Hey. I am a guy and sadly enough I often times don't last long enough for the lady in my life. Of course I make sure she isn't left hanging, but the changeover really does dampen the mood a little bit. As such I was looking into the possibility of using a harness. I would prefer something along the hollow-extension line (me inside the dildo rather then above or below). To make matters even more complicated, if you have a strap-on why not let your partner use it on you too? Right? Anything that she could use on me and still fir the bill above? Not sure you can get a all in one harness. But your thoughts are appreciated!