Wow. Limited choices there. This gal does not masturbate more then a couple times a year, and literally, only if hubby is out of town for a few days (he usually will be able to watch me do it too, as a webcam show). If one of us is not on the road or out of town, we are together and even though we work very long hours, we always find enough time to have a very active love life and so why on Earth I would need to "self pleasure" is beyond me. It is so much more fun, and so much easier and more satisfying to have him "do me". If I am in the mood for some specific way of cumming (for instance, I only want my clit played with via a finger), HIS finger is more then willing. Otherwise, most of the time, if I am just "horny", I just need to flash or wink and all my needs get luxuriously met! As far as I can see, there is no advantage to doing all that work myself, when a willing partner is just a kiss away.
my wife likes to watch when I masturbate, so sometimes more then 2 or 3 times a week.
Wow. We, once again, seem to be the oddballs. I cannot imagine watching my hubby masturbate. If he "bring it out", I am grabbing it and playing. I am part of the team, not a bench warmer. He is sitting right here now and nodding. He say's he chooses my lips, my vagina or my tush over his hand any day, any time, any situation. We are all different and I am glad folks here have found what works for them. For us, it's all about couples play.