Guys and strap-ons

So into it So into it
Hey. I am a guy and sadly enough I often times don't last long enough for the lady in my life. Of course I make sure she isn't left hanging, but the changeover really does dampen the mood a little bit. As such I was looking into the possibility of using a harness. I would prefer something along the hollow-extension line (me inside the dildo rather then above or below). To make matters even more complicated, if you have a strap-on why not let your partner use it on you too? Right? Anything that she could use on me and still fir the bill above? Not sure you can get a all in one harness. But your thoughts are appreciated!
03/06/2009
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Dragon Dragon
Damn, I love your openness, honesty and willingness to make sex work. Your sex life will prosper no matter which direction you move in! Have fun.

(I can't offer a single word on harnesses though.)
03/06/2009
Cinnamon Chambers Cinnamon Chambers
The pleasure principle is a great one and so is the flame. They come with great toys and the O rings can be changed to fit you and a sleeve.
03/06/2009
So into it So into it
DBD - Thanks, an optimistic mindset is sometimes the best advice!

Cinnamon - My only concern with the harnesses you mentioned are the backing to them. (the pad at the base of the dildo, where the o ring is). Is this removable? When looking at them it seems like they might be cumbersome for a guy trying to use a hollow dildo. If they re removable, would it still be comfortable? Thanks
03/07/2009
Cinnamon Chambers Cinnamon Chambers
The pleasure principle would be good to modify. It comes in black as well. There is already a hole on the inner pad, that is what I was thinking of. It could be used for you by pulling off the pink part of the pad I think,and just using the premade hole for you with a cock ring and sleeve, or a small hole could be made with an exacto knife to accomodate your penis through the existing O ring. That way it can be used for you as well as for pegging. I was having a brain fart last night. The flame is good if you want just a strap on with out using your penis. It is too great to modify. Both of those have wonderful toys included for a great price.

There is also the hollow extention harness on here that might be good for you, but since it is hollow I don't know how good it would work for pegging. There are a ton of other harness on here, but you would have to buy the toys separately. Let us know what you decide to try!
03/07/2009
Ciao. Ciao.
I use our strapon harness on my (female) partner pretty frequently, either just for fun, or to extend a session if that's what we're looking for. We have the Bend Over Beginner Kit and it's harness is pretty much a standard O-Ring with a backing deal. I find it perfectly comfortable to wear just slightly above my male bits, no need for a sleeved dildo or anything like that. Most of the snap-fastened O-Ring harnesses do have a removable backing (useful for using those double ended dildos among other things), so if you do want to go that route, you shouldn't have much trouble finding something.
03/07/2009
Cinnamon Chambers Cinnamon Chambers
OH yeah...you could just snap on the O ring nad remove the backing. I have the ickies and brain farts too. Hence me not writing a review in a few days!
03/07/2009
Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Quote:
Originally posted by Cinnamon Chambers
OH yeah...you could just snap on the O ring nad remove the backing. I have the ickies and brain farts too. Hence me not writing a review in a few days!
Totally off topic but do you actually still have stuff to review? Hehehehehe

You have more sex toys than just about anyone I know, girl!
03/07/2009
Cinnamon Chambers Cinnamon Chambers
LOL...wanna come play with me?

I have ticklers, 2 pocket pussies (trying to review, from how I use them with him), a vibrating cock ring, umm...the Charmer from Tantus, the flame harness set, a throe, and an assignment to review and write reviews on. It will be the middle of the week or so before I post another one.
03/07/2009
Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Quote:
Originally posted by Cinnamon Chambers
LOL...wanna come play with me?

I have ticklers, 2 pocket pussies (trying to review, from how I use them with him), a vibrating cock ring, umm...the Charmer from Tantus, the flame harness set, a throe, and an assignment to review and write ... More
Can't wait to see the pocket pussy reviews. Much as I love them from a male's perspective I also love, love, love to hear how women feel about using them with their guys. Probably cuz I can relate to that.

And now I'll stop sidetracking the thread!
03/07/2009
mh12 mh12
Quote:
Originally posted by Dragon
Damn, I love your openness, honesty and willingness to make sex work. Your sex life will prosper no matter which direction you move in! Have fun.

(I can't offer a single word on harnesses though.)
I cant agree more!!
10/19/2012
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by So into it
DBD - Thanks, an optimistic mindset is sometimes the best advice!

Cinnamon - My only concern with the harnesses you mentioned are the backing to them. (the pad at the base of the dildo, where the o ring is). Is this removable? When looking at ... More
The Aslan Commando will work on a man, as will the Latigo Leather (the pad is removable).
10/21/2012
Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
Quote:
Originally posted by So into it
Hey. I am a guy and sadly enough I often times don't last long enough for the lady in my life. Of course I make sure she isn't left hanging, but the changeover really does dampen the mood a little bit. As such I was looking into the ... More
You could definitely get an adjustable harness that fits both of you, but using different attachments for when she uses it on you and for when you use it on her.
10/30/2012
Andrew1992 Andrew1992
Quote:
Originally posted by So into it
Hey. I am a guy and sadly enough I often times don't last long enough for the lady in my life. Of course I make sure she isn't left hanging, but the changeover really does dampen the mood a little bit. As such I was looking into the ... More
Assuming you had similar waist sizes, something like the Spareparts joque could work. They also make one designed for men, but I can't think of the name of it.
11/05/2012
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