Strap on harness - advice for smaller women?

Ed.Dantes Ed.Dantes
My girlfriend and I are experimenting in the strap on play. The problem I have found is that she is very small (size 0). Are their harnesses that are better for smaller women?
08/05/2008
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Originally posted by Ed.Dantes
My girlfriend and I are experimenting in the strap on play. The problem I have found is that she is very small (size 0). Are their harnesses that are better for smaller women?
I have a double strap stle harness called the Jaguar. I am NOT a size 0, but I would think any good leather harness would fit. Mine will go down to fit a size 29 inch hip size, and if you needed it smaller than that you could just punch a couple more holes through the leather. I would think that a double strap (think jock strap) harness would be able to fit just about any size given that the leg straps can be tightened to fit legs that are incredibly thin. Also with a leather harness you don't have to worry about it tearing if you do need to punch a hole through it.

Hopefully someone of that size (or at least closer than me) will be able to give some advice from actual experience. Best of luck to both of you in finding something great!
08/05/2008
Cock Wrangler Cock Wrangler
Quote:
Originally posted by Ed.Dantes
My girlfriend and I are experimenting in the strap on play. The problem I have found is that she is very small (size 0). Are their harnesses that are better for smaller women?
I have a partner who's very thin, and they actually have trouble with harnesses being too large. What you might want to do is get basic leather harness, a leather punch ($10-15 at a hardware store) and punch holes for her size.
08/07/2008
buttslut buttslut
my god, i would love to find a woman into using a strap on on a guy. i'm gay and have had a fantasy of being fucked by a girl for as long as i can remember.
12/10/2008
55 Plus 55 Plus
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Originally posted by buttslut
my god, i would love to find a woman into using a strap on on a guy. i'm gay and have had a fantasy of being fucked by a girl for as long as i can remember.
My husband and I engage in this type of play all the time. We both take turns playing role reversal games and it is fantastic! My husband is totally straight but will allow me to turn him into a gay cross dressing sissy for the night. Pumps, lace, make up, wig the whole out fit. I usually dress up and play the male role or put on my leather out fit and turn into a real harsh fem dom. I use a variety of realistic strap on penises on him and force him to take it like a woman in every position that you can imagine! The orgasms for both of us are the greatest! I am sure if you go to the right dating site you will find plenty of women are very interested in this type of play and would love to engage! Please be careful though.
01/05/2009
Kinky Kitty Kinky Kitty
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Originally posted by buttslut
my god, i would love to find a woman into using a strap on on a guy. i'm gay and have had a fantasy of being fucked by a girl for as long as i can remember.
Wish there were more of you in the world! Although I can't help out with your fantasy, I am going to try it on my (straight) boyfriend! WOOHOO! We are both super excited! I'm ordering the Jaguar and debating between several accessories!
03/19/2009
PurpleReign PurpleReign
Cock Wrangler is right about adding more cinch holes to the Jaguar or other leather harnesses...though I'd recommend buying a mini punch set from Tandy Leather (about 10 or 11 bucks) and use one of those cheap dollar store green hobby cutting boards and a hammer for a much cleaner cut and punch through than the standard plier type leather punch.

As for a harness to try... maybe give the very inexpensive but effective Bare as You Dare EF sells; that might help try and get a sense, without much cost before you try one of the premium leather offerings.
03/19/2009
TinyTease TinyTease
You could also try the Boy Shorts Harness from Grrl Toyz/Topco. The small is really more like an extra small and would probably fit her pretty well. Also, the cloth type usually have adjustable straps that pull to tighten.
04/29/2009
deceased deceased
Sedeux Couture leather harness will fit a size zero woman. Jaguar comes pretty close. Grrl Toys shorts' size small starts at a 6 to 10 woman's size, and the croth is covered. Spare Parts Joque is quite adjustable for petite and fuller figures.
06/02/2009
Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
I'm a little bigger than your partner, about a size 2, and I find Aslan's Pleasure Principle fits me well, as well as the aforementioned Boy Shorts from Grrl Toyz.
06/02/2009
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