What Would You Say Anal Sex Feels Like For A Guy?

Phoenix713 Phoenix713
I've never had anal sex with a woman, and I am wondering what it would feel like for me, because my wife wants to try it and I'm starting to get interested. Does it feel like a vagina? Does it feel tighter, or different? Does it feel wetter? What kind of lube should I use? I'm not very large, but will I hurt my wife?
11/14/2010
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ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Can not tell you what it feels like, have not had the pleasure. But I can answer you last two questions.

For lube You want something thick, like hair gel. I like Maximus for all my butt play, but some have reactions to it (burning) so that is something to consider. You can also use silicone based lubes but they are not as thick so you may need to reapply. Oil based works too but in some women it can cause problems in the vagina. My thought is depending on the position you are in, it will drip down there. Safe bet, water based. What ever you use, use a bunch. When you think you have enough, add more and don't be afraid to add more as needed.

Anal play should not hurt! It can not be stressed enough! If she feels pain, stop. Add more lube and take a break for a bit.

Has she/you played with fingers and toy's? If so is the toy as big as you? If not you need to start with fingers or maybe small dildo's. She has to learn to relax the sphincter and be comfortable as much as possible before toys and then you. This can take some time so don't rush things. If she is already taking toys your size you should be good to go.

Get her really turned on, maybe give her an orgasm and then go slow. Keep the communication open and enjoy the new experience.
11/14/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I believe what you are describing is 'pegging' - which I have not done. I have however been penetrated by a variety of toys. Some just sit there like anal plugs - but others are shaft like and involve thrusting similar to anal sex.

I don't care for plugs - unless they vibrate. She'll put one in my ass, then climb on top cowgirl style and we'll both enjoy the vibes.

For thrusting toys I actually prefer non-vibrating - but we have both. The thrusting feels great - it helps to have a toy with some texture - but not a lot. Glass is my favorite - it slides easiest - especially with silicone lube.

What does it feel like? It's hard to describe - I just enjoy it and leave it at that.
11/15/2010
Phoenix713 Phoenix713
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Can not tell you what it feels like, have not had the pleasure. But I can answer you last two questions.

For lube You want something thick, like hair gel. I like Maximus for all my butt play, but some have reactions to it (burning) so that ... More
Thank you for the excellent advice! That was a big help.
11/15/2010
Phoenix713 Phoenix713
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I believe what you are describing is 'pegging' - which I have not done. I have however been penetrated by a variety of toys. Some just sit there like anal plugs - but others are shaft like and involve thrusting similar to anal sex.

I ... More
No, I mean myself having anal sex with her. But thanks for the second opinion!
11/15/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
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Originally posted by Phoenix713
I've never had anal sex with a woman, and I am wondering what it would feel like for me, because my wife wants to try it and I'm starting to get interested. Does it feel like a vagina? Does it feel tighter, or different? Does it feel wetter? ... More
From my experience most "givers" enjoy it, the receiver on the other end needs to be the one who is the most relaxed. I've heard men say they enjoy anal, but it doesn't feel like a pussy. You will need LOTS of lube, don't be forceful, and practice. Obviously, it's not meant to be fucked, and you could damage it if you go hog wild and don't use enough lube. It's not something you want to do to her all the time in place of pussy. have fun and good luck!
11/15/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Phoenix713
Thank you for the excellent advice! That was a big help.
Any time.
11/15/2010
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Phoenix713
I've never had anal sex with a woman, and I am wondering what it would feel like for me, because my wife wants to try it and I'm starting to get interested. Does it feel like a vagina? Does it feel tighter, or different? Does it feel wetter? ... More
I asked my husband what was different about it for him. He told me it is way tighter than my vagina and that my muscle contractions are way more intense when I orgasm and completely different than regular sex. He told me the only way he can enjoy it is if he can sense that I am enjoying it first because he never wants to hurt me. So, I am learning to get very vocal by telling him exactly what I like and what it feels like for me. I will tell him if I need more lube, but certainly more lube is always better and warming up with a bath and maybe incorporating some anal massage & toy action first always helps. Anal sex is not something that happens regularly. It is certainly not a replacement for regular sex.
11/15/2010
Coralbell Coralbell
My partner says it feels the same but tighter. He actually thinks it's too tight and it makes him a little sore afterwards.
11/15/2010
ScottA ScottA
It's tight, but mostly for the first inch or so (where the anal sphincters are). After that it's still a bit different, as the rectum bends and has folds whereas the vagina is mostly straight.

Make sure to take plenty of time. Start with outside play using a lubed finger, then slowly move on to insertion play and slowly move up in size until the receiver is taking something about the size of the penis. Use plenty of lube and make sure they are completely relaxed (or as close as possible). Plan on this whole process taking about a month if you do anal play regularly.

As far as the pegging poster goes - it's not what you meant, but having her play with your butt is fun as well. Same recommendations apply there.
11/15/2010
Twist Twist
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Originally posted by Phoenix713
I've never had anal sex with a woman, and I am wondering what it would feel like for me, because my wife wants to try it and I'm starting to get interested. Does it feel like a vagina? Does it feel tighter, or different? Does it feel wetter? ... More
It feels like a tight vagina if you use enough lube. Over time it will loosen up a little but its still tight. Tell your wife to workout her PC muscle and later down she can squeeze your cock so tightly that it will feel like she could cut it off.
My girl will do anal during her period as I don't like messing with blood and she gets pleasure but not nearly as much as vaginal.
11/16/2010
Luvbugleah Luvbugleah
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Originally posted by Phoenix713
I've never had anal sex with a woman, and I am wondering what it would feel like for me, because my wife wants to try it and I'm starting to get interested. Does it feel like a vagina? Does it feel tighter, or different? Does it feel wetter? ... More
It is a unique experience. Its tighter and warmer. use lots of lube and go slow the first few time you do it. If she says it hurts go slower and more shallow. Its a delicate process the first time.
11/18/2010
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