How do i entice my husband to give me oral?

keeweepoo keeweepoo
he says he has no problem with it, but i can't recall the last time it happened. what should i do?
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Sylvan Sylvan
How forward are you? You can always just pull him on top of you and then push his face down into your crotch and tell him you want to feel his mouth on you. I've had to do this before when my guy would go too long without going down on me, hehe.
03/07/2013
Sylvan Sylvan
In fact I was thinking, my guy tells me that it turns him on when I am forward and blunt and demanding. I'm shy so it's tough sometimes, but the results are always great when I demand his touch, lol.
03/07/2013
dv8 dv8
To paraphrase Monty Python, sit on his face and tell him that you love him.
03/07/2013
eri86 eri86
Ask, and offer to return the favor. Or give him oral first and see what happens.
03/07/2013
fizzygato fizzygato
Just tell him it's something you really, really want out of the relationship and if you're willing to do it with him also, tell him you believe in give and take, with you giving back either during or after or w/e.
03/10/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
The key is communication.
03/21/2013
Woman China Woman China
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Originally posted by dv8
To paraphrase Monty Python, sit on his face and tell him that you love him.
BRILLIANT!!!!

The majority of men I have been with here have refused saying women are "unclean and dirty". Then expect me to give them a blow job. I just say... fairs fair.
03/21/2013
Rory Rory
I can barely stop my husband!! I though all men were like him!
03/21/2013
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Lay him down, start giving him a BJ, the sit on his face while 69'ing
03/23/2013
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Rory
I can barely stop my husband!! I though all men were like him!
When I have a partner who has a pussy, I love going down on her, I just can't resist. That's before and after I'd cum in her too.

Keeweepoo, my suggestion would simply be to tell your partner...
"I want you to do this, right now."
Give him specific direction if need be, as well.
03/23/2013
edenguy edenguy
I would not recommend being passive. Communicate with him directly.

If he wanted anal, would you rather he communicated that with you directly, or passively during sex started nudging your butt with his penis?
03/23/2013
spiced spiced
Just ask. Tell him you love it and ask him to do it.

I've always loved the communication in the bedroom scene between Butch and Fabienne in Pulp Fiction.

Fabienne: Butch?
Butch: Yes.
Fabienne: Will you give me oral pleasure?
Butch: Will you kiss it?
Fabienne: But you first.
Butch: Ok.


Great scene! You can see the whole scene here: link (The above exchange is towards the end of the scene, at the 3:50 mark.)
03/23/2013
PassionCpl PassionCpl
Quote:
Originally posted by Rory
I can barely stop my husband!! I though all men were like him!
Same here!
03/23/2013
PassionCpl PassionCpl
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
Just ask. Tell him you love it and ask him to do it.

I've always loved the communication in the bedroom scene between Butch and Fabienne in Pulp Fiction.

Fabienne: Butch?
Butch: Yes.
Fabienne: Will you give me oral ... More
And all's great until your partner tells you they "like the way you stink"
03/23/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by keeweepoo
he says he has no problem with it, but i can't recall the last time it happened. what should i do?
I would just be honest..helloo she misses you down there.
03/26/2013
keeweepoo keeweepoo
lol, these are great. I give bjs frequently, and I like to think I'm the queen of road head, so that isn't the problem.

I've always been too timid to ask for things directly, and I guess I'm afraid to scare him! Before I was married, boys were very forceful - to the point that it was exhausting to deal with all the time. I was always timid and shy, but it didn't matter with them. Admittedly, my first sexual penetration experience was rape when I was 20, so that threw some things out of balance.

The hubs was never like that, which I appreciated, but now I have a whole new dynamic I'm trying to get used to. I probably should be more upfront in the bedroom about what I want specifically, but I don't want him to feel like he's just a tool! I have a more voracious sex drive than him, so we've already dealt with him feeling pressured. Communication is key, for sure!
03/29/2013
keeweepoo keeweepoo
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Originally posted by PassionCpl
Same here!
if only!
03/29/2013
TheirPet TheirPet
You can ask him or tell him to? I know I find it sexy when my partner tells me to go down on them.
03/29/2013
youngwife youngwife
I feel like he hesitates...what should I do? I'm young.. we're young... we doesn't have babies yet... we're enjoying each other.. but when we're having sex, I feel self conscious about oral... because before he does it, he'll ask me like "do i need to do/kiss it?" but with the "asking permission" tone...and when he does it, it's quite fast and in just a short time.. what should I do? is it not enjoyable?
06/03/2013
Fluke Fluke
Tell him it would be really hot it he gave you oral sex. Say you need it everytime you have sex. Describe exactly what you want done. This is not the time to be shy, this is where you know what you want and go get it.
06/03/2013
sunflower sunflower
Quote:
Originally posted by keeweepoo
he says he has no problem with it, but i can't recall the last time it happened. what should i do?
Talk to him about it. He doesn't know how you're feeling if you don't tell him. Or if that's not your thing, do the Monty Python thing said above.

AMEN @ 'fairs far' above, Woman China.
06/04/2013
Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by sunflower
Talk to him about it. He doesn't know how you're feeling if you don't tell him. Or if that's not your thing, do the Monty Python thing said above.

AMEN @ 'fairs far' above, Woman China.
Did he ever ? Sometimes people get out of the habit of doing things they once did when they first met. I think you could find a time when you are both going to be relaxed, take a nice bath or shower so you are smelling great, then put some sexy panties on maybe with a slinky bra or top and approach him. Ask him to remove your panties with only his teeth and, oh, while you are down there, how about licking things a little......mmmmm that would do it for me !
06/04/2013
youngwife youngwife
Quote:
Originally posted by Fluke
Tell him it would be really hot it he gave you oral sex. Say you need it everytime you have sex. Describe exactly what you want done. This is not the time to be shy, this is where you know what you want and go get it.
I really don't know how.. haha.. I feel like it's not my job to tell him what to do in bed.. but I'm also thinking about me.. I wanted to enjoy everything.. my husband is my first and ofcourse my last.. so I wanted to enjoy everything.. I'm more than willing to go down on him even without talking.. I was thinking before that maybe my approach will make him think that I also need it.. arrg!!! anyway thanks.. :0
06/05/2013
youngwife youngwife
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Originally posted by Woman China
BRILLIANT!!!!

The majority of men I have been with here have refused saying women are "unclean and dirty". Then expect me to give them a blow job. I just say... fairs fair.
correct!!!
06/05/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
If he won't respond to "Eat my pussy" in a sexy voice, something is wrong.
06/05/2013
CE CE
Get naked and sit on his face!
06/07/2013
youngwife youngwife
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Originally posted by CE
Get naked and sit on his face!
hahaha.. funny but, I have been reading some sexy novels and two characters..I read diff books and both the characters sat on their guy's face! hahahha... wanna try that... tomorrow night... hahahaha... thanks...
06/09/2013
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