I am buying my mom her first glass dildo should I get her the same one I have since I know that it is a good first glass dildo?

CS2012 CS2012
I was talking to my mom today and asked her if she has ever tried a glass dildo. She was like no. She said it in an odd way which I asked her why she said it so odd. She said she had never heard of a glass dildo. I told her about mine and how awesome it is. That it is double ended and the size on each end is different. She loved that idea. I am thinking of getting her the Amazing Swirls glass dildo. Which is the one I have and love it.

Should I just get her that one since I know it is good choice for a first glass dildo? For those of you wondering I did ask her if it would embarrass her if I bought her one and picked it out and she said it wouldn't. So I am going to surprise her and have which ever one I get her mailed to her place.
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Yes, get her the one you have.
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No, I would get a different one.
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toxie m toxie m
Well, there's TONS of choice in affordable glass out there. I have the Amazing Swirls myself and I love it, but I also have other pieces that I love too (maybe even more). One option would be to look through similar glass pieces in the same price range and throw together a comparison and email it to her, and have her pick one from the selection.

Personally, I'd get my mom a different (if similar) piece. That's totally a personal comfort thing, though. I just know that if I got my mom the same one, I'd probably end up thinking about her every time I grabbed it to use it, and therefore would never end up using it again, haha. Ew. Since there are so many choices out there, I'd probably get a different model because it'd be no hassle AND it'd put some mental distance between mom-topics and sexy-topics.

If that's not an issue for you, then I suppose there's no harm in getting the same one. Don't feel tied down to recommending the only one you've personally tried, though. Reviews are brilliantly helpful
10/26/2011
Katastophy Katastophy
I would ask her some more personal question like how she feels about texture and if she prefers a straight toy or one with a g-spot tip. This would help you to decide what you get her, if you don't get her the Amazing Swirls. The Icicles line has some pretty interesting and beautiful pieces, so you should check those out if you're considering other options.
Personally, I wouldn't have comfort issues with my mom using the same toy that I use.
10/26/2011
Cherrylane Cherrylane
I'd probably get a different one and make it one that idk, you know, reflected what seemed like her taste or whatever. I think it would probably weird my mom out if I told her I got her the same toy I was using.
WE CAN BE TOY TWINS!
10/26/2011
CS2012 CS2012
For instance I told her how envious I was when she said that my step-dad was returning to their home with 3 brand new porn movies and a cock ring. I wish my husband would come home with 3 brand new porn movies and a cock ring.

She is even going to let me borrow them.
10/26/2011
Mr Dj Mr Dj
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Originally posted by CS2012
I was talking to my mom today and asked her if she has ever tried a glass dildo. She was like no. She said it in an odd way which I asked her why she said it so odd. She said she had never heard of a glass dildo. I told her about mine and how awesome ... More
Get her a different one.. =)
10/26/2011
CS2012 CS2012
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Originally posted by CS2012
For instance I told her how envious I was when she said that my step-dad was returning to their home with 3 brand new porn movies and a cock ring. I wish my husband would come home with 3 brand new porn movies and a cock ring.

She is even ... More
Thanks everyone for your input. I sent her a comparison chart and included the Amazing Swirls glass dildo. I let her know that is the one I have. I figured I would let her decide if she wanted the one I have or a different one.
10/26/2011
CS2012 CS2012
Quote:
Originally posted by CS2012
For instance I told her how envious I was when she said that my step-dad was returning to their home with 3 brand new porn movies and a cock ring. I wish my husband would come home with 3 brand new porn movies and a cock ring.

