Beginners Delight
This toy is very impressive to the beginners eye. Gives a sense of strap-on confidence, makes the whole experience a little less intimidating. It never failed to give an amazing encounter. Always got the job done.Published: December 9, 2008
Pros:
Beautiful design and color quality material Harness is sturdy and well made and gorgeous
Cons:
The size is a bit small
This was the first toy I ever bought. It was a gift I purchased for the benefits of my partner and I, and I'll say I did a good job for not doing so much research. At the time I was unsure of what to look for. Always do some research into materials, how they are cleaned, and the disadvantages before investing into a toy, you'll be thankful for it later. Its good to know what you are paying for.
This strap-on is very aesthetically pleasing. The flames sculpted into the dildo are a gorgeous touch and added a very nice sensation. The dildo is safe hygienic, hypoallergenic 100% silicone which after using many different materials I've found is the best feeling and easiest to maintain, the only downfall is the price. Its very easy to wash and keep sanitary. The purple crushed velvet harness was very beautiful, my partner felt more confident wearing this harness. The bullet that is included with the harness and dildo did wonders for my partner and myself. Silicone being dense, the vibrations make their way through the dildo and enhance all sensations.
We used the bullet separately for foreplay, Creates intense anticipation, and moistens you up nicely for those who don't use lubes, (like my partner and myself). For those who would want to use lube with this product must remember not to use a silicone based lube. The sound from the bullet is almost undetectable when placed in the strap on pouch (big plus when trying to be discreet). We also used the dildo without the harness between the two of us, and I found myself using it when I was alone at home and got the job done.
The dildo size is perfect for beginners or for girls/guys who are not looking for girth. I would not recommend the Flame kit for someone who would like to use a larger dildo, with the elastic o-ring the larger you get the more sag and it is not as easy to control. All in all a perfect beginners strap on, or just all around great toy. Always remember if sharing between multiple partners it is always safe to use a cover/condom on the dildo to keep from transmitting any unknown STD. It is better to be safe than sorry.
This strap-on is very aesthetically pleasing. The flames sculpted into the dildo are a gorgeous touch and added a very nice sensation. The dildo is safe hygienic, hypoallergenic 100% silicone which after using many different materials I've found is the best feeling and easiest to maintain, the only downfall is the price. Its very easy to wash and keep sanitary. The purple crushed velvet harness was very beautiful, my partner felt more confident wearing this harness. The bullet that is included with the harness and dildo did wonders for my partner and myself. Silicone being dense, the vibrations make their way through the dildo and enhance all sensations.
We used the bullet separately for foreplay, Creates intense anticipation, and moistens you up nicely for those who don't use lubes, (like my partner and myself). For those who would want to use lube with this product must remember not to use a silicone based lube. The sound from the bullet is almost undetectable when placed in the strap on pouch (big plus when trying to be discreet). We also used the dildo without the harness between the two of us, and I found myself using it when I was alone at home and got the job done.
The dildo size is perfect for beginners or for girls/guys who are not looking for girth. I would not recommend the Flame kit for someone who would like to use a larger dildo, with the elastic o-ring the larger you get the more sag and it is not as easy to control. All in all a perfect beginners strap on, or just all around great toy. Always remember if sharing between multiple partners it is always safe to use a cover/condom on the dildo to keep from transmitting any unknown STD. It is better to be safe than sorry.
Experience
Being the first toy I ever purchased, the first night is one of my fondest memories. We were both new to the whole strap-on experience. New to even putting it together and figuring what straps go where, for the beginners there should be an instruction booklet, none the less we got it together. It turned out not to be too difficult. Fumbled around for a little while, but once we got the hang of it, it offered an amazing experience. This strap-on will give you many memorable sexual encounters.
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(Eden Advanced reviewer) Love is the answer, but while you are waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty good questions.
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Harness care for the flame kit
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I did just get this yaaaay! anywho, I was wondering, for the harness itself, how should I clean it? Just do spot treaments, hand wash, or cold and gentle cycle in my washing machine?
I did even have a friend dare me to take it to the dry cleaners.
I couldn't find any info in any of the reviews or the Tantus website. This is my first harness, so I want to make sure I don't make a beginner's mistake with this. -
Quote: I did just get this yaaaay! anywho, I was wondering, for the harness itself, how should I clean it? Just do spot treaments, hand wash, or cold and gentle cycle in my washing machine?Curious - did you just order it or has it arrived already? I suspect the packaging might have some cleaning info.
I did even have a friend dare me to take it to the dry cleaners.
I couldn't find any info in any of the reviews or the Tantus website. This is my first harness, so I want to make sure I don't make a beginner's mistake with this.
I'm not sure how one goes about cleaning velvet, so I can't really be too useful. :P -
Quote: Curious - did you just order it or has it arrived already? I suspect the packaging might have some cleaning info.It's already arrived, and I checked the packaging and didn't see any care instructions for the harness, just for the dildo it came with.
I'm not sure how one goes about cleaning velvet, so I can't really be too useful. :P
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harness and clit stimulation
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lickety splitI was thinking about purchasing either the Flame harness kit that has a pocket for a bullet or the Joque. Which one would be better for clit stimulation? -
The Joque has a pocket you can put a couple bullets into.
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I prefer Missy-G strap-on compared to other strap-ons I have used in the past. I use mine with the Goddess dildo which has a bullet vibrator that attaches to the dildo. I find this combination the best compared to the strap-ons with a pouch.
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Welcome to the community! Great review!
Good review. I'm glad you enjoyed it!
Thanks for the review. I love Tantus products. I too stumbled onto them more or less by accident, and I've never looked back.
Is the o-ring on the harness really that saggy? It looks like it would be interchangable. If that's true you can replace it with a sturdier metal ring if you like.
Nice review.
Great review
I'm eagerly awaiting to purchase this product. It will be my first harness as well and I'm hoping that I have a positive experience with it as well!
Thank you for the review!
Thanks for reviewing