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Soft touch harness
Strap on harnesses
All in all, a perfect beginner's harness, made well with the ease of use, suited to a new user. A great value for such a quality-made piece.
Pros
Easy to use, well made
Cons
May not fit larger toys
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Published:August 30, 2022
Adjusting the straps loosens and tightens the harness to fit your body. Should fit securely against the body, and the triangle should rest on the pubic bone. It does not come off or loosen during vigorous use, and it should stay on as long as the straps are secure. The o-ring is not made to be removed and is stitched into the straps.
Pros
Comfortable, adjustable, durable, accommodating, fits a variety of toys, reasonable price
Cons
No interchangeable O-Ring, straps are thin, inelegant looking
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Published:April 29, 2022
This is the perfect harness for beginners of any sexual orientation. It is extremely versatile, soft, and durable, so if you're considering pegging your partner for the first time, this would be an excellent, non-intimidating option.
Pros
comfortable
easy to wear
easy to store
affordable
great for beginners
flexible O-Ring
Cons
thin straps
straps loosen after a while
not very aesthetically pleasing
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Published:October 07, 2020
This soft touch harness is a great beginner harness for those interested or just getting into strap-on play, it is easily adjustable and fits a variety of smaller toys for beginners. It is very sturdy and does not loosen up at all even during rough play. The triangle pad that sits on the pubic mound is a bit rough on the skin after a bit of use, maybe best to be worn with panties or more, depending on your style of playtime.
Pros
Easy to use
Easily adjustable
Great for beginners
Cons
Non-removable O-ring
Triangle material can rub after a bit of use
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Published:April 06, 2018
This is a wonderful beginner harness for those who aren't quite experienced in strap-on play. It fits beginner sized dildos perfectly, and is great for people who want something simple during playtime. Easy to adjust, this harness will fit a number of sizes.
Pros
Great for beginner play
Easy to adjust
Fairly sturdy
Cons
Only fits smaller toys
O-ring not removable
Chafes skin
Rating:
Published:April 06, 2018
Joque harness
I have 6 harnesses. Yes, I used more than one during our pegging sessions. This is my favorite. It's the most comfortable and holds many of my dildos. It also makes me feel sexy when wearing it.
Pros
Comfortable, Luxurious
Cons
Nada
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Published:May 10, 2021
Excellent harness, well worth paying a premium price. I’ve used mine for years, and it stands the test of pounding fun!
Overall, One of my favorite on Eden!
Pros
Excellent quality and will last over time. Excellent design.
Cons
Straps are a bit long, so I think I might trim.
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Published:November 12, 2020
In all, the Joque harness does not fail to meet the highest of expectations. Thrust, gyrate, pound or proceed with reckless abandon; the Joque won't bat an eye. If there is a gold standard to be obtained in the strap-on accessory market, the Joque will take the crown without hesitation. If you haven't purchased it yet, you haven't experienced the full spectrum of pegging.
Pros
- Rugged
- Fits many toys
- Accommodates double and strapless dildos
- Machine washable
Cons
- Quality reflected in the price
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Published:November 17, 2019
This is just a fantastic harness, all around. It's easy to put on, it's easy to take off, it is soft material that doesn't get in the way, it's not awkward to put on in the heat of the moment, and it's easy to care for. The only downfall is that the velcro can be a little loud.
Pros
Comfortable, adjustable, performs well.
Cons
Velcro is loud, but that's manageable.
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Published:February 07, 2019
This item is great for anyone who is curious about pegging or using a strap-on. I won't fall apart easily and you can explore tons of toy options.
Pros
Comfortable, with a variety of sizes and toys, easy to use
Cons
Does not work well with toys that have attached balls
Rating:
Published:June 06, 2016
Price:
$25.99
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Universal harness
This item failed to meet the expectations of my husband and myself. Although it was comfortable and easy to use we had a hard time trying different toys, especially ones that would be more suitable for what we were doing. I found this product to be mediocre at best.
Pros
Looks great
Stays in place
Cons
Hard to change toys in and out of rings
Smaller toys can't be used
Rating:
Published:July 06, 2020
New comers strap-on kit
This is perfect for beginner couples wanting to experiment with a strap on. The size is just right and is pretty easy to use right out of the package.
