Not What I Expected
This toy was not exciting, and did not deliver the double stimulation that it advertised because of a bulky and heavy design.Published: May 26, 2009
Pros:
Two forms of stimulation, g-spot and clitoral.
Cons:
Bulky design can get in the way of stimulation.
I bought this toy in the blue version for twice as much at an adult store. Needless to say I was disappointed with the overall performance, and it was not what I expected. The original reason I bought this toy was that I wanted a vibrator that would offer vaginal penetration/vibration and clitoral vibration, but in a smaller price range than the classic rabbit vibrators. The price was much lower, but so was the quality of sensations.
The toy is made from a jelly compound. I noticed right away that it was bendable and supple, yet still firm enough to be felt when inserted. There was also a distinct rubber smell to the toy. It reminded me of the smell associated with latex condoms. I should also note here that because it is made of jelly, you SHOULD NOT clean it like you clean silicone toys. Jelly toys are much more sensitive to heat so they should not be boiled, warm water and antibacterial soap or toy cleaner will do. If you are sharing toys, always use a condom with this one because of its cleaning restrictions. I used both silicone and water-based lubricants with this toy with no ill effects, but I did notice that I had to use more lubricant than I normally would for other toys to be comfortable.
I primarily used this toy for solo play. It was a little bulky and hard to insert at first. I felt the vibrations weren't very strong, but I also felt that the jelly did not transfer sensations very well. The insertable nub, I first assumed would offer excellent g spot stimulation. However I found it hard to insert and remove, and also so bulky that I did not feel any vibrations transfer to my vagina. The butterfly clitoral stimulator provided much better and stronger vibrations, but because of the bulky g-spot nub it was very difficult to get the butterfly to actually touch my clitoris. This led to a lot of frustration on my part, because of the lack of sensation caused by the models design.
The buttons used to control the vibrations were also a problem for me. There was one on and off button that went through four different levels of intensity. You had to go through all four levels in order to turn it off. I found this to be a drawback because if I wanted to go to intensity 2 then back down to intensity 1, I had to cycle through all four cycles. This obviously interrupted the experience. Also, since I don't live alone, it was very difficult to turn the toy off quickly. Hence embarrassing situations when people don't know how to knock.
I personally would not use this toy again. If I were to recommend this toy to someone, I would recommend it to someone who doesn't share toys with anyone else (because of what its made of) and to someone who enjoys toys that have a larger g-spot simulator and does not find larger, heavier toys to be uncomfortable.
The toy is made from a jelly compound. I noticed right away that it was bendable and supple, yet still firm enough to be felt when inserted. There was also a distinct rubber smell to the toy. It reminded me of the smell associated with latex condoms. I should also note here that because it is made of jelly, you SHOULD NOT clean it like you clean silicone toys. Jelly toys are much more sensitive to heat so they should not be boiled, warm water and antibacterial soap or toy cleaner will do. If you are sharing toys, always use a condom with this one because of its cleaning restrictions. I used both silicone and water-based lubricants with this toy with no ill effects, but I did notice that I had to use more lubricant than I normally would for other toys to be comfortable.
I primarily used this toy for solo play. It was a little bulky and hard to insert at first. I felt the vibrations weren't very strong, but I also felt that the jelly did not transfer sensations very well. The insertable nub, I first assumed would offer excellent g spot stimulation. However I found it hard to insert and remove, and also so bulky that I did not feel any vibrations transfer to my vagina. The butterfly clitoral stimulator provided much better and stronger vibrations, but because of the bulky g-spot nub it was very difficult to get the butterfly to actually touch my clitoris. This led to a lot of frustration on my part, because of the lack of sensation caused by the models design.
The buttons used to control the vibrations were also a problem for me. There was one on and off button that went through four different levels of intensity. You had to go through all four levels in order to turn it off. I found this to be a drawback because if I wanted to go to intensity 2 then back down to intensity 1, I had to cycle through all four cycles. This obviously interrupted the experience. Also, since I don't live alone, it was very difficult to turn the toy off quickly. Hence embarrassing situations when people don't know how to knock.
I personally would not use this toy again. If I were to recommend this toy to someone, I would recommend it to someone who doesn't share toys with anyone else (because of what its made of) and to someone who enjoys toys that have a larger g-spot simulator and does not find larger, heavier toys to be uncomfortable.
Follow-up commentary
3 months after original review
I actually threw this toy away so I don't have much of a follow up review. I guess I didn't like it enough to keep it.
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i have experiment attraction to women,,, i´m bicurious?
