I've been trying and trying to get into it but it doesn't do much for me. I'm relaxed, lubed, aroused as all hell.... started small.... I've done everything right but I just don't enjoy it. I'm open to it, it's just not for me.
That said, don't let my experience be a determining factor. Many men and women find it to be amazing. I think it's great that they do. My Mr enjoys it a great deal. It's just not for me
. If you decide to try something, start with a finger or a very small toy WITH A FLARED BASE. Small toys can get lodged in your rectum so you definitely want something with a base. This, I think, is a great place to start, it's about the size of a finger: li'l end