Pros
Plus Size Fit
Perfect Size For Beginners
Cons
Tricky to get the right positioning for some body types
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Published:March 11, 2019
I really liked adding this set to our toy collection. It was the first time we introduced butt play in our bedroom outside of using just a finger. The harness is very versatile and can be used with a lot of different styles and types of dildos. The price is actually pretty low if you look around to see what harness sets cost. I would highly recommend this set to others.
Pros
Easy to use right out of the box and for first timers the learning curve is pretty simple.
Cons
The dildo may not be enough to please everyone because of the size.
Rating:
Published:November 14, 2017
Female/Female Couple Perspective:
Good quality for price! Seems like it would be great for pegging, but wasn't for us when used for vaginal penetration because of the size.
Pros
-Good quality
-Great price
-Good color and design
Would be great for pegging
Cons
-Really small for vaginal penetration
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Published:October 14, 2016
The comfort, effectiveness and cost were perfect for our first harness/dildo set. We would have liked more length or a little bit of texture on the dildo, but this did not detract from the sensual and intimate moments that it has provided. It has much expansion possibilities and definitely prompts the imagination to the next steps!
Pros
Comfortable nylon straps
Easy adjustable straps
Slim profile dildo
Not penis shaped
Cons
The dildo could have been longer
the dildo could have been lightly textured
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Published:October 14, 2015
This is a good strap on dildo kit for beginner pegging couples. My husband liked the ease of entry and the curved dildo definitely hit the right spot. But now that we have some pegging experience we will be looking for a fuller dildo, one that also vibrates so I get some pleasure too! If your looking for a strap on kit that will help you break the ice and ease into pegging, this may be the kit for you!
Pros
Good for beginners
Easy to clean
Cons
May be too small for some
Doesn't vibrate
Rating:
Published:November 23, 2014
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Vibrating double thruster
Strap on harnesses
Fitting nicely for both parties, this stiff toy works great for pegging. The vibrations are amazing, while sadly they can not be individually changed, so if one partner is a power queen and the other isn't, you'll have to find a happy balance. Regardless, the best realistic looking toy that hits all the right spots.
Pros
Amazing vibrations, fits girlfriend, thick
Cons
Too stiff, remote controls both at once not individually,
Price:
$41.99
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Plus size beginner's black strap-on
This harness is a good-priced first option into strap-on sex for the curvy/plus-sized people out there. You can give it a shot to see if it is something you like and not spend a lot of money on the experiment.
Pros
Comfortable and easy to adjust. Fits a wide variety of sized people.
Cons
You can have a lot of extra loose straps and the vibrator pocket is a little deep.
Rating:
Published:July 13, 2018
Inflatable silicone dual strap-on
Despite being a bit cumbersome, I would say this is a must have strap-on for the advanced user! It is super comfortable, and lots of fun for the giver and the receiver!!
Pros
Lots of options and ways to use, silicone, comfortable
Cons
Can be a bit cumbersome with all of the parts and cords
This is a great toy for the beginner to strapons. It's very easy to figure out. The inflatable toy for insertion into the partner not wearing the strapon is great for those who like large insertions. A female user could also insert the inflatable dildo into herself while using the other on her partner. There are a lot of possibilities.
Pros
*Easy to use for partner play
*Can be fun solo as well
Cons
*The inflate pump and vibrator pack make it a little unwieldy
Do you want a strap on that will fit almost any desire that you have? This product's versatile nature allows you to choose what size you want and how strong the vibrations will be. The harness is very adjustable to fit almost sized hips and legs. This product works well if you want a little kink or if you prefer just vanilla sex.
Pros
Almost any size preference, soft, and many functions.
Cons
Needs batteries, No instructions
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Bee:
Published:January 22, 2018
Diva corset harness
This harness is a great mix of fantastic craftsmanship, sturdy performance, and aesthetically pleasing design. There's no compromise on any of those fronts, either!
