This was the first toy I ever bought. It was a gift I purchased for the benefits of my partner and I, and I'll say I did a good job for not doing so much research. At the time I was unsure of what to look for. Always do some research into materials, how they are cleaned, and the disadvantages before investing into a toy, you'll be thankful for it later. Its good to know what you are paying for.

This strap-on is very aesthetically pleasing. The flames sculpted into the dildo are a gorgeous touch and added a very nice sensation. The dildo is safe hygienic, hypoallergenic 100% silicone which after using many different materials I've found is the best feeling and easiest to maintain, the only downfall is the price. Its very easy to wash and keep sanitary. The purple crushed velvet harness was very beautiful, my partner felt more confident wearing this harness. The bullet that is included with the harness and dildo did wonders for my partner and myself. Silicone being dense, the vibrations make their way through the dildo and enhance all sensations.

We used the bullet separately for foreplay, Creates intense anticipation, and moistens you up nicely for those who don't use lubes, (like my partner and myself). For those who would want to use lube with this product must remember not to use a silicone based lube. The sound from the bullet is almost undetectable when placed in the strap on pouch (big plus when trying to be discreet). We also used the dildo without the harness between the two of us, and I found myself using it when I was alone at home and got the job done.

The dildo size is perfect for beginners or for girls/guys who are not looking for girth. I would not recommend the Flame kit for someone who would like to use a larger dildo, with the elastic o-ring the larger you get the more sag and it is not as easy to control. All in all a perfect beginners strap on, or just all around great toy. Always remember if sharing between multiple partners it is always safe to use a cover/condom on the dildo to keep from transmitting any unknown STD. It is better to be safe than sorry.

Being the first toy I ever purchased, the first night is one of my fondest memories. We were both new to the whole strap-on experience. New to even putting it together and figuring what straps go where, for the beginners there should be an instruction booklet, none the less we got it together. It turned out not to be too difficult. Fumbled around for a little while, but once we got the hang of it, it offered an amazing experience. This strap-on will give you many memorable sexual encounters.