Do you find it difficult to climax during oral?

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Do you find it difficult to climax during oral?

EastCoast36 EastCoast36
I have had it happen once or twice, but not really enough to consider "occasionally." That said, usually oral is before intercourse for both of us, so for me it is more of trying not to climax from it. Can be difficult to delay orgasm during sex if oral session was intense. Wife usually wants me to stop before she climaxes from oral.
06/07/2013
wicked48 wicked48
Occasionally
06/07/2013
GingerSpice GingerSpice
i have been too stimaulted during oral (when performed on me) to climax...but have had a man not be able to get off, only one man though, so it was kinda weird, but then again we are all different...
06/07/2013
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
My boyfriend has issue with getting off during oral as does one of my male friends. I would say that it isn't abnormal to encounter someone who doesn't/can't get off from it. Each and every person is different and perhaps the stimulation received from oral isn't the right kind of stimulation that is needed.
06/08/2013
WestTexasBarbie WestTexasBarbie
I am finding that as I get older, it is getting harder for me to climax during sex.
06/09/2013
FieryRed FieryRed
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Originally posted by WestTexasBarbie
I am finding that as I get older, it is getting harder for me to climax during sex.
Now THAT is a huge shame! It's getting easier for me as I get older, and has been getting easier for a long time now. On the other hand, I've been experimenting with new toys and techniques a lot lately, as well. Have you been trying new things? Maybe a clit vibe during sex? A new position? new types of foreplay to get you more warmed up? Anal toys, if you're into that?
06/16/2013
konicaguy konicaguy
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Originally posted by SMichelle
My boyfriend was telling me that he finds it nearly impossible to climax during oral. Oral is a regular part of our sex life, but we typically include it in foreplay, so him not climaxing during oral has never been much of an issue. Still, there is a ...
It happens. Very few times do I feel like climaxing, but I think her technique needs more work.
07/18/2013
Bonesdance Bonesdance
There have been a couple times where oral alone wasn't quite enough, but if I'm even slightly horny my wife can usually get me off with just a few minutes of it.
08/13/2013
702zombie 702zombie
well i know that its normal for most woman. most of the time i do reach climax but the are times that i find it difficult
09/10/2013
HannahPanda HannahPanda
Almost always.
09/10/2013
stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by spiced
I've had this issue at the beginning of all but one of my serious relationships. I think it comes from tension, and maybe insecurity about the new partner and how they perceive me. But after that initial period of awkwardness, which for me ...
I would have to agree about the tension
09/10/2013
stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by bog
I can't get off to oral most of the time. When I do, though, it's fantastic.
It maybe because you need to relax
09/10/2013
stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
It's been age related for me. I found it too easy to orgasm from oral as a young man. Then by my 40s I could control myself pretty well. Now as I near 60 - it just isn't happening.
you need to allow your partner to have the control and that may help
09/10/2013
stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
I can make my partner orgasm with oral but it takes a little while. I can't orgasm from oral at all as a female.
that is sad
09/10/2013
stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by married with children
I dont have a problem finishing when she is preforming oral. I dont do it very often. I would rather finish inside her vagina.
true
09/10/2013
cagypsy cagypsy
I have actually only ever been with one guy who could get me off with oral, the rest of the time its lots of fun, but it alone will not get me to a climax.
10/04/2013
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