Someone made a similar post a while back, and I'll basically tