Hands down, this is the best product in strap-on technology that I’ve ever tried. Although it purports to expand to a 60 inch waist, it still managed to fit me better than some pairs of underwear I own, feeling as comfortable and natural as a penis that is not actually mine ever could.

And not only did it function as an incredibly secure harness for the fucking portion of the evening, it did a surprisingly good job as a vibrator when I took the little bullet out and took it for a solo test drive. I’d have never thought three little watch batteries (that come included, thank god), would maintain my interest so keenly.

It was not without its minor design flaws, unfortunately, but they were so negligible as to be remarkable simply because the Flame|Flame harness kit - Double strap harness by Tantus was otherwise without fault. As much as the straps were smooth, stylish and great for my partner to grab onto, I would have preferred that they snap together so I don’t have to adjust them every time I step in and out of the harness. But, frankly, this is complete nitpicking.

I would also suggest that, although it feels great to wear the vibrating bullet in the pocket of the harness, it doesn’t feel quite as great when the harness is being bumped between two people during moderate to deep penetration. The loveable little bullet ends up just being a small hard bump pressing into my vulva, making noise. So, basically try it with the bullet in, but feel free to slip it back out of the pocket when it’s time for the heavy lifting.

My partner remarked that she wished the dick was larger. After I dusted off my bruised ego, I realized that the Flame was likely designed for Bend-Over-Boyfriend type play and that this smaller size might be even another asset. Besides, the kit comes with an extra O ring so bigger dildos can be used anyway!

Ultimately, I would be far more inclined to try more Tantus products as a result of having checked out this bad boy and the Flame is going to become a permanent fixture in the regular rotation.