The hotness of Anal... mental or physical?

0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Why is anal hot for you?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Purely cause it feels good
16  (7%)
Cause it is so wrong and dirty and naughty and nasty
10  (5%)
Both of course
178  (81%)
Neither : (
17  (8%)
Total votes: 221
Poll is closed
01/05/2011
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Coralbell Coralbell
For me it's mainly the physical feeling but there is a mental aspect as well.
01/05/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Other. One cuz it feels good, two for the benefits of prostate massage and cuz it gave a new aspect to our sex life. I hope that one day the wife will want some too.
01/05/2011
Yoda Yoda
Definitely both. It looks hot, and it feels hot.
01/05/2011
gone77 gone77
I voted both because it's true, but I must admit that it's often more of a mental ting for me. That whole taboo thing. I mean, it's not really anymore in some ways, but it still is in my head.
01/05/2011
hornypoet69 hornypoet69
Not really a taboo thing for me. Actually the idea of anal isn't exceptionally attractive to me, sexually. And it's not that it's taboo or wrong, in my mind. It's just not that hot to me, in the same way that vaginas aren't that hot to me. That being said, I do like the sensation of anal stimulation. And it also appeals to me as an act of intimacy and trust. But when I'm watching porn, the anal scenes bore me. Give me kissing, and oral, any day.
01/05/2011
ScottA ScottA
Both. Sex is always both physical and mental, and anal is no exception.
01/05/2011
ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
Definitely both. I like the feel of it, and though it's not really taboo to me, there is a mental aspect to it. It's just hot.
01/05/2011
Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Both, of course. I wouldn't do something dirty that didn't feel good on some level...and the fact that its taboo adds a little as well.
01/05/2011
toxie m toxie m
Both. It definitely has an edginess factor that vaginal sex doesn't have for me
01/06/2011
NuMe NuMe
It is mostly physical for me. But there is that mental element as well.
01/06/2011
Alura Une Alura Une
Both. It is complicated for me. I respond to touch there almost as much as vaginal stimulation, sometimes I like anal stimulation more now. But it wasn't like that earlier on, I had to "get used to it." But it wasn't forced or anything. It was a long process that was a little complicated, took a bit of experimentation. And I'm picky about when I do it (See anal preparation thread?), and that is a bit mental. I never had negative associations exactly, but I like things being somewhat taboo.
01/06/2011
0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Well, the people have spoken... its unanimous.
01/06/2011
dv8 dv8
My gf likes anal because she likes being full.
01/06/2011
liilii080 liilii080
I think the mental and physical are connected. I don't separate them out but I've been with my partner a while so I don't think I can separate out the intimacy there.
01/06/2011
Owl Identified Owl Identified
Both for me and my partner, but the mental aspects wins out over the physical for both of us - in terms of giving and receiving.
01/06/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Why is anal hot for you?
Both
01/07/2011
Kindred Kindred
For me the mental attraction has nothing to do with it being dirty or naughty. I simply love the feel of my wife penetrating me and wrapping my legs around her. I can't get close like that when I'm penetrating her.
01/07/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
It's definitely both for me! Probably a little more on the physical side.
01/08/2011
Dusk Dusk
Definitely both. I really like the way I feel dominated by M when he's screwing me from behind.
01/08/2011
78 78
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Why is anal hot for you?
both
01/08/2011
ScottA ScottA
There's sometimes a trace of D/s when I'm on the receiving end of anal play, and while it does feel nice sometimes I don't find it essential. I do like the feeling of really being able to give it all over to her and not feel responsible for anything.
01/08/2011
ScottA ScottA
The different feelings of being on the receiving end of anal play are a turn on as well, of course.
01/08/2011
Airekah Airekah
The feelings are so intense. I love it mentally and physically.
01/11/2011
Navigator Navigator
For me receiving it, it's just a physical thing. (There isn't much left that can make me feel naughty these days. XD) When I watch it happening to someone else, though, the naughty-factor definitely comes into play. It's just awesome.
01/17/2011
hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Why is anal hot for you?
I believe it really is both.
01/18/2011
KnK KnK
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
Why is anal hot for you?
It's raunchy it's wrong and it feels so good
02/01/2011
Woman China Woman China
The feeling is amazing, the feeling of having something in my rear and pussy at the same time??? I would have to say both mental and physically arousing!
02/01/2011
bobowaxer bobowaxer
For me it's 50/50, both AWESOME!
03/14/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I do'nt get off on the nastiness, so mainly just the novelty and the sensations
03/15/2011
Total posts: 104
Unique posters: 99