Have you ever been pregnant?

Thank you, some would say honesty is all I have.

The first time I didn't and only my partner knew about the last two and he was incredibly supportive. Overly supportive at some points. It wasn't a banner I wanted to go waving in front of my family. *knocks on wood* We've been really successful in preventing pregnancy since and I do sometimes think about how old they would be or where we would be in life, but those decisions have been made and it certainly isn't one that you can take back.

It's not a pleasant experience by any means and the first was extremely traumatic because the doctor told me if I screamed or cried one more time he was going to charge me another $100. The other two, I was asleep for and for that I am more than thankful.

I do kind of feel like I have to caveat this experience with "I SWEAR I WAS RESPONSIBLE" and did everything like I was supposed to but when you change birth controls every three months due to side effects, things happen. :/