Men, How do you feel using a realistic dildo on your partner?

irishlove irishlove
My boyfriend doesn't want me to get a realistic dildo. I thought it's a great idea because it tends to hurt when he first enters me. By the time the pain goes away, he tends to cum. I figured he could use a dildo of an actual penis shape/size on me before engaging in sex. I think he's afraid of being replaced. Guys, what's your thoughts? Woman, do you have a realistic dildo and does your partner mind? Any other tips or advice is welcome
Mar 25, 2:22 pm
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Some guys are insecure about sex toys in general because toys make them think their sexual performance is inadequate. Realistic dildos can lead to other insecurity about a partner seemingly enjoying a penis other than the guy's own; some couples stick to realistic dildos that match the man's flesh tone or use only a realistic dildo made from one of those penis cloning kits. Some people may dislike realistic dildos because the dildos resemble dismembered body parts.

I personally don't have any hangups about sex toys and view them as sex accessories or sex enhancers. Heck, if my gf wants to fantasize that I have multiple cocks or she's getting a gangbang or she's shooting a porno with some porn star, more pleasure to her. I don't have any cuckold inclinations but I find it hot to watch a woman be dirty enough to play with realistic dildos or any extreme ones like the njoy Eleven or anything from Bad Dragon.
Mar 25, 5:10 pm
Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
If your boyfriend doesn't want you to get something realistic, I'd suggest speaking with him to find out his reasoning. Is he receptive to you having something that is less realistic. ...or something smaller and less threatening? Maybe you can come to a happy compromise. If not, you could always get something for your own personal playtime. Either way, I'd recommend sticking with 100% silicone. Have fun.
Mar 25, 7:08 pm
charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
There are many out there that aren't realistic looking but will still fit the bill and do the job you're looking for. If it's just the realism that bugs him, I say go colorful and whimsical.
Mar 25, 7:27 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by irishlove
My boyfriend doesn't want me to get a realistic dildo. I thought it's a great idea because it tends to hurt when he first enters me. By the time the pain goes away, he tends to cum. I figured he could use a dildo of an actual penis shape/size ... More
Hubby isn't here right now, but I can answer for us both. The only "penis" I want in me is his. Period. As for him, he doesn't want any penis in him. Period. (It's a hetero thing). Does he enjoy anal penetration? Yes, from me! However our toys are TOYS. I want them to look like toys, not some disembodied body part. The more "toy like" the toy (bright colors...etc) the better for us both! That is how we feel about it, anyway.
Mar 25, 9:10 pm
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by charmedtomeetyou
There are many out there that aren't realistic looking but will still fit the bill and do the job you're looking for. If it's just the realism that bugs him, I say go colorful and whimsical.
Bingo. Colorful and whimsical. I love it.
Mar 25, 9:11 pm
November November
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Hubby isn't here right now, but I can answer for us both. The only "penis" I want in me is his. Period. As for him, he doesn't want any penis in him. Period. (It's a hetero thing). Does he enjoy anal penetration? Yes, from me! ... More
You know, Bignuf has a good point here. Some people like their toys to look like toys. A lot of toys don't look realistic when they're in fun, bright colors. Have you thought about getting a Vixskin in a tie bright color? I know they make the Mustang in tie bright. I think a tie bright Mustang might fit the bill, it's a realistic dildo that doesn't look realistic because of the color. EF no longer carries the tie bright color in Vixskin, BUT you can Google Vixskin Mustang tie bright and find places that do carry it.
Mar 26, 11:37 am
ILoveToWatchMyWife ILoveToWatchMyWife
Personally I love to watch my wife with toys, be realistic or "whimsical"!!! I prefer realistic toys when I am playing with her, she prefers fake, she wont use the toys herself(that's my job i am told!) so i get an upfront view and show that beats all!!! The way you stated your side you are lacking in pleasure from what i can tell, If you aren't satisfied then you need to tell him and make sure he holds his end up. If he won't bring in a toy you want to help satisfy you then he needs to go down town and use his mouth and fingers to warm you up good. also just a tip mucinex at maximum does for a week or two and he will last for hours!!!

Also about the pain get checked by your doctor doesn't mean anything is wrong but it never hurts to make sure everything is OK down there... My wife did because we had the same problem with the pain part.
Mar 28, 4:44 pm
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by irishlove
My boyfriend doesn't want me to get a realistic dildo. I thought it's a great idea because it tends to hurt when he first enters me. By the time the pain goes away, he tends to cum. I figured he could use a dildo of an actual penis shape/size ... More
I hate realistic toys. I love doing things with my husband, but a toy should not look like the real thing as far as I'm concerned. I'd recommend you try using different types of lube before doing things or have him enter you and not move for a bit so you can stretch a bit to accommodate him. Then tell him that he needs to take a break of about 30-60 seconds whenever he thinks he is going to cum until you are ready for him to so that you can both fully enjoy the experience.
Apr 3, 3:51 pm
Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
We like the realistic ones cuz I like the way it looks. Makes me feel like it's real and my hubby enjoys it to when I peg him. It's a comfort thing though, I love the feel of him inside me and nothing can replace that. Just because it looks real it's still a toy for us. But different strokes for different folks..
Apr 10, 8:49 am
toyluvers78 toyluvers78
I think it's great, doesn't matter if it's realistic or colorful. It gives her a different feel without involving some real live ding dong.
Apr 28, 3:21 pm
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