It's easy to use as a beginner, but requires a little love if you want to maintain the material. Fits beautifully, and you can even swap out the O-ring for more adventurous toys!
Pros
Gorgeous, sturdy, and adjustable!
Cons
None, unless you detest caring for leather
Rating:
Published:March 08, 2018
I am getting a bit sick of all these companies promising that their products fit plus sizes. Sure this is super sexy and nicely made, but I had to order new laces to come anywhere close to the 50" that was promised. At least the laces were even there which is more than I can say for others.
Pros
Nice leather
Comfortable
Sturdy
Cons
Needs new laces to accommodate plus sizes
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Published:August 27, 2013
The Jolly Rider Diva is a well-made, gorgeous harness that sports a corset-style back that is oh-so lovely. It is very comfortable during use and holds up even heavier attachments well. Because it's made of a thicker leather, it's a long-lasting investment.
Pros
Beautiful and sturdy construction, supple leather, comfortable, corset-style back.
Cons
None.
Rating:
Published:July 17, 2013
Jolly rider
Are you intimidated by leather harnesses and think they're only for hardcore users? Think again with the Jolly Rider! It's so easy to use and fits a wide size of users that anyone could use this and be happy with it.
Pros
Adjustable, easy to use, easy to clean
Cons
Doesn't fit larger toys
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Published:January 02, 2018
This stylish and inexpensive harness is of high quality and is super easy to use. It's great for anyone looking to get into or already into pegging, gender play, or strap-on sex.
Pros
+ Easy to clean & store
+ Stylish
+ Easy to use
Cons
- Can only accommodate toys up to 1.5-inches in width
Rating:
Published:July 15, 2016
If you have tried harness play with a beginner harness and are looking to upgrade to something that is well made and will last, the Jolly Rider is a great choice. It's pretty, sturdy and very adjustable. The leather is soft and comfortable. Go ahead, go for it!
Pros
Beautiful
Will Work for a Wide Range of People
Well Made
Cons
It only comes in red, and I really like when my dildo matches my harness, so it limits my options
Rating:
Published:July 04, 2013
Price:
$77.99
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Tomboi harness red
If you're a fan of pegging and want something that you can slip into and be ready to play in seconds, pick up this harness! It's by far one of the easiest, most intuitive strap-on harnesses on the market.
... And it's got some delightful vibe pockets for the wearer.
Pros
Discreet and sturdy!
Cons
Not the most aesthetically pleasing.
Rating:
Published:December 05, 2017
The Tomboi offers the comfort and ease of other harnesses of its kind, but is unique in the fact that it's waterproof. This durable, sexy harness is ideal for pack and play or for prolonged wear under clothing for a more discreet look and feel. Although the sizes run a bit small, there's a wide range of them offered and the comfort of the material makes this harness feel like a second skin.
Pros
Comfortable, Discreet, Machine washable, Waterproof, Great range of sizes, Vegan friendly
Cons
Runs small
Rating:
Published:September 17, 2012
Leather rider luxe
If users want a luxury harness without paying a ton of money, the Leather Rider Luxe by Eden Toys is the perfect harness to purchase without breaking the bank. It's stylish, sturdy, and fits users with up to 44 inch hips (a US size 16). The leather is luxurious, comfortable, and thick, so user's won't have to worry about the harness snapping during rough play. With 2 metal o-rings provided, the harness can accommodate dildos ranging from 1-1/4" to 1-1/2" in diameter.
Pros
Sturdy, well made leather
Adjusts easily
Fits a number of dildos
Cons
Not a vegan option
Not for plus-sized hips (over US size 16)
Rating:
Published:April 18, 2017
This is a high performance harness for the BSDM or "rougher" look. Leather with shiny snaps, buckles, buttons everywhere. It's super comfortable, durable, easy to get size and get on. This harness will give you the POWER !
Pros
Easy to size and get on, Comfortable, Durable, Experience role play and sexual experimentation
Cons
Little bits of suede material here and there, Needs a 2 " diameter ring also
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Published:April 29, 2016
This harness is well worth the money! It's a quality product that will last a long time. The cons are negligible and don't bother me, at all.
