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Okay so I am new to sex toys. I just purchased 2 new toys, Jenna’s Velvet Royal Jewels and the Emerald Studs Arouser. And I am a virgin as well. When I tried these 2 toys I couldn’t seem to get it all in (if you know what I am talking about). And
Okay so I am new to sex toys. I just purchased 2 new toys, Jenna’s Velvet Royal Jewels and the Emerald Studs Arouser. And I am a virgin as well. When I tried these 2 toys I couldn’t seem to get it all in (if you know what I am talking about). And when I do get some in I feel some stretching feeling going on and I start have pain from the stretching feeling. Do you think is cause I am really tight? Or maybe I am suppose to put it in a certain way? Sorry if I am not making myself clear enough, I just don't know how to really type it down and I am in a little bit of pain from trying to use these toys.
It could be because your vagina is not used to having anything in it, yes.
Because you are a virgin, you may also have an intact hymen (skin which partially and sometimes completely covers the opening of the vagina). Sex, toys and even other activities like using tampons or even riding a bike cause the hymen to break. If you're familiar with the term "popping the cherry" in reference to having sex the first time, they're talking about the hymen. If you continue, you may break your hymen and experience some pain and bleeding but that is absolutely normal.
What will make this easier for you is if you use lubrication. I recommend ID Glide, a water based lubricant which is safe for all toys but you can check out EF's lubricant section by following this link
Also, if you're having difficulties, by all means trying inserting in different ways and you might also try being in different positions - lying down, standing, sitting, squatting, etc.
It also helps to be relaxed and aroused.