Tomboi harness red - briefs harness discontinued by SpareParts HardWear - review by MissKee

If you are a newbie to pegging or a seasoned strapon enthusiast, you'll find this harness a delight to play with. No adjusting straps, fiddling with buckles or fighting the slow decline of velcro efficacy. It's intuitive, with a myriad of pockets for vibrating toys for the wearer to enjoy.

The nylon/spandex material is soft but has a good amount of stretch. The waistband is thick and sturdy elastic, which is great- that's where all the "oomph" from play is going to come from! The fabric is soft to the touch, and after over a year of use has not faded, torn, or otherwise gone wonky.

The non-structural, aesthetic stitching on the front has come unraveled over its (extended) time in use, but it has not affected the function of the harness at all.

Its greatest takeaway, design-wise, is its sturdiness. The elastic gives you some wiggle room for fit and adjustment, but it doesn't affect its use at all.

The O-Ring is a standard 2", great for most toys, and it is encased in a cloth - a nice touch!

The inside crotch has a mesh pocket and elastic band for toys the wearer can enjoy, and they fit most bullet vibrators wonderfully. They also aren't too bulky, being rather unnoticeable when not in use.

Additionally, it's stealthy! If you cover the O-ring or even turn them inside-out, they just look like regular, discreet panties.

I would suggest to size down if you're between sizes. The elastic stretches to accommodate a larger wearer, but if it is too loose, you cannot cinch it up which could negatively impact the play.

It has been a breeze to slip on and jump straight into play with. The lack of straps to fiddle with means you can put this harness on, slip in a toy, and be ready to peg within 30 seconds. It has lasted me over a year of use, and shows no sign of quitting yet!

By far, this is the most comfortable and easy to use harness in my arsenal. The only downside is its appearance, as it doesn't fit well with my typical Domme getups. But hey, tuck it under some fishnets and go to town!

While it is machine washable (cold water, mild detergent, and a low-heat dryer setting), it is also extremely easy to hand-wash. If you do choose to go the machine cleaning route, I would suggest using a lingerie bag - you don't want the mesh on the inside to snag on a zipper or button.

I would also suggest hang-drying it, to maintain the integrity of the O-ring. Since it is encased in cloth, it's hard to see if there is any degradation due to the heat, so be on the safe side and just hang these bad boys up!

There is a delightful little carrying pouch with a zipper that your harness comes with. A great touch!

I've been extremely happy with how much more control this harness gives me in comparison to other, more traditional O-ring-and-strap styles. You can vary your speed and intensity with so much more precision due to how the harness hugs your hips.