I like the design, though it is a bit flawed. It would be better if the TPR side (the side you hold) had a better texture as to hold onto. The pleasure ball is just as it sounds, A very round ball. I cannot fit my hand around it, and I have decent sized hands, so it's a decent sized ball and some users may have trouble wrapping their hands around this. It's a pretty good toy though, and the ball, in my opinion, is more fr rubbing the large, smooth texture around your clitoris or body. It worked pretty good for me, I just wish the texture was rougher to grab onto better.. You don't really want to lose your toy in the heat of the moment. The size is better for an advanced user, as they may know how to grip bigger things better, but, since your hands really can't grow larger, the size is for anyone. The toy isn't really easy to 'hide' but I guess you could tell them it's Pokemon memorabilia.. Though they may look at you funny if they click the button on it and it starts vibrating... I really don't think that this toy is suitable for travel, I would recommend getting a smaller toy for travel.