Requirements to achieve orgasm - What are yours? (directed at women)

Contributor: C4ss C4ss
I need a little clitoral stimulation and penetration.
12/02/2010
Contributor: joja joja
I can orgasm from clitoral stimulation or penetration alone, though weirdly enough I prefer them separately. I find one distracts from the other during dual stimulation. Haven't had a breast orgasm yet, but I'm working on it!
12/02/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I really need the clitoral stimulation, although I find it to be much much better with penetration too.
12/02/2010
Contributor: Mistress Kitty Mistress Kitty
I put clitoral stimulation but I personally cum ALOT faster when penetration is added.
12/08/2010
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Clitoral is the only way I KNOW I'll orgasm.
12/08/2010
Contributor: SingingStarr SingingStarr
Penetration, dominance, dirty talk, a little asphyxiation, Foreplay is a must, teasing, just about anything.
12/08/2010
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Clitoral stimulation is a must, penetration helps a ton, and a bit of anal stimulation will put me right over the top
12/13/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by toxie m
Clitoral stimulation is a must, penetration helps a ton, and a bit of anal stimulation will put me right over the top
txymxy - interesting to hear about how anal helps you achieve orgasm. My wife generally doesn't have any trouble having an orgasm - but I'm just getting her to warm up to the idea. Any advice on what types of anal stimulation works best for you would be appreciated. Pressure? Penetration? Fingers? Plugs? Vibes? Thanks!
12/14/2010
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
txymxy - interesting to hear about how anal helps you achieve orgasm. My wife generally doesn't have any trouble having an orgasm - but I'm just getting her to warm up to the idea. Any advice on what types of anal stimulation works best for ... more
Personally I think I'm just wired to like it, the first time a boyfriend ever put any pressure against my butt while going down on me I had my first orgasm I'd say just start with pressure and teasing around the area to get her interested in the feeling, and add a bit of penetration if she decides she wants it. It took me years to work up to more than just fingers (for lack of wanting anything more, rather than being afraid) - for me teasing and subtlety goes a long way. Finally actually having anal sex was a big step, but totally worth the time spent working up to it.
I had this for ages and adored it. Never was one for anything vibrating there though, that just is just irritatingly overstimulating.
01/06/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by toxie m
Personally I think I'm just wired to like it, the first time a boyfriend ever put any pressure against my butt while going down on me I had my first orgasm I'd say just start with pressure and teasing around the area to get her interested in ... more
txymxy - thanks for the advice. We're just starting with fingers and small vibes - I'm sure your right it's going to take a while. My plan is to entice her to request more - rather than the other way around.
01/06/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I need some sort of penetration to orgasm. Clitoral stimulation helps, but I can rarely orgasm from that alone, unless I am extremely horny (more-so than normal). Anything anal will usually throw me over the edge. Nipples don't really do much for me unless there is a lot of pressure, pinching, or biting involved (not so much that it feels as if they are going to be ripped off, but just shy of painful).
02/11/2011
Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
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Originally posted by Unconventional
My needs have changed a bit since I first started having orgasms, and what I didn't used to think was possible is now the only way I can even get off. So, in order for you to get off, do you need:

(Penetration meaning vaginal. I forgot to ... more
I'm answering for my girlfriend. She needs g-spot stimulation from my fingers to orgasm. So far nothing else works. I'm working on it though!
02/11/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
The clit stim is a must but I like to have my nipples played with as well. They go hand in hand really.
02/11/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
I need clitoral AND penetration. I really need both, otherwise its reall hard.
I should specify, penetration as something inside my vagina but hits my g-spot. I need both g-spot stim and clitoral stimulation.
02/11/2011
Contributor: Wild Orchid Wild Orchid
Clitoral stimulation is enough most of the time. If I feel like I'm not getting anywhere I'll add anal penetration. When I have time for a longer session I use clitoral + vaginal or clitoral + anal or all of the above.
02/12/2011
Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
Penetration and Clitoral stimulation Is the main things I need, but I'd love to have it all
02/12/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
All I need is penetration (although, direct clitoral stimulation never hurts). I was blessed; it doesn't take much for me to get off. With me on top, or him fucking me from behind it's pretty much a guaranteed orgasm within minutes if I let myself. I usually hold back a few times to draw it out, though.
02/13/2011
Contributor: Eorwyn Eorwyn
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Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
I only need clitoral stimulation, but penetration, nipple stimulation, anal, dirty talk...they all make it a lot better.
Agreed.
02/21/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
I only need my clit. Everything else just makes it easier.
02/22/2011
Contributor: lkb lkb
Clitoral stimulation is the base, but my body is an erogenous zone, itself, and and utilizing that certainly doesn't hurt.
02/23/2011
Contributor: Mnemosyne Mnemosyne
Most definitely clitoral. Without it I can hardly get off.
02/25/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
I can get off on just penetration, but it's a lot harder than if I have clitoral stimulation.
02/25/2011
Contributor: Happy Camper Happy Camper
I can get off on purely clitoral stimulation sometimes but my G-spot is the real goldmine and while the most satisfying orgasms come from all of the above (I could actually probably take or leave nipple), if I had to only choose one, it would definitely be penetration. Although I think it's difficult to say I could get off on only penetration because while thrusting the clit can get a lot of action too, however indirectly.
02/25/2011
Contributor: nicky51679 nicky51679
I MUST have clitoral stimulation.
02/27/2011
Contributor: DixieDoo DixieDoo
I can get off on clit play alone and penetration alone.
03/01/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
I can't orgasm at all, no matter what, without clitoral stimulation. If I find something else that works, I'll retract this. Lol.
03/04/2011
Contributor: lucymalfoy lucymalfoy
I'll let you know if I ever have one and find out.
03/09/2011
Contributor: MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
So far i can only get off with a vibe on my clit.
03/09/2011
Contributor: AngelicaU AngelicaU
I used to only be able to orgasm if I had clitoral stimulation. But after getting together with my boyfriend, I'm now able to cum from all of the choices. Anal is the only thing I haven't yet. The only time I did was with clitoral stimulation at the same time so I don't think that fully counts.
03/10/2011
Contributor: NaughtyButterfly NaughtyButterfly
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Originally posted by Alicia
The only thing I HAVE to have is clitoral stimulation. Of course, I get much more satisfying orgasms when penetration is involved.
Same here, I can go without penetration but it is WAY better with it.
03/10/2011