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michael scofield michael scofield
if you met a guy that you really liked. you were attracted to him psychically an you liked his personality. and he told you he was a virgin. How would you react? im 23 by the way.
04/15/2012
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Bex1331 Bex1331
hmmm... it wouldn't be a problem, just all the more reason to keep the lines of communication open and make sure he was comfortable with everything we do each step of the way.
04/15/2012
Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
It wouldn't surprise me or change my mind about him, if that's what you're asking.
04/15/2012
Nazaress Nazaress
I'd be happier to find out he was a virgin. When I started dating my boyfriend, he had much (much, much) more experience than me, even if I hadn't been a virgin before I met him. I often felt inadequate. So him being a virgin, too, would have been wonderful.
04/15/2012
interestingstuff interestingstuff
Quote:
Originally posted by michael scofield
if you met a guy that you really liked. you were attracted to him psychically an you liked his personality. and he told you he was a virgin. How would you react? im 23 by the way.
No bad habits? I'd be fine. I don't know about you, but I'm a virgin, and I think it would be nice if I met someone like that. Like heartless 1331 said, communication is really important. Perhaps you could help nurture his sexuality,and do all sorts of kinky things!
04/15/2012
voenne voenne
We were all virgins at one time, there's no reason that would change my perspective of someone. Unless the circumstances are that this person says they are a virgin and intend on keeping it that way, because difference in morals don't usually mesh well. I've been in that position before, and felt guilty for a while coming to terms with taking their virginity - but it definitely didn't turn me away! In fact, I kind of like it. It's like I get to start over, without worrying about if my partner has any expectations or having the thought of being compared to their past partners, having baggage, etc. I think it's sweet.
04/15/2012
True Pleasures True Pleasures
Fine by me. Actually, if I weren't married, I'd probably be looking for a virgin.
04/15/2012
catsin catsin
Quote:
Originally posted by michael scofield
if you met a guy that you really liked. you were attracted to him psychically an you liked his personality. and he told you he was a virgin. How would you react? im 23 by the way.
I probably wouldn't go for him unless I wanted to develop a relationship.

Reason being I've had guys fall head over heals for me after having casual sex, and I'm worried that is EXACTLY what would happen with a virgin.
04/16/2012
anonkitty anonkitty
It wouldn't bother me. It's just another facet of the person, not what defines them.
04/16/2012
nanamondoute nanamondoute
Wouldn't bother me a bit. I think personality is more important than whether he is a virgin or not. But...if he's really bad in bed after a while...maybe that changes things...
04/26/2012
sktb0007 sktb0007
I'd be fine with it!
04/26/2012
blondie blondie
Wouldnt have to worry about catching anything
04/26/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
I wouldn't care. Would be shocked but not in a BAD way and I wouldn't act shocked or anything to hurt his feelings. Honestly I would have loved if my fiance was and I was his first. And I truly wish I would have waited until I was sure I loved someone before I went that step but so is life. It's not a big deal at all.

As for being bad in bed as someone mentioned, if you get with someone that really cares about you, they can help tell you what they do or don't like and help that way. But don't get all scared about being horrible, relax and just go with it. Plus lots of women like when a guy asks he what she likes and wants .
04/26/2012
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Kinda hot..
04/26/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
It wouldn't bother me, it might even be a turn on.
04/26/2012
wetone123 wetone123
I think it would be nice to actually meet a virgin. It's totally OK by me. My 1st husband and I were each others first. Turned out fine. Your instincts tell you what to do in most cases. I do not think anyone would hold it against someone for being a virgin. We all were once! I even think most women would love having a virgin for the lack of diseases Some experienced lovers may have, if nothing else.
04/26/2012
shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by michael scofield
if you met a guy that you really liked. you were attracted to him psychically an you liked his personality. and he told you he was a virgin. How would you react? im 23 by the way.
you know i think it depends on the woman,how old and mature she is and what kind of morals she holds.If shes someone that thinks sex is open and has alot of sexual partners she might shy away from you..or Im thinking someone in your age group that doesnt have extreme morals like apparently you do might shy away.Im 32 and a chick..in my opinion it wouldnt bother me..I would just look at it like I get to be your teacher and I know you dont have any stds..lmao! If you want to know what this chick will think when you tell her just have a conversation putting it like you saw it on tv or you know someone thats a virgin at your age..dont make it sounds bad because then she will agree,but this way your not embarrassing yourself and getting hurt.I think if she likes you in the end it shouldnt matter if your a virgin or not.Good Luck!
04/26/2012
Beck Beck
It would depend on if he told me he was saving himself for marriage. That would be a difference in morals for me, so I couldn't handle that. I wouldn't be turned on or off by the fact he was a virgin.
04/26/2012
BabyCheeks BabyCheeks
It would be a problem because I'm still a virgin...however Beck makes a good point. I'm not necessarily saving myself for marriage.
04/26/2012
jennifur77 jennifur77
Quote:
Originally posted by michael scofield
if you met a guy that you really liked. you were attracted to him psychically an you liked his personality. and he told you he was a virgin. How would you react? im 23 by the way.
Wouldn't bother me. Like someone said, don't have to worry about catching any diseases!
05/03/2012
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