TIPS on best beginner strap on?

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Male harnesses are out of stock...
Looks like all the male harnesses are out of stock. Has anyone one had luck DP with one of the other standard harnesses? Or is there a brand name to

How do I know which size I need?
I am having a hard time deciding on the sizing. I'm a fairly small person but according to the suggested size, I'd have to get a large. My pant size..

Strap It On - why BDSM? Where could it go?
I've been thinking about the placement of the Strap It On forum for a while now. It's currently under BDSM, and while many strappers are into the BSDM...

How do you know if a strap on is good to buy?
Hard to tell shopping online so curious.

Looking for FF strap on porn?
I am looking for a decent stap on porn with two women. Women that actually appear like they like touching either other and light on the BDSM and...