New to this and need advice

Contributor: BexJohnson BexJohnson
So like the topic says, I'm new to this. I have one vibrator now and my partner doesn't have any. She has been with men before and I haven't. I don't know if that makes a difference at all. I would like some advise maybe on what we should get as our first strap on. I'm looking at the RodeoH harness but I'm still pretty indecisive on what dildo I should get that's compatible with the O-ring. Any suggestions or advise on what we should do? I've talked to her about it and she's as indecisive about it as I am.
01/05/2013
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Constructive discussions on Strap on dildo:

accessorizing strap ons
any recommendation on lingerie that looks good with strap ons?

Strap ons to be used by men for double penetration?
Has any males outthere used a strap on as well to get double pnetration on a female? and if so have you found any particular type of strap ons better.

What's your strap-on preference?
I like the ones that strap around you thighs, I am scared to try the butt-crack ones.. lol. What is your preference?

Need advice on strap-ons!
Hey there - my roommate and I are looking into a strap-on to share. We have slightly different body types, so it'd have to fit us both, and neither of

Looking for comfortable, durable harnesses
my girlfriend got our first strapon not too long ago, and she loves everything except the harness which is the double strap type. anyone have any...
01/05/2013
Contributor: tequilafish tequilafish
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Originally posted by BexJohnson
So like the topic says, I'm new to this. I have one vibrator now and my partner doesn't have any. She has been with men before and I haven't. I don't know if that makes a difference at all. I would like some advise maybe on what we ... more
I don't have a RodeoH, but from various reviews I've read it sounds like the o-ring will work with anything that isn't too big (so under a 2" diameter, which is pretty freaking big. Starting at a 1.25" or 1.5" diameter is good if you don't know if you like a lot of girth or not).

I have the Spareparts Joque harness, and it's really comfortable and adjustable... but it's also quite a bit more expensive than the rodeoh. I want to try out the RodeoH next, and it seems like it would be a good first harness.

For dildos I'd suggest anything from Tantus (like the Acute, or check out the o2's, I have Flurry and Adam and adam is awesomee), or Fun Factory (I have and like Bandito, and they have some other cool-looking ones).

Good luck! Also feel free to message me if you have any other questions/want an opinion on picking something out. C:
01/05/2013
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
Tequilafish's advice is sound, and I have to back up the RodeoH - I've heard nothing but love for it!
01/06/2013
Contributor: BexJohnson BexJohnson
Thanks you guys. I'm really really new to this. I've only ever bought one thing from here so I don't know what I like I'm scared to spend the money on something that I don't like at all
01/09/2013