I stay away from lubes that are purported to "do" anything. I don't like "warming" "tingling" "cooling" or flavored lubes. They all burn me and cause infections.
I like a lube with as few ingredients as possible. Something simple from Sliquid is what we use. I actually prefer their old formula, but they changed it, and the "more natural" version of their lubes actually cause more burning in me than the old stuff. Can't get the old stuff, sadly.
I'd stay away from lubes with glycerine, parabens and those that do anything other than lubricate. It isn't worth the pain.
I hope you feel better.