Pros
Well-made, stable, quality leather, soft on the skin, buckles instead of D-rings
Cons
Doesn't come with proper storage, can't be machine-washed, requires leather cleaner
Rating:
Published:March 17, 2015
The Jolly Rider Luxe is a fine pick for those seeking a stylish harness for pegging and strap-on fun. Additionally, it's fully adjustable for hips up to 44 inches and for fuller buttocks too, with buckles on the leg straps to ensure the most comfortable and snuggest fit possible. It comes with 2 metal O-rings to accommodate either a 1-1/4" to 1-1/2" diameter dildos.
Pros
Durable, includes two O-rings, adjustable straps, comfortable, soft.
Cons
Not Vegan, not for dildos over in 1-1/2 diameter.
Rating:
Published:May 24, 2013
Price:
$64.99
$39.99
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Vegan dual harness
Strap on harnesses
Overall I would recommend this strap-on to beginners. It has dual dildos for both partners' pleasure. These are small sized to enjoy better anal. Dildos weren't too hard; they were firm and pleasurable inside. Easy to clean and put on.
Pros
Small size dildos, dual pleasure, great for beginners
Cons
Small straps don't hold in place as well as would have liked.
Rating:
Published:April 14, 2017
Leather strap rider
This is a simple harness made of quality leather. It is compromised of some straps and a few bits of metal, so it allows for a very bare, natural experience with lots of skin-to-skin contact. When worn by a woman, her lady parts are completely accessible for simultaneous stimulation. The O ring can be changed out for any size, so versatile! Truly an all around great harness.
Pros
Beautiful Leather, Lots of Skin-to-Skin Contact
Cons
None! Great Harness!
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Published:February 22, 2017
This harness was more than we had expected for a strap on. From feel, smell, and fit, to style. There was such an allowance of skin to skin versus other harnesses we have tried to far. We are a bit new to this type of play, but really enjoyed this one. We will be using it quite a bit.
Pros
Bare style harness, interchangeable o-rings, leather, fits a variety of dildos.
Cons
Buckles may prevent precise fitting for some, could stand to spice up the package a bit.
Rating:
Published:July 01, 2016
While this isn't a perfect harness it is very classy looking and fits well even for someone who is a tad bit bigger than the recommended size. The price point is spot on and this would be a great first time harness. Interchangeable O rings will increase the usefulness of the harness.
Pros
Minimalist,
Fits a variety of dildos
Excellent price point
Cons
A bit stiff and bulky
Can slide around a bit
Rating:
Published:October 15, 2013
Beginners strap on harness
This harness is a basic staple for strap-on play, with ease of use and low cost making it essential for any beginner. If you're looking to dip your toe into the genre or are already experienced in this type of play, this harness won't let you down.
Pros
Easy to clean, simple to don/doff, adjustable size, comfortable to wear
Cons
Doesn't fit plus sizes, difficult to swap toys while wearing
Rating:
Published:January 05, 2017
The Beginners strap-on harness is a great harness for nearly everyone. It is adjustable, well made, sturdy and comes with multiple o-rings. These reasons make for an amazing experience in bed. There's just so much fun that can be made with this because of the adjustability and how well this toy fits.
Pros
Adjustable, well made, sturdy, multiple o-rings
Cons
I really couldn't find anything that I would say was a con for this harness.
Rating:
Published:June 06, 2016
The SportsSheets New Comers Strap On harness and Dildo set is great for beginners, just like it says. SportsSheets really did good with make an affordable, simple, non-threatening first use harness.
Pros
Simple, comes with dildo, black
Cons
Smaller dildo, rough edges on harness, loose buckles
Rating:
Published:February 10, 2016
Leather strap on
I highly recommend this harness for anyone who wants to just try it out. It's not the best, but for the price it is definitely worth a try. If you have sensitive skin, however, I would recommend trying a harness with softer materials and more padding to prevent irritation.
Pros
Comfortable
Fits many sizes
Good quality
Cons
Long straps
Aesthetically boring
Not a lot of padding
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Published:October 23, 2016
The Latigo Leather Harness is the perfect way to start using strap-on harnesses in the bedroom (or the kitchen or the living room). Even for a beginner or first-timer, the harness is comfortable, simple and best of all, affordable. If you don't need a fancy strap-on harness with pretty colors, consider the Latigo Leather Harness and save yourself a couple of dollars.
