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are there any G-spot vibes you would use for beginner anal play? I still don't want the SHARTS & have read about many peoples' experiences. and they all vary from one end of the experience spectrum to the other.
I would personally never, ever use a g-spot vibe for anal play. Period. I suppose (depending on the texture and material) that it would be safe to do so if it was just the tip of the vibe and the vibe could be completely sanitized afterward though.
Personally, my husband and I have been having anal sex and playing with toys for about 5 years now and it's a pretty regular thing in our lives now. When we first started, it took me hours of research to find a good clean out system that I liked for myself.
Everyone who has responded to this question has given GREAT advice! I have found that for myself, the best approach is to make sure I use the bathroom FIRST, then I fill an empty enema bottle with plain warm water and clean out. When using this method, you don't need to hold the water in your rectum for long at all. Just get the water in there and then release. This will make sure that your rectum is washed out well...and if the water looks dirty or murky, "rinse and repeat" until it comes back out clear.
I also make sure that when I do my clean out that it's at least 30 minutes to an hour before I plan on any anal play or anal sex happening. This will give your body a good amount of time to absorb any leftover water inside.
Also, I do get the "sharts"....but that's only after my husband finishes off inside me..so I guess that's more like the "jizzarts" LOL! And that only lasts for like...5 minutes RIGHT after we're done. I've never had any problems hours later or the next day.
As far asa first time anal toy, I would suggest a small anal plug or anal beads like ScorpioCurves suggested. That way you can play by yourself to get accustomed to the sensation and gradually work your way up from there if you want.