So as I'm butt/anal obsessed... the most successful way for me to get off with sex of any kind is through anal sex. I sadly almost never reach orgasm during sex, mostly due to how long it takes me to get there and I run out of energy before I do. But as usually as there is a lull while I prepare my partner for anal sex after we've started off with oral and vaginal sex before hand... I get a moment to gain my energy back while I warm her up.
My girlfriend seems to get off through clit stimulation; however, what seems to bring her to a heightened state is penetration with stimulations of the clit at the same time. Most recently I let her try my Lelo Hugo
which provided her internal and external stimulations, which she found amazing!! I was inspired to have her try it from a woman's review on Lelo's website. But this will be included in my full review of this toy that should be up early June.
She also had a mind blowing experience recently when we had anal sex while using the Lelo Tiani 3
to stimulate her clit.