Joque harness - double strap harness by SpareParts HardWear - review by Sinclair Sexsmith

This is one of the most-hyped harnesses in the past year or so, and I was skeptical, but also intrigued. It almost looks like a boxer's weight belt or something, very sporty, made of nylon (instead of the harnesses I usually buy which are leather or imitation leather).

It comes in this little sporty pouch, and the waistband is all thick velcro, still calling to mind some sort of boxer's belt. Even pulling it out of the bag to get a look at it for the first time, I rolled my eyes, ugh, this is NOT going to live up to the hype.

But ... it kinda did. I unwound it and unstuck the velcro, opened up the stretchy nylon straps and slid my legs through, and it felt like pulling on undies. Which isn't really the sexiest feel for a harness, honestly, I prefer feeling like it's second skin or hugging my balls or something like that, but this didn't feel altogether bad.

In fact, it was really darn comfortable.

So I slid my (infamous) Silky into the O-ring.

Ah, this is where a tiny bit of trouble comes into my comfort paradise: the O-ring is not interchangeable. Drat.

That means if I happen to be fucking with Silky, which is what I almost always start with, I'd have to not just switch cocks, if I wanted an upgrade, I'd have to also switch harnesses. That's a big pain in the ass, and often a moment where the strapping on becomes painfully awkward for many. (I find that I keep my boner much better if I avoid being painfully awkward as much as possible.)

Still, I didn't want to take the harness off. So that's a good sign.

And when I had a girl over a few nights later, I decided to go ahead and try it out. It still felt a bit bulky underneath my clothes, especially slightly tight jeans rather than comfy pajamas, but that's mostly just because I'm not used to the high belt of it. Some adjustments through the night helped.

It stayed in place incredibly well. I didn't have to adjust and readjust and readjust - fantastic. Sometimes buckles slip, leather stretches; this stayed put.

It also has a really great placement of cock over clit, which is great for friction and stimulation for the wearer, but also great for angle for the recipient ... it easily sits very low (though that can be adjusted, if you don't like that).

I really don't like that the O-rings are not interchangeable, otherwise I would've bumped this up to 4 stars at least. Very good harness, very comfortable.