Doggy Style-How to make it NOT hurt!

jmex83 jmex83
My wife tends to not feel comfortable *(physically) in the doggy style position. she has a hard time with it because it physically hurts her. We have tried different angles and we're goin to be trying the liberator once we get it in this week. I was wondering if there are any tips out there for making this a less painful problem? She has never been told there is anything "wrong" with her insides (and she has had four kids, so Im sure they would have said something by now if there was anything wrong with placement of "things)....Just wondered if anyone else had this issue and was able to solve the problem. If not, its no biggie for me.
03/21/2012
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ladychristie ladychristie
I had a problem with my ex but he was too big for me. J is average and we have no problem I have the upper part of my body down and I angle my butt up.
03/21/2012
Ansley Ansley
Sounds like you might be tagging her cervix or the bottom of her bladder when you're thrusting, which can be extremely painful. Doggy style is a great position when you're on the average/smaller side of the spectrum but it can be a bear if you're bigger than average. Try to be mindful of your depth when thrusting and see if that helps.
03/21/2012
GS500 GS500
Agree with above, don't go all the way in at the same rate, slow down and you can stop when you feel pressure.
03/21/2012
underHim underHim
Make a ring around the base of your cock using your fingers, or even a hankerchief (do not tie it too tight) and only go as deep as you can before hitting that. Do you know what I mean? It will keep you from going to deep.
03/21/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
She needs a medical exam to rule out cysts or other problems.
03/21/2012
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Lizzy
She needs a medical exam to rule out cysts or other problems.
She may have had one recently. He did say everything has checked out just fine after birthing several children and subsequent examinations since.
03/21/2012
Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
I agree with everyone. if all is well physically, then try to watch your depth.
03/21/2012
MaryH MaryH
My husband is bigger and I just lay my head down low and my butt upwards and it feels amazing.. it is my favorite.
03/22/2012
MamaDivine MamaDivine
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Originally posted by Lizzy
She needs a medical exam to rule out cysts or other problems.
Hi Lizzy, Im jmex's wife. I have had cysts in the past, they were nothing to be concerned about (or so I was told). Ive had them since I was pregnant for my first child (16yrs old) and I have had four more children within the last 10 years. recently, just had a baby about 8 months ago. So everything has been ultrasounded and checked out. Im sure if they found anything "out of place" they would have said something.

Ill swing by my OB's office tho and see if maybe she can have a quick peek and let me know if theres anything that was missed tho. Sometimes, if you're not "LOOKING" For it, you'll miss it completely. Thanks for the suggestion.
03/24/2012
MamaDivine MamaDivine
Im thinking that it might actually be more of a physical problem issue for me. Jmex isn't really "long" per se, I've been with much larger in the past without incident. So, Im going to get checked out to see if theres anything rearing its ugly head. Thanks for the suggestions everyone. Ill take those into account too though.
03/24/2012
wildorchid wildorchid
Good luck!!!
03/24/2012
sneako sneako
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Originally posted by jmex83
My wife tends to not feel comfortable *(physically) in the doggy style position. she has a hard time with it because it physically hurts her. We have tried different angles and we're goin to be trying the liberator once we get it in this week. I ... More
if it's due to the depth of penetration arching her back might help
03/24/2012
pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
Angle is important, try her upper body being closer to the bed/floor/whatever. And if it is just that it doesn't work with you guys try reverse cowgirl, same feeling but she controls how deep. And finally don' start with it, most women simple can't start in a doggy style position; try ending with it and see how that feels.
03/25/2012
SexysaurousRex SexysaurousRex
you tend to reach deeper with doggy style so watch how deep you go. and watch your angle. my partner is gifted in the rear (which is why i like behind so i get a nice view ^_^) so we have to adjust the angle some as well. lubrication could be an issue but i don't think so.

one time just try and talk it out with each other. find out what and where is the painful part of it and adjust. getting feedback from her while trying carefully will be the most helpful thing to do.
03/25/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
I've never had a problem with it. It's actually one of the most comfortable positions for me. (Though Missionary is tied)
I'd just listen to everyone else here, they have good advice!
03/28/2012
butts butts
If we start out in that position I'm a tad uncomfortable, but if we do it after another position I'm fine. I just need to warm up to it since I'm a very small person and my partner is on the larger side of average, with no warm up it can be too much to take. Go slow at first and watch your depth, as others have said.
04/02/2012
oregonboy9 oregonboy9
I've never had a problem with my girlfriend, she can't get enough of it.
04/12/2012
Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
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Originally posted by jmex83
My wife tends to not feel comfortable *(physically) in the doggy style position. she has a hard time with it because it physically hurts her. We have tried different angles and we're goin to be trying the liberator once we get it in this week. I ... More
Definitely never had a problem with this one, even with my ex who was very large in that department .... face down, ass up ... sends me straight into ecstasy. So yes she needs to be checked, it could be that she has a shallow vagina.
04/19/2012
stagboi stagboi
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Originally posted by jmex83
My wife tends to not feel comfortable *(physically) in the doggy style position. she has a hard time with it because it physically hurts her. We have tried different angles and we're goin to be trying the liberator once we get it in this week. I ... More
Be sure to use lube!
04/20/2012
ScottA ScottA
Try moving around a bit. An erect penis can be pretty stiff, and if it isn't pointing just right it can poke things. Another thing to try would be "flipped doggie" where you're lying down, because you can vary your angle and be not so bent over (which would make your buttocks more "cushy" and limit penetration a bit). If that doesn't work there are plenty of other positions to try, so why not avoid doggie?
04/21/2012
Bb93 Bb93
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Originally posted by MaryH
My husband is bigger and I just lay my head down low and my butt upwards and it feels amazing.. it is my favorite.
Same! I love doggy.
04/30/2012
pokefan15 pokefan15
Liberators help alot!
05/01/2012
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