Pros
Great price. Easy to wear. Very comfortable. Adjustable to almost anyone. Travel friendly.
Cons
Bigger dildos will wobble more. A little bland. Packaging makes it blatantly obvious what is inside.
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Published:June 18, 2013
This product is excellent. It will provide a comfortable and amazing experience for both you and your partner. It is easy to adjust, easy to fit into, and easy to...get to work in. Enjoy!
Pros
Easily adjustable, comfortable, durable.
Cons
Putting the dildo into the harness takes a bit to get used to.
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Published:March 04, 2013
This is a great, solid harness for the price. It provides comfort, adjustability, ease of use and the option to use different rings in order to hold many different kinds of toys. Those looking for fancy options or appearances might want to look elsewhere, but if you appreciate function over form this might be the perfect harness for you.
Pros
Interchangeable rings, adjustable, great quality for the price
Cons
Back of leather piece difficult to clean
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Published:February 15, 2013
This is a great harness that fills the gap between entry level novelties and top of the line harnesses that cost quite a bit more. This was the first harness I had ever owned, and I wanted something that didn't look or feel sub-par, but I also didn't want to spend a fortune on something I wasn't sure about. Considering the price, I was quite surprised by the quality and performance. There are a few things that could be improved, but I'm also not complaining about any of them.
Pros
Durable, Universal, Good fit
Cons
Chrome on snaps is vulnerable to rust
Rating:
Published:November 23, 2012
Black Rose harness your desire
In all, I love the harness & will be keeping that. It's very pretty and feminine and takes the intimidation out of wearing or seeing your partner wear a harness for first timers. Unfortunately, the dildo doesn't work for my body & hits my cervix & I didn't love how the bulbs make me feel. I do like that the dildo is safe silicone & easily washed.
Pros
pretty harness, sturdy, silicone g-spot dildo, comes with everything you need, one size fits most
Cons
bulbs too large for me, rigid dildo hurts me
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Published:July 05, 2016
Still being used after ten years and multiple partners! No dong too big or small to use with this. Velvet feels sexy against the skin.
Pros
Sexy and feminine
Cons
awkward to get into
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Published:February 09, 2015
The Black Rose Harness by Doc Johnson is a very well made and designed harness; it not only performs well, but it also looks extremely classy. In addition to the excellent harness, it also includes a really well designed dildo. The dildo not only curves for p-spot and g-spot stimulation, but it also has a pair of bulges for a great full feeling.
Pros
Looks very classy, well made, fits most people & toys.
Cons
Included dildo isn't for beginners.
Rating:
Published:April 08, 2013
Price:
$0.00
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Supreme harness with plug
It gives men and women a chance to experience something like this together. It can become a part of you. You feel as if it is you inside a woman and not a toy. Others I have tried have ripped or worn. This item has no wear and tare. Its all about comfort and pleasure with the hassle of being uncomfortable you have that time to focus on your partner. I would say it was more than worth it! You should give it try to tonight with your special someone!
Pros
-Comfort
-Easy wash
-Very durable
-Easy to use
-clean and neat
-multiple options
Cons
-The snaps can get a little tight and hard to undo.
Rating:
Published:January 04, 2016
I have enjoyed every minute with this harness and would do it again if I could. The harness has fulfilled all my wishes and then some. I would seriously consider recommending this to everyone!
Pros
easily adjustable, washable, comfortable, supportive
Cons
The only thing I would change is the plug that was included.
Rating:
Published:August 13, 2013
Vibrating corsette harness
A lovely harness, the biggest drawback/concern for me is its water-friendliness. Beyond that, it's highly adjustable, and quite comfortable and attractive. It's a good harness for anyone who wants the look it gives and a sturdy harness.
Pros
Easy to store, attractive, comfortable
Cons
The nylon can be a bit uncomfortable, adjusting it can be a bit of a hassle, not water-friendly
Rating:
Published:June 16, 2015
This item has been worth every penny, it opens up different things you may like. The price is perfect for it, and all the toys we have used fit inside of it very snug.
