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Sera Sera
Do have any pain during oral sex? Why do you think it happens if you do? This is a curiousity question, because sometimes my husband and I have this problem. Please explain why you voted the way you did. Thanks!
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Total votes: 81
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08/14/2010
AussieSarah AussieSarah
No sure whether you mean giving or receiving but unfortunately ive sometimes caused my man pain when giving him oral
Its sometimes when im really trying to thrust down on him really quickly and deep, i sometimes catch my teeth on him. Only happened a few times but obviously it puts a bit of a downer on this which sucks.
Unfortunately i have a small mouth so sometimes when im not concentrating on keeping them out of the way they touch him unexpectedly
08/14/2010
Magician Magician
What's your definition of pain? Is going down on my wife until my jaw in numb from the motion considered pain? Because it isn't exactly a pleasant sensation.
08/14/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
The only pain I've ever experienced during oral is in receiving it, and it's not so much the 'sex' part, but his little beard grinding into my freshly saved sensitive skin. I've never had any pain while giving at all, but I also have no gag reflex or active nerves in the area that would trigger that response in most people.
08/14/2010
Midway through Midway through
I've never had pain other than when my partner bites. That's a sortof welcomed pain anyway-so I'm pretty sure that's not part of what you're talking about. What kind of pain do you mean? I'd need more specifics really to answer properly
08/14/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
I wouldn't call it pain, but if he has razor burn, it's not that pleasing.
08/14/2010
onehotmomma onehotmomma
I've had no pain giving, or recieving, Sometimes my other half says his tongue gets tired and his jaw, but not pain.
08/14/2010
Love Buzz Love Buzz
I've never experienced pain whilst giving or receiving
08/14/2010
SexyySarah SexyySarah
I do occasionally, only when hubby sucks to hard, no clue why it happens and I hate it cause he thinks he's doing something wrong!
08/15/2010
Kinkyquing Kinkyquing
I said yes, though now I'm thinking I possibly should have said 'sometimes'--since my partner and I are currently long-distance, she's only gone down on me once--and I discovered that my clit is *very* sensitive and was in a great deal of pain for until we figured out that her attentions should focus elsewhere; though now I'm wondering if it was maybe a matter of too little lubrication and her being a bit too eager.
08/22/2010
Annemarie Annemarie
I have an issue with opening my mouth wide enough to accept his, erm, member.

So, sometimes I get jaw pain when I do it for too long or when my mouth isn't warmed up.
08/22/2010
Prax Prax
I get a bit of the ol' sore jaw whilst giving, but it's easy to just use my hands for a bit while my mouth gets a rest. As I get more practice it gets less and less frequent.

As for getting, I wouldn't exactly call it pain, but occasionally my boy will lick my clit directly before I'm sufficiently turned on, which causes some discomfort.
08/25/2010
Fanny Fanny
giving or getting? sometimes i get beardburn!
08/27/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
painful oral?? never heard of it
10/22/2010
socceras socceras
What do you mean by pain? and the person thats giving or receiving? never experienced any of it. thankfully
11/29/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
There are two issues with oral at our place. yes my wife's jaw will get a little sore if it takes me a while to have my orgasm. She'll just back of and stroke me or add some anal or p-spot stimulation with her fingers.

Also - sometimes when I'm going down on her she can experience a little 'soreness' - oddly enough it's related to saliva. The wetter my oral action the quicker she will become uncomfortable. When that happens we just move on to 'the main event'.
11/29/2010
darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Sera
Do have any pain during oral sex? Why do you think it happens if you do? This is a curiousity question, because sometimes my husband and I have this problem. Please explain why you voted the way you did. Thanks!
Maybe giving head to long my jaw gets sore..
12/06/2010
ProperyOfPotter ProperyOfPotter
If I'm not already warmed up, it can be a little bit tender when he goes at it with agression. Otherwise, no problems at all!
12/07/2010
rdytogo rdytogo
Never really had a problem with pain from oral. Other things yeah, but thankfully not oral.
01/05/2011
sweet seduction sweet seduction
never had a problem thankfully
01/05/2011
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I don't have pain, though his beard is a bit itchy when it pokes me down there. He never has any pain, either, that I know of. If I think I hurt him with my teeth, I ask if it hurt. He always says no.
01/06/2011
Liz2 Liz2
I have never experienced pain receiving oral but my b/f has, at times, when I give him a BJ. The head of his penis is extra sensitive and I have inadvertently given him a hickey.
01/06/2011
sweet seduction sweet seduction
never!
01/14/2011
indiglo indiglo
No pain here either, but I imagine that must be very frustrating!!
01/18/2011
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by AussieSarah
No sure whether you mean giving or receiving but unfortunately ive sometimes caused my man pain when giving him oral
Its sometimes when im really trying to thrust down on him really quickly and deep, i sometimes catch my teeth on him. Only ... More
agreed. my jaw hurts after awhile and if he thrusts my teeth catch too not on purpose obviously but he doesnt like that and asks me to not use teeth, not like i mean to. but if he pushes my head down after i ask him not to do that then i do it a little bit to get him to stop or i just go alot slower.
02/04/2011
Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
haven't experienced it
02/09/2011
Lolla Munz Lolla Munz
Never.
05/01/2011
Bonesdance Bonesdance
I've never experienced any pain whatsoever on either end, but I know my wife has had her jaw lock open a time or two, which hurts like hell. I feel terrible when that happens.
05/11/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Never.
05/13/2011
That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I'm not sure what you mean by pain. I suppose if someone bit down or sucked really, really hard, it is possible. Of course we refrain from such things.
09/04/2011
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