowing and having him cum anywhere on me. It is a turn on.
11/23/2012
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Good point. I do!
Originally posted by
hmb12
I believe there's actually something hormonal with girls that the scent of cum makes them horny or turned on. It can be gross at first for some, but I've heard that most girls just naturally like the smell.
11/23/2012
I don't know.
11/23/2012
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Mr. Bignuf here. Glad I'm not alone! We are on the same page!
Originally posted by
RonLee
I much prefer to cum inside my partner. In my partner's mouth and for my partner to swallow, I do. To cum on someone's face just doesn't do anything positive for me but that's just me I guess.
11/23/2012
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Indeed! It is a fantasy paradise! We all just have different fantasy's! The key, I guess, is finding a partner willing to share those fantasy's back and forth.
Originally posted by
UnknownGirl
Perfect response, Supervixen. It not at all a fantasy in our house. It's very much a reality. Most sex sessions end with cum on either my face or tits.
11/23/2012
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11/23/2012
If a lady finishes me off and I give her a facial or swallow, I think it's hot. Otherwise I don't think much of it.
11/23/2012
Sometimes I think it is a dominance submission thing. I can't say why, but like being on either end of it.
I like Supervixen's summary of it as well.
I like Supervixen's summary of it as well.
12/06/2012
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Done it before
Originally posted by
Babylove09
I've always wanted to know why is it that guys have a fantasy of cumming on the others face or in their mouth?
12/06/2012
Eh. I don't get the appeal as a woman.
12/06/2012
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Sadly a lot of people bring expectations from porn into real life relationships. What kills me is when they don't even ask first. Facials are a hard limit for me so it makes me veeeery upset when a guy pushes the issue.
Originally posted by
ginnyluvspotter
I have been told that guys see it in porn and think real girl would like it too but I didnt
12/06/2012
It's not a fantasy for me.
My wife sometimes likes it if I cum on her boobs and I think it is a turn-on for her.
My wife sometimes likes it if I cum on her boobs and I think it is a turn-on for her.
12/07/2012