Soft Or hard?

jmex83 jmex83
(This is the one that I MEANT to put in this section LOL)

My wife sometimes says that I press too hard on her clit with my tongue. She is sensitive, but I don't feel like I am pressing really that hard. ??? Its almost like I have to barely graze her clit with my tongue before she says its "ok". Anyone else like that? Is she just overly sensitive or do I not know my own strength lol!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Gentle, soft like a feather
The harder the better!
4  (9%)
In between
33  (77%)
Other* Leave comment
6  (14%)
Total votes: 43
Poll is closed
03/15/2012
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Silverdrop Silverdrop
Other: I'm not a big fan of having oral done to me. It doesn't feel bad, but it mostly just feels a bit weird, no matter what my partner is doing.
03/16/2012
ksparkles16 ksparkles16
in between for me
03/16/2012
Khanner Khanner
For me, this has definitely happened with fingers, but never with a tongue. I prefer the whole area to be stimulated before direct stimulation on the clit.

Some people have extremely sensitive clits and they can't stand being touched on the glans until they're about to cum. This may be the case with your wife. Try starting off licking around her clit or on the hood/labia/vagina and when she's worked up enough, start gently on her clit.

Or maybe you just have a really buff tongue, who knows?
03/16/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
My wife prefers if I vary the pressure. Always soft at first and gradually increasing pressure.
03/16/2012
HugsAndBites HugsAndBites
soft first, then in between
03/16/2012
dhig dhig
sometimes my girl gets quite sensitive, yeah
03/16/2012
cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
I like a lot of pressure from the get go. I don't have a super sensitive clitoris though.
03/18/2012
terry62 terry62
in between for me
03/18/2012
dbm6907 dbm6907
In between. If i get too much stimulation it starts to become numb and whatnot.
03/20/2012
goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by jmex83
(This is the one that I MEANT to put in this section LOL)

My wife sometimes says that I press too hard on her clit with my tongue. She is sensitive, but I don't feel like I am pressing really that hard. ??? Its almost like I have to barely ... More
My girlfriend likes me to vary the amount of pressure.
03/21/2012
hey steady hey steady
Quote:
Originally posted by jmex83
(This is the one that I MEANT to put in this section LOL)

My wife sometimes says that I press too hard on her clit with my tongue. She is sensitive, but I don't feel like I am pressing really that hard. ??? Its almost like I have to barely ... More
It depends...mostly on how much action my clit has already received! x
03/21/2012
Sinfully Sinfully
In between although leaning on the harder side rather than softer.
03/21/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
i dont understand how u can press ur tongue to hard but my bf is def to rough with his fingers
03/21/2012
Mwar Mwar
Everyone's different and one person can like different things at different times. Makes sex fun
03/21/2012
tinadice tinadice
Quote:
Originally posted by jmex83
(This is the one that I MEANT to put in this section LOL)

My wife sometimes says that I press too hard on her clit with my tongue. She is sensitive, but I don't feel like I am pressing really that hard. ??? Its almost like I have to barely ... More
In between
03/21/2012
Rossie Rossie
In between. I also hate it when my husband press too hard, and I'll tell him to stop doing that immediately, it's a total turnoff for me.
03/22/2012
ijako9 ijako9
My wife likes it soft at first but hard as she gets excited
03/22/2012
Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
I second that, start soft and indirect. Finish with firm and direct. Rinse and repeat.
08/03/2012
Two Grand Two Grand
My lady likes me to suck on her clit, and then she cums like crazy every time.
08/03/2012
Chefbriapink Chefbriapink
Variation shes just ultra sensitive
10/14/2012
Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
Hmmmm I've never had oral before, but when it comes to touching or toys, I have to be FULLY excited and prepared before I can take more than gentle grazing DIRECTLY on my clit. It's like I have to work up to that. Eventually it feels amazing, but it takes work.
10/14/2012
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Unique posters: 22