Ladies, do you have to ask your man for oral, or does he just "go there"? If he just "goes there", does he ask "permission first"?

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Ladies, do you have to ask your man for oral, or does he just "go there"? If he just "goes there", does he ask "permission first"?

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Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Just wondering what the average "approach" involves with different couples. (sorry...question was hard to put into words for anyone other then male, female couples).
My ex boyfriend knew that I was very particular about consent, and always asked, or at least made sure I was very enthusiastic about it.
11/30/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
We don't ever do that as I don't like it, so other.
11/30/2012
Contributor: MsGoosie MsGoosie
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Originally posted by MrsHouseWife
I normally have to ask for my husband to go down on me, which is a problem as I hate asking
Sadly, I'm in the same situation with my lover! And past lovers, come to think of it. Somehow, I've never found a man who is enthusiastic about giving oral, and it's quite the point of contention when I get up the courage to bring it up. *sigh*
11/30/2012
Contributor: Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
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Originally posted by Kissy
He wants to more than I want him to!
same here
11/30/2012
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
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Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
My current partner LOVES going down on me!!! I never have to ask that is the first thing he wants to do when we crawl in bed after hugging an kissing. I have no objections to it either I LOVE it. I have had an ex where I have begged and played a sex ... more
That sounds really sad Had you ever flatout asked him (the ex that wouldn't do it willingly) what the deal was with that??
11/30/2012
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
whenever he feels like it. I know it's not his fave thing to do so I don't push it!
11/30/2012
Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
He never asks, and just goes down when he wants to. I don't complain...
11/30/2012
Contributor: XxXxX XxXxX
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Just wondering what the average "approach" involves with different couples. (sorry...question was hard to put into words for anyone other then male, female couples).
Personally, I have to be in the right mood for it. I'm single now, but when I was married, there really wasn't any conversation about it..It just happened and we knew when the other wanted it. When I was dating, there always seemed to be chatter about it.
11/30/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
No discussion needed. I love when he surprises me and just goes down. MIND BLOWING!!
12/02/2012
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
It's not my favorite thing ever, so I don't usually bother to ask, but I love when he does and he never asks, though that's due more to our BDSM dynamic than anything else.
12/02/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
My boyfriend just goes down there on his own and I like not having to ask, and not having any interruption where he asks about it. If I do not want it I just pull him upwards and we both know that means not right now.
12/02/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
My man does pretty much every time. I don't have to ask, he doesn't have to ask permission - it's just kind of understood.

Thank goodness!
12/06/2012
Contributor: No-nita No-nita
He will usually start heading down there whenever he feels like he wants to, and then double check with me before he actually starts.
12/11/2012
Contributor: SecretToyMan SecretToyMan
My wife doesn't ask, but I know when she wants it somehow. She actually tells me this a lot. I do ask before going because I don't keep track of her TOM and sometimes she starts and I won't know
12/16/2012