Am I gay?

Hi there Hi there
I do enjoy anal sex and prostate stimulation. Does it make me gay?
06/16/2008
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AnalCurious AnalCurious
Quote:
Originally posted by Hi there
I do enjoy anal sex and prostate stimulation. Does it make me gay?
Not at all! Many men (gay and straight) enjoy anal sex cause prostate stimulation is very powerful. I like anal very much, but I'm definitely not a gay!
06/16/2008
Kval Kval
Quote:
Originally posted by Hi there
I do enjoy anal sex and prostate stimulation. Does it make me gay?
No, it does not make you a gay! And do not believe those who say it, that is NOT correct. The fact that you enjoy butt sex just means that you like anal stimulation, nothing more!
06/16/2008
Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
I agree with the information stated above. I am also a male who appreciates anal sex and prostate stimulation, but I am definitely attracted to the female form and love making love to my female partner. She is very open about pleasing me as well and is willing to accommodate my anal fetish.
06/16/2008
Essin' Em Essin' Em
Agreed. Lots of guys, of all orientations and attractions, enjoy anal and prostate stimulation (hell, lots of gals like anal stimulation too). Nothing to do with your sexuality, just with what you like
06/16/2008
Cock Wrangler Cock Wrangler
Nope!
06/16/2008
Alt Alt
I concur, and anal play is fun. Now you might not find a lot of guys to either admit to it or even do it, since some do not keep an open enough mind to try. Therefore they don't actually know whether or not it feels nice.
Indeed it of course feels nice, but some are just not up for giving it a try.

An example of this could be in a different context. I remember a friend explaining how he refused to make out with his gf after he came in her mouth. He said "That shit is just nasty and I would never taste my own 'jizz', would you?"
My response was "Dude, hell no, but I still would make out with her so I cant agree with you completely"

Even though I didn't admit to it, I have indeed tasted my own cum. Never used to like it until recently when a few girls dared me to lift up when I am about to do so and have it go into my mouth. Wasn't really "good" still although the thought dwelled on my brain for days. Eventually I tried to do it atleast once a week.
Hell now I actually have learned to like it, and find it to be a turn on when I do so. (Funny how your taste changes. I used to think it was salty as hell and for some reason it taste sweet after about a month or so of experimenting)

Anyway, that could be another story all together.
The point is people don't always tell the truth since sometimes somethings are best kept to yourself, while other times it is fine to express yourself

By the way, in case you are wondering, I am 100% straight haha. I cringe at the fact of being with another dude!
Although I do wish my mindset was different, meaning bi. Why you might ask --> more options & choices obviously. Oh well, I just have to be lame and stick with being straight =]

Hopefully this helps.
-Matt
07/02/2008
Maria Maria
I think it only makes you gay if you want to receive the anal sex and prostate stimulation from another boy.
07/26/2008
Snappy Snappy
No. That's just an example of erroneous reasoning: if I like anal pleasure, I must also like penetration by another man's penis. Most men like some anal stimulation with their blowjob, enjoy a good rimming, and would try pegging if asked.
09/28/2008
Pixie and Joo Pixie and Joo
The definition of being gay is being atracted to someone of the same sex so unless your atracted to men, that is completly not true. I love anal play of all sorts and I am very streight.
05/13/2009
In Purrgatory In Purrgatory
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Originally posted by Alt
I concur, and anal play is fun. Now you might not find a lot of guys to either admit to it or even do it, since some do not keep an open enough mind to try. Therefore they don't actually know whether or not it feels nice.Indeed it of course feels ... More
completely tangential, but the taste might have changed due to what you ate that day. I'm told it's very dependent on diet.
07/08/2009
Yoda Yoda
No way dude.
08/22/2009
Rocky LaFemme Rocky LaFemme
Nope, it's not what you but who you do it and want to do it with.
08/22/2009
Owl Identified Owl Identified
If so, then my boyfriend is gay Phooey!
08/22/2009
Richard Wagner, Ph.D Richard Wagner, Ph.D
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Originally posted by Hi there
I do enjoy anal sex and prostate stimulation. Does it make me gay?
it would if only The Gays had prostates!
08/25/2009
Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
Quote:
Originally posted by Snappy
No. That's just an example of erroneous reasoning: if I like anal pleasure, I must also like penetration by another man's penis. Most men like some anal stimulation with their blowjob, enjoy a good rimming, and would try pegging if asked.
I agree, i enjoy my wife doing my ass with a toy or fingers, if for some crazy reason we had a threesome with an another man, it might be assumed i would take it, but, i could never love a man the way i love my wife, i would never sleep with a guy (i guess soley), i dont feel intrigued about blowing a guy, i just like prostate stimulation and sex toys in my butt
09/23/2009
2BudZ 2BudZ
No way does it make or consider you gay. It's clearly an avenue of self (or with "female" partner) sexual exploration that many men have not tried. Those who have not are seriously missing out. Continue on with your P-Spot play...uninhibited! :o)
09/30/2009
fishkiller fishkiller
No you are not gay.
12/23/2009
Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
This has probably been stated a dozen time already but I have to say it.