She is even ... More
So I would not have a problem if we had the same toy. My sister & I have the same toy. By coincidence we both hate the toy.
10/26/2011
Beck Beck
I would get her the same one. You know how awesome it is, so it is a good choice.
10/26/2011
indiglo indiglo
I think sending her a comparison was the perfect way to go! Everyone is built differently (even in the same family) and has different preferences. This way if she doesn't end up liking the toy, it won't be your fault because she'll be the one that picked it out! lol
10/27/2011
Girly Girl Girly Girl
your mom ? cool give her a gift card instead or ,, if you want to buy it yourself
11/30/2011
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
...I've been thinking of getting my mother a new toy at the local sex shop for her birthday this march myself but I'd say get her one that's similar but still different.
I think from my own point of view I'd find it a little disturbing if my mother and I both had the same toy.
12/10/2011
Ash1141 Ash1141
Cant go wrong with one you like yourself
12/15/2011
geliebt geliebt
I see no problem with choosing one you know to be good! Go for it!
12/23/2011
fredacarl fredacarl
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Originally posted by CS2012
I was talking to my mom today and asked her if she has ever tried a glass dildo. She was like no. She said it in an odd way which I asked her why she said it so odd. She said she had never heard of a glass dildo. I told her about mine and how awesome ... More
yes
02/21/2012
Eliza Eliza
This is super bizarre to me because I can't ever imagine getting my mom a sex toy, but I'd say get her the one you have, especially since you were already telling her about it.
02/21/2012
dm dm
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Originally posted by CS2012
I was talking to my mom today and asked her if she has ever tried a glass dildo. She was like no. She said it in an odd way which I asked her why she said it so odd. She said she had never heard of a glass dildo. I told her about mine and how awesome ... More
It's great you are this open with your mother.
12/30/2012
fizzygato fizzygato
Yeah--- getting the same gift isn't a bad thing, if you want to be sure they'll have a good time with it/ it is a generally favored item by many

That seems like saying, "Should I not get someone an iPad because I have one, etc"?? Idk, I don't think it should matter if you have it or not
01/16/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
It's great you were even able to talk to her about this, I think mine would disown me. But as far as buying parents anything I always buy what I have so if they have questions then I'm the go to person for them.
01/22/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
If you know it's good, by all means, get her that one. On the other hand, you could get her a different one and then you can compare. This way you might learn about a new and different dildo.
01/22/2013
gabs33 gabs33
for your mom give her a gift card instead
01/22/2013
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
If you feel like the one you have is a good first glass dildo then get that one for her. It's awesome that you guys can talk like this.
01/22/2013
shorejen9 shorejen9
I'd go with the one you have and love.
01/22/2013
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
What a great relationship you have with your mom! Ask if she likes textures. She may have some preferences you don't know about. Maybe even let her see/feel yours if you live close enough.

If she doesn't know about textures, I'd get her a smooth one to start, something such as link , link , link , link , link or link
01/22/2013
RavenInChains RavenInChains
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Originally posted by CS2012
I was talking to my mom today and asked her if she has ever tried a glass dildo. She was like no. She said it in an odd way which I asked her why she said it so odd. She said she had never heard of a glass dildo. I told her about mine and how awesome ... More
I'd get a different one. Or at the very least the same one in a different color if that was an option. I'm not sure why though honestly. I have no logical reason. I just know I'd find it a little weird from that point onward to use that toy.
02/01/2013
karenm karenm
I'd say get the same toy, unless you know she has some different preference than you (like with shape or textures).
02/26/2013
sexynola sexynola
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Originally posted by CS2012
I was talking to my mom today and asked her if she has ever tried a glass dildo. She was like no. She said it in an odd way which I asked her why she said it so odd. She said she had never heard of a glass dildo. I told her about mine and how awesome ... More
get her what you know and trust
02/26/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I'm sure you have got this for her already...whats her thoughts??
02/26/2013
SaraBroughman SaraBroughman
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Originally posted by CS2012
I was talking to my mom today and asked her if she has ever tried a glass dildo. She was like no. She said it in an odd way which I asked her why she said it so odd. She said she had never heard of a glass dildo. I told her about mine and how awesome ... More
I'd get her a glass one, but I think it'd be awkward if you gave her the same one you have. But then again by now you've already made your choice! This poll should be closed!
02/28/2013
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by CS2012
I was talking to my mom today and asked her if she has ever tried a glass dildo. She was like no. She said it in an odd way which I asked her why she said it so odd. She said she had never heard of a glass dildo. I told her about mine and how awesome ... More
I say get her the one you have, since you know it's good!
02/28/2013
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