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hi my name is yesenia paris,, and i´m 22 but since i was in high school i kind of have curiosity for girls,, i never like really kiss a girl or anything or i never had any female friend to experiment that, like i am very shy person and also like a lonely girl,, althought i am a very pleasant person and i good human being ,, noone seens to like me,,, but although of that matter i still feel the curiosity may because i have never been with a girl before
does that make a bisexual,a bicurious,of it just because the loneliness or the lock of friends,, like i never have a real
girl friend ,, like it´s samething that happens with boys,, you are not friends with them ,, but you like them in a different way,,, i always thing it´s because my loneliness
and the need of an another ,, girl being friends with me i also don´t have a mom to call and talk about my problems maybe it´s because of that the confusion thanks have a nice day -
Someone made a similar post a while back, and I'll basically tell you what we told her. Don't follow stereotypes. Don't label yourself. If you are interested in girls, then you just are. If you haven't experimented with girls, personally I feel that when I liked someone it isn't based on any particular factor, it is based on the person themselves. I tell people I am bisexual, but really I think of myself as pansexual, not limiting emotion and attraction to anything. Not gender, not age, not race, not social status.
I think that sometimes people can become lonely and will "settle", making them open their views and ideas of dating up, to allow "just anyone" to enter into their lives. My boyfriend was this way, before meeting me, dating anyone who would say yes because he had no friends, and had been hurt and heartbroken so badly he just wanted to feel loved and accepted. I also have a straight friend who dated women just so she could have someone to date, but she wasn't attracted to them, although she liked to experiment and have fun, she says she is straight, but I don't give her a label.
If you ever need a friend to talk to, I am a good listener :) -
Excellent advice Peggi and I second that. We don't need labels...we're just people. I'm a good listener too.
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What's up with different Butterfly Kisses?
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When I bought my Butterfly Kiss I thought there were only 2 versions - the standard and the Platinum Edition. Since I couldn't find the PE in my country I went with the regular one. I was so bent on getting it after watching Kara Sutra's review of it. She said it was TPR. I got my Butterfly Kiss. On the packaging (plastic shell with a piece of paper) it said that it's "phthalate-free" and made of TPR. I'm inclined to believe it as it didn't smell, didn't turn ugly yellow even when I had it for more than a year, didn't sting my bits (jelly does).
Now, however I see those jelly Butterfly Kisses. What's the deal? Was my vibe mis-labeled or are there more than 2 versions? I still have the paper insert from the packaging if you'd like to see it. The vibe itself looks a bit more opaque than what I see in EF catalog - it's always looked like this.
I would also ask people from EF who deal with the Review Program. Is my Butterfly Kiss same as yours (and thus qualifies for a review) or is it a different product? -
Hi there!! California Exotic Novelties was the 1st to come out with this fantastic design. & yes we only have 2 versions, the platinum & the original. Check it out on our website link
Many other companies have tried to duplicate our product but have had no success. We are the original creators with the best product :) Hope this helps! -
All butterfly Kiss items are made from Safe&Pure TPR
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i used this one and after
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my girly parts rurt like burned like if i put bleach on them but it was after i got off
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Quote: my girly parts rurt like burned like if i put bleach on them but it was after i got offIt's the jelly - throw it away or always use a condom. Look for better materials like silicone or VixSkin.
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I wouldn't even use a condom...just get rid of it and stay away from the material.
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Jelly Deformation?
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Well I loved this little bugger and it came at a bargain so I suppose I can't complain too much. But I whipped it out for play tonight only to find that the jelly seems to have dented and deformed itself on the lovely bulbous head. I had it in a pocket next to my turbo glider and I suspect with some heat and pressure, that's the culprit that did this. It has very odd dents/suctionish things on it now.
Is this prone to happen to jelly toys? Could it have been the California summer heat? I would like to prevent this from happening in the future.
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It is my experience that jelly toys just deteriorate really fast...the heat may have sped up this process though. I do know heat can cause more phthalates to leak out of jelly. It probably just kind of melted on you a little. I would have to say you should go ahead and get a new one or better yet, find a comparible toy in silicone! Silicone can be boiled so, heat shouldn't be an issue with it at all! It always sucks when one of your favorites melts.
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Does your house get pretty warm? I've never had that problem and I live in AZ. Was it touching the turbo glider? Sounds like a toy material interaction to me.
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Not what you expected? If you want a good double stimulation or penetration toy, you will have to spend more than $16 bucks. From the looks of it, this toy looks like it would do nothing. And that is just by looking at it.
This is an informative review. Thanks.
Sorry it wasn't what you were looking for.
What size and how many batteries does it use? Guess you didn't use it enough to find out how long the batteries last?
thanks