The only thing that would make you "gay" is if you are attracted to males, and only males. So really... if your not attracted to guys then your not gay. At least that is how I see it anyway.
12/25/2009
LavenderLive LavenderLive
My husband enjoys prostate stimulation and pegging. (Where I use a strap-on or vibrator on him.) He is not gay.
06/06/2010
kcordie kcordie
nope! you'd know.
08/31/2010
softkkisses softkkisses
Nope! You'd know if your were
09/01/2010
ScottA ScottA
This has to be one of the longer-running threads on the forum.

It's a logical fallacy. Liking anal stimulation is neither necessary nor sufficient for one to be gay. The way the argument reduces is this: Gay people like (x). I like (x). Therefore I am gay. See the problem yet?

We'll try plugging in something else. Not all gay people like anal stimulation, but most like oral sex. Therefore the argument becomes:

Gay people like oral sex. I like oral sex. Therefore I am gay.

It's obviously silly there, isn't it, and yet the pattern of thought is exactly the same. In order for this argument to work you need to think of something that is sufficient for gayness (in other words something or a set of somethings that is always connected with gayness and never connected with anything else). Anal stimulation doesn't work - some het women like anal stimulation, some het men like anal stimulation, and some gay people (of either sex) don't like anal stimulation.
09/01/2010
clp clp
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Originally posted by ScottA
This has to be one of the longer-running threads on the forum.

It's a logical fallacy. Liking anal stimulation is neither necessary nor sufficient for one to be gay. The way the argument reduces is this: Gay people like (x). I like (x). ... More
ScottA, I like you. I was getting out my boxing gloves when the voices of reason, like you and P'Gell, ring in. Thank the forum overlords for people like you.

I can't help but be defensive.
09/01/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
not at all. the body likes what it likes. has nothing to do with your sexuality.
10/12/2010
Madeira Madeira
Quote:
Originally posted by Hi there
I do enjoy anal sex and prostate stimulation. Does it make me gay?
No, no it does not. As long as you're male and want to have sex with women and not men... you're straight.

No sex act is inherently straight or gay, it's who you do it with that determines the sexuality of a sex act. I'm sure there are gay men out there that would like the feeling of a vagina, but they're still only attracted to men, same with straight dudes that like it in the ass, they're still straight.
10/12/2010
Ropeguy Ropeguy
It would depend on if you are attracted to women or men. The fact that you like prostate stimulation has absolutely nothing to do with your sexual orientation.

Not in the slightest.
12/05/2010
slynch slynch
Quote:
Originally posted by Hi there
I do enjoy anal sex and prostate stimulation. Does it make me gay?
Only if you are having anal sex with a man.
02/23/2011
callsignhusker callsignhusker
Quote:
Originally posted by Hi there
I do enjoy anal sex and prostate stimulation. Does it make me gay?
Umm...

There's no logical connection there. Be open to both sexes, experiment, go on dates, if you're this unsure you could be straight or gay OR BI who knows, lots of people are bi and don't realize it.

Good luck, happy hunting!
03/06/2011
Eden C. Eden C.
Quote:
Originally posted by Hi there
I do enjoy anal sex and prostate stimulation. Does it make me gay?
Being gay is about being attracted to men, not enjoying a certain kind of stimulation. They are totally separate.
03/06/2011
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