What would you do if your spouse/significant other discovered your toy(s)?

Bme Bme
I know about all my wife's toys. I want her to use them while I am gone (out of town) so she will be happy. Gets grumpy otherwise.
04/07/2013
ChubbyNerd ChubbyNerd
My partner would know about all of my toys, so it wouldn't bother me if he found them.
04/07/2013
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
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Originally posted by butts
Personally I don't think it's a good idea to marry someone who doesn't know EVERYTHING about you already : / Hiding things, even somewhat "silly" things like toys can be a big deal. My partner has seen every single toy, he ... More
I completely agree with this! (I'm not married, but it's still vital in relationships to not hide things as well)
Besides, the more they know, they more they can join in the fun of using your toys on you. ;]
04/07/2013
yargle yargle
I'd be embarrassed just because we haven't been dating that long and he's sort of vanilla. I plan to ease him into it.
04/08/2013
sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
He/She KNOWS about ALL of my toys! I practically set them out as room decor!
04/08/2013
tami tami
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Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
if I used toys it would be my secret and none of his business
04/08/2013
snowminx snowminx
My partners knows about my toys and even uses some on me from time to time
04/08/2013
never shy never shy
My husband knows all my toys more fun for him to use them on me
04/08/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
Ummmm....since we buy them together, I guess it would mean he is putting in fresh batteries? He intends to entertain me with some tonight? Maybe he is cleaning the dust bunnies out of the closet? Who knows???
04/08/2013
(k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Hubby and I actually built our collection together. Neither of us owned any sex toys before we started dating.
04/08/2013
surreptitious surreptitious
I would not be comfortable in a relationship where I felt like I had to hide my sexuality from my partner.
04/08/2013
MrsandMrbunnysoffun MrsandMrbunnysoffun
I have no reason to hide them from my husband. I would have made sure when we first got serious that he had a brief introduction to all of my "little friends".
04/17/2013
FieryRed FieryRed
It is odd and a bit sad to think that there are women and/or men out there who don't feel comfortable letting their partners know about their sex toys. Sharing something so pleasurable and intimate can really increase your closeness, as well as your mutual satisfaction! If you're afraid your partner might feel concern about being "replaced", let them know that you'd enjoy it so much more if they would use it on you or with you...or perhaps they'd just like to watch you use it! For my partner and I, toys are an integral part of our sex life, and when we aren't feeling up to having full-on sex, we still get turned on by using our toys side by side.
04/17/2013
Rokmai Rokmai
I would be hurt if she hid some of them. There's no reason to hide that.

More importantly, I wanna play with them...
04/17/2013
LoneOokami LoneOokami
I dont hide them, we pick them out together
05/18/2013
Castielskitten Castielskitten
My hubby knows about each and every toy that passes through this house. He also knows they are on my side of the bed incase I ever wake up horny and he's not there T-T. He's asked me if they were there for quick access and I was like, "Only when you're not here."
05/18/2013
Rawr4483 Rawr4483
I've never hidden them. They pretty much lay around everywhere
05/18/2013
Nezzie13 Nezzie13
It wouldn't bother me; my bf knows I'm into sex toys. He thinks I own a ridiculous number of dildos (I want to show him some of the Flash Your Stash posts!), but aside from some teasing he's fine with it. The only thing is that I'm working up to using the Tantus Cush and he doesn't like the idea of me using "the blue one" That's really ironic, since I got the Cush to keep myself ready for him!
06/08/2013
Pierced Blaqk Skies Pierced Blaqk Skies
There's no need for me to hide mine from my partner. He knows about every toy I own and is totally okay with me having them.
06/08/2013
angel42539 angel42539
We know about each others toys. We buy them for each other.
06/08/2013
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
For the most part my significant other is aware of the toys Before I even order! A few times I have thrown in a surprise or two, but he eventually gets an introduction.
06/09/2013
Badonk Badonk
My boyfriend encourages me to use toys, he enjoys me experimenting and, in turn, bringing that to the bedroom
07/05/2013
deadxgone deadxgone
Quote:
Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
my bf prefers i use toys. he loves them.
07/20/2013
NorthBayLady NorthBayLady
Nothing. He has one of his own
07/20/2013
wicked48 wicked48
He know about them.
07/21/2013
Babylove09 Babylove09
Quote:
Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
I told my husband about my toys be4 we got married and he was a lil confused at first as to why i had them, but after i told him our sex life and love making got 100 times better
07/21/2013
SecretCouple SecretCouple
Quote:
Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
We purchase our toys together, so that is never a problem!
07/22/2013
lana'sart lana'sart
Quote:
Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
He want to play with them
07/22/2013
timpt timpt
Quote:
Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
That's the thing! I like to buy for my girlfriend and either leave them where she will find them and wonder or just ask. Shes a little shy that way and I don't believe in springing anything on anyone. Plus anticipation is the best aphrodisiac! I just bought a remote controllled waterproof bullet I want to use at the beach. Ill leave it in the open tell her what its for and go from there. Its only fun for me if she likes it and she can decide on her own. Then when shes ready and says yes the buildup starts. I have to say that part is awesome. If done with the right timing watch out and hold on tight. And btw she always said she was never interested in accessories. So I say let them find it you have nothing to lose. At the very east you open a line of communication and that's always good
07/24/2013
EternalSally030613 EternalSally030613
Quote:
Originally posted by Kiss
Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question ... More
He not only accepts mine and assists with the use of them, but encourages me to try/use whatever strikes my fancy
07/24/2013
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