We started off very slow, with light touching down there for her, then eventually rim jobs. Now she really enjoys to be lightly fingered down there. We use plenty of lube, but if I go more than inch or so inside her she says she begins to feel like she needs to have a BM.
Are there any tips to overcome this feeling? Is she simply not relaxed enough, or do we just need to work up to deeper penetration slowly?
How can we work through this?