Why do some guys deny their love for prostate stimulation?

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Why do some guys deny their love for prostate stimulation?

Jace Jace
I love when my girl plays with my prostate, but some guys I run in to are very shy about it. I KNOW most guys have tried it.
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Makes them feel "gay".
MistressDandelion , Sangsara , funcouple , BlooJay , Kitka , Rin (aka Nire) , Vaginas , cj89 , AliMc , ghalik
10
They are just plain shy.
Taylor , MistressDandelion , Sangsara , Kitka , Vaginas , The Majikat , ghalik
7
They are embarrassed.
Gunsmoke , Varmint , Trysexual , squire , ejrbrndps , Taylor , MistressDandelion , Sangsara , jakjak , Two Grand , funcouple , Ciao. , BlooJay , travelnurse , Kitka , Apirka , AmethystSmoke , gehuwd , Rin (aka Nire) , Vaginas , Zandrock , konicaguy , cj89 , AliMc , ghalik
25
They think its none of our business.
MistressDandelion , Sangsara
2
What? Guys like that stuff? {proves my point}
Total votes: 44 (26 voters)
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09/19/2012
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I voted mostly embarrassment - but I'm not at all embarrassed and I get very little pleasure from prostate stimulation. I enjoy anal play - but it seems mostly related to pressure and thrusting.
09/19/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
Societal judgements I presume and/or embarrassment.
09/20/2012
Chou Wang Chou Wang
Well it's the social stigma connected with all anal male activity. In some societies if you're labeled as a homosexual of some sort (even if your girl fucks your ass) most will turn away from you in business and privately. I'd not really openly discuss this subject even if I hardly give a damn about what most of the other people think of me.
09/20/2012
squire squire
I'm sure there are a range of reason why but my experience tells me that embarrassment is the reason. I know many women who have introduced this with their boyfriends, and have found them to either like it or not like it but accommodate the experimentation.
09/20/2012
Sangsara Sangsara
All the guys I have met I have ventured at least a finger up there and all but 2 loved it
09/23/2012
Ciao. Ciao.
I think it's mostly a lack of familiarity, and then some shyness/embarrassment.
10/03/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
I come from a small town, and I think most of them associate anything having to do with the backdoor as a gay thing. It's unfortunate they think that. I think embarrassment has something to do with it too.
10/03/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
I think my husband is embarrassed!
10/03/2012
Kitka Kitka
I think they're just plain shy or embarrassed but I have run into a couple guys who said they think it makes them gay if they enjoy it and so they don't want to admit to it (totally ridiculous of course but people have their own opinions).
10/03/2012
AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
My guess is embarrassment. Popular opinion still holds that heterosexual men aren't supposed to like anal stimulation so even if a man doesn't think anal play makes him "gay" he won't easily admit he enjoys it.
10/03/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
Some people probably legitimately do not like it. The others are probably uncomfortable with it, or embarassed
10/04/2012
konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Jace
I love when my girl plays with my prostate, but some guys I run in to are very shy about it. I KNOW most guys have tried it.
My wife asked me "Are you gay?" And I told her "No. I just like a beautiful woman stimulating me, not a dude!" And hence my embarrassment about it.
10/09/2012
cj89 cj89
i could see where guys get shy about it and see that they may feel gay about it. but i do believe there is nothing gay about a beautiful woman sexually stimulating you, i for one openly embrace it when she does it for me
10/15/2012
Total posts: 14
Unique posters: 14