Pros
Comfortable, able to fit almost any toy, washable, stylish
Cons
The vibrator isn't very comfortable for the user, but its a nice bonus
I would say that this is the perfect toy for strap-on play. It is easy to adjust and stays in place during use!
Pros
Adjustable, easy to clean, good for most dildos, vibrating function
Cons
slight discomfort in the pelvic bone
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Published:February 20, 2013
This harness has an open crotch design that I like much better than the G string design and is plus size friendly up to 60 inches. The harness is made from materials that are soft but strong, and I love how it is washable and easy to keep clean.
Pros
The harness is plus size friendly and washable.
Cons
The vibe on this harness didn’t have much oomph.
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Bee:
Published:December 28, 2012
For a beginner or for photo shoots and the like, this harness is perfect. The price is right, and the quality is right. Experienced harness users might want this one for the novelty of it. It's good enough to keep around for a while.
Pros
Durable, machine-washable, attractive design.
Cons
Not high quality, can sometimes pinch sensitive areas.
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Bee:
Published:October 20, 2012
Glow in the dark two piece harness
This item, in my opinion and experience, is not worth buying whatsoever. This is coming from someone who has some (but not a ton) of experience with strap-ons. It's messy, sticky, and horrid smelling. If anything, this product did the exact opposite of what it was supposed to do, and turned me off.
Pros
Glows in the dark
Cons
Stinky, sticky, slides out
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Published:May 25, 2014
I love this kit! From the ease of every aspect of ownership, right down to the fact that it glows! Fun! This is definitely worth the buy.
Pros
Easy to use, store, and clean
Cons
Packaging is not discrete
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Published:February 27, 2014
Definitely worth it for beginners or casual users, this is an easy, comfortable strapon set. And yes, the glowing is a great perk.
Pros
Comfortable (for certain sizes), dildo great for g-spot or prostate stimulation
Cons
Strong smell from the dildo, nonadjustable harness
Rating:
Published:June 08, 2013
Sedeux divine diva plus size harness
This is a great harness to start with, or add to a collection. I love that it's washable and fits.
Pros
-BBW compatible
-Has back support
-Adjustable with O rings
-Washable
Cons
-Takes time to configure at first
-Straps may seem way too long
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Published:April 26, 2014
This harness has a ton of plus sides, but the down side of not making me feel sexy has me looking for another option. I will give Sportsheets, that they made a very stable and comfortable harness for us bigger gals. I also love that you can really clean this one, even if it is only via washing by hand. I just wish it was sexier and not resembling a weight belt.
Pros
Comfortable
Padded back support
Adjustable
Washable
Cons
Not sexy
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Published:May 27, 2013
This is my first strap-on and I like it. It's comfortable, appealing, and lightweight. The only issue I have with it is the extreme amount of slack it has in the straps after it was adjusted to my size. The straps stayed on tight, but I had too much left over!
Pros
*comfortable*
*easy on/off*
*comes with variety of O-rings*
*machine washable*
Cons
*extra strap*
*minimal care/wear instructions*
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Published:January 17, 2013
This harness is truly comfortable whenever you are wearing it. It feels stable and I love how soft it is. Other than the fact that it doesn't fit dildos with balls it is great. It's super adjustable and not too scary looking! I love it, and will end up buying some non-balled flared dildos to use it properly.
Pros
Comfortable
Easily Adjustable
Back support pad
Machine Washable
Plus Size
Cons
Can't fit dildos with balls
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Published:January 07, 2013
This is the best harness for a plus size person and the most comfortable you will find! It's not easy for us to find toys on the market for us unless we have them specifically customized, but this is one product you shouldn't overlook or doubt. It's amazing! The price is spot on as a perfect deal for such a wonderful harness!
Pros
Everything! Soft back & front padding & straps, ease of use, comfy, perfect fit for any size!
Cons
Length of thigh straps, useful for larger people, just tie em' back and rock on!
Rating:
Published:November 26, 2012