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Ok, so I am not new to oral sex. I have been giving my husband oral for the past 7 years. The issue is...he is the only one I have done it to. While he says I am doing a good job and throws in his own little ideas, I still have little confidence
Ok, so I am not new to oral sex. I have been giving my husband oral for the past 7 years. The issue is...he is the only one I have done it to. While he says I am doing a good job and throws in his own little ideas, I still have little confidence that I am doing as well as he says. I know I should listen to him, but I really want to try something new and impress him. Anyone have any tricks they can let me in on. I don't do anything spectacular...just basic oral. So anything at all would help me.
For me the ultimate BJ is hands free - that is my wife uses her hands to caress my shaved skin - not 'cheat' by stroking me off. Depending upon her mood hew fingers will lightly caress my abdomen, legs, balls, perineum and/or anus. She plays my like the proverbial skin-flute!
Don't get me wrong - I get plenty of great hand-jobs - but one should not masquerade as the other. For me, both are equally enjoyable - probably because I get plenty of both.
Back to oral tips - over time my wife has gradually increased how deeply she takes me - I think just by gradually desensitizing her gag reflex. Again I've never pressed her to do it - the fact that she's done this solely as a way to enhance my pleasure says a lot about the value of making your partners pleasure the focus of your intimate time together.
Recently she's been getting more aggressive - first with her fingers, them moving to some of our smaller dildos and vibes to add prostate stimulation - boy does that work!
There's always the question of whether to swallow or not. I've never asked my wife to do it - but she always has - like she thinks that's just part of the deal - who am I to complain!
It would fun to do a facial once in a while - but that's not her thing and I respect that.
I suggest experimenting with new things - don't wait for him to ask you.