Shower before going down on a female or not?

callsignhusker callsignhusker
Do you think a shower is necessary before going down on a female partner, not necessary or optional?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Shower
39  (27%)
No shower
15  (10%)
It depends...
89  (62%)
Total votes: 143
Poll is closed
04/08/2012
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LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
Do you think a shower is necessary before going down on a female partner, not necessary or optional?
I feel much more okay with having a shower first.
04/08/2012
underHim underHim
Cleaner is always better, it is cleaner for him and I tend to feel much less worried if I just cleaned up, less self conscious, you know?
04/08/2012
Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
If I've been doing something where I know I'm sweaty and would not be smelling pleasantly (anything that makes me sweaty like working out) I would shower first. However, if I've had a normal day it isn't necessary.
04/08/2012
<3BF <3BF
I usually don't mind either way but my gf will insist most of the time. And for her to go down on me it's the same.
04/08/2012
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
If it's a hot day, a shower is kind of necessary.
04/08/2012
ScottA ScottA
If things have been sweaty then it's definitely nice.
04/08/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
I prefer to have a shower first, but sometimes being spontaneous doesn't permit that.
04/08/2012
Peggi Peggi
Usually, my guy doesn't want/need me to, but if it is after a long day and I've been sweating, whether he asks me to or not, I am at the least going to clean up if not completely shower before he goes down on me.

I always try and use an Eden wipe or something prior to him going down on me, though.
04/08/2012
Kitka Kitka
I don't normally shower first because I've already showered that day. Would be sort of ridiculous to shower again just because someone wants to give me oral.
04/08/2012
Badass Badass
I personally feel more secure if I shower right before getting some oral action...
04/08/2012
Rossie Rossie
It depends. If my man is sweaty and dirty from a long day, I'll send him to the shower before he comes near me, or else a quick clean up is sufficient.
04/08/2012
Girly Juice Girly Juice
If you're JUST going down on her, nothing else? No shower necessary, unless you're so dirty that you smell. If the oral sex is going to transition to other sexual activities (especially her going down on you), then yeah, a shower would be nice.
04/08/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
Do you think a shower is necessary before going down on a female partner, not necessary or optional?
Optional, preferable but not necessary
04/08/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I've never been too concerned about it. It only 'bit' me once when I tried to go down on a girl for the first time - I almost threw up. I've never had a problem with my wife - she's more worried about it that me.
04/09/2012
grace grace
I carry wipes in my purse just in case.
04/09/2012
lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
Do you think a shower is necessary before going down on a female partner, not necessary or optional?
my husband did i beleave we all should if u know what i man?
04/09/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
Do you think a shower is necessary before going down on a female partner, not necessary or optional?
It just depends
04/09/2012
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
Do you think a shower is necessary before going down on a female partner, not necessary or optional?
I personally don't take a shower specifically for that purpose, but I never skip a shower. I don't shower before my partner does that for me because I don't need to. I don't have downstairs issues. No odors, problems or anything like that. Thankfully! No period to worry about so I'm good in that dept. He is happy that way and insists on doing it before intercourse. Lucky me
04/09/2012
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
Do you think a shower is necessary before going down on a female partner, not necessary or optional?
as is the european custom, i wash myself after going to the bathroom, everytime. so there's no need for a shower before sex acts.
04/09/2012
Katelyn Katelyn
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
as is the european custom, i wash myself after going to the bathroom, everytime. so there's no need for a shower before sex acts.
Yay Alice ; )

Great response as always.

I like to wash before anyone goes down on me and I hope the other person does the same. It doesn't always happen but I still prefer it.
04/09/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm a very clean person, and my husband knows that. He doesn't mind if I've showered or not...sometimes he prefers that I don't because then I smell more natural and not so much like my body wash
04/09/2012
CindyH CindyH
perfer shower
04/09/2012
cepl5869 cepl5869
if shes had a ruff day at work then yes
04/09/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
I prefer to take baths. It seems to get me cleaner. Sometimes though, he just grabs me and doesn't care. "NO, NO bath. NOW!"

The other day I was working in the kitchen all day, and he came home and... licked my chest to say "Hi." I said, "Kind of salty, huh?" and he said, "Oh yeah. Just how I like it."

He's a weird guy. LOVE him.
04/09/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
It depends... usually its not a big deal but sometimes...
04/09/2012
ScottA ScottA
A couple of passes with a washcloth can help after a hot day as well.
04/09/2012
alayamae alayamae
it's kinda gross if you're not clean down there.
04/09/2012
True Pleasures True Pleasures
I'm not sure if my husband would care, but I'd want to shower beforehand.
04/09/2012
callsignhusker callsignhusker
I myself would probably fall in the it depends category.. but it's interesting to see the results of the poll!
04/10/2012
Total posts: 93
Unique posters: 89