Mia-Z

Double strap harness by Outlaw Leather

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Mia-Z review

I liked the feel of the cock inside me (surprisingly!), but I fell into my same-old-moves of thrusting and clenching, and I actually popped it out of me a few times, which was somewhat embarrassing. The girl I was fucking was patient, however, and particularly liked the ways that I was extra-stimulated.
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Penetration, cocks or dildos or even fingers, in my own body is not high on my list, I admit. While I love to be the one doing the penetrating, it is a rare day that I want – or request – it from my lovers.

So I was skeptical to receive this harness, whose claim to fame is the ability to perfectly position a dildo for the wearer of the harness. But oh, am I glad to have it in my collection.

First, the harness is seriously high quality. Expensive, yes, but beautiful leather and worth the investment. It arrived in a black velvet bag. My first impression was of how incredibly well-made it is, a work of art, a serious piece of craftsmanship. Unlike my other leather harnesses, it feels precise and lovingly made.

It has a lot of straps and flaps, bells and whistles. I untangled it all and tried it on.

It sits low, really low on my hips, which I love; even lower after it is fully tightened. It features D-rings instead of locking buckles, which I actually prefer in a leather harness because leather stretches and the harness can end up between buckle sizes and uncomfortable.

Before taking the new harness out onto a date, I took her for a test drive.

I strapped on my favorite cock, whose weight balanced perfectly on my hips (very much the tell of a good harness, both by placement, where it falls, and grip, how well it is held in place).

It felt comfortable enough, so I lubed up and slid the second cock in place, the one that goes inside me.

Wow.

After a fabulous jerk-off session, I decided I was confident enough to try it out with a lover.

With someone else, though, things got trickier. I liked the feel of the cock inside me (surprisingly!), but I fell into my same-old-moves of thrusting and clenching, and I actually popped it out of me a few times, which was somewhat embarrassing. The girl I was fucking was patient, however, and particularly liked the ways that I was extra-stimulated. She said I wasn’t usually so into my own pleasure during our strap-on sex, which is true; usually, I am more focused on her. This time, though, it was easy to get lost in the sensation of the low harness against my clit, and the dildo inside me.

Part of the problem with the internal cock falling out was that it just wasn’t tight enough. It took some practice, but I’ve figured it out, and I’m glad I have; it’s added a new aspect of play to my sex life.

Let me break it down for ya:

PROS: Beautiful, sturdy leather; D-ring buckles, which I prefer on leather because it stretches; extremely comfortable, rides low. The whammy: with this harness, you can use two cocks – one inside the wearer, one for the receiver. Particularly excellent for those who are female bodied!

CONS: Awkward at first to get it to sit right, but once you do, it is lovely. The leather (while beautiful!) is thick and not particularly comfortable to wear under clothes for long periods. It’s a bedroom harness, not so much a packing harness. It is fairly time-consuming to set up, but don’t forget the payoff!

MAINTENANCE: The material is leather, so it will need to be washed with gentle soap and water and occasionally polished with a good leather cleaner. Treat it well, and it should last a long time.

HOW I RECOMMEND IT: In the bedroom, not so much a going-out-packing harness (too bulky under clothes). Hang it on your harness rack near your bed (what? You don’t have one? Get one!), and break it out when you have some time to strap on and set up. Go slow and easy, and enjoy!

WHO WILL WANT IT: Female-bodied folks who want the feel of penetration while they are entering someone else.

Bend over, bois and boys and girls and grrrrls.
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  • Jade
    How do you get penetration?  I'm confused - can you explain how that works in further detail - trying to find the best strap on for my girl friend and I - first time users.  Have looked at Vac-U lock - heard leather feels better and then locked at the Feeldoe which allows you to hold the dildo inside of you while you enter your partner?  There's so much to choose from... help
  • sinclair
    Jade -

    I definitely don't recommend the vac-u-lock, I think they're way too limited, you can only use the specially made dildos with the specially made harnesses.

    some leathers are definitely softer than others, and get warn in to feel more like your skin than something like vinyl or nylon.

    the feeldoe, yes, you do hold that inside you while you penetrate your partner - I find it very difficult to control, actually (my review of that should be up soon), but perhaps that's because I'm mostly used to being able to hold a cock very tight and secure in a harness. I also don't really want to be penetrated while I'm wearing a cock - it's sometimes too much for me. so that's not a big priority for me.

    this harness here - the mia-z -  works because the leather part on the front of the harness separates, and you can put one dildo in facing one way, and one facing the other way, so the bases of the two meet, and the wearer can slide one inside of herself. sorry that wasn't clear in my review, that's an important detail! it's hard to describe without adequate pictures.

    take a look at Outlaw Leather's website, they have a good diagram of how the two dildos fit into their harnesses.

    there are a lot of details to consider when getting a harness - material, O-ring capabilities, and strap style are the biggest options. Eden has a decent section on how to choose a harness, though it's fairly hetero-oriented.

    contact me via email if you'd like more help, I'd be glad to talk to you about it! aspiringstud (at) gmail (dot com).

    sinclair 
  • Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
    Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady  
    Love it! And it comes in pink. Ahhh.. this just moved to the top of my wish list!
  • leopardprint
    leopardprint  
    Nice review-- I'm intrigued by the very-low-riding aspect of this harness.
  • Lelogirl
    Lelogirl  
    Thanks for the review!
  • Eden C.
    Eden C.  
    Awesome review!
  • kinksters
    kinksters  
  • InnocentISwear
    InnocentISwear  
    Great review! And thanks for the link about how to choose a harness.
  • mmmmm
    mmmmm  
    Thanks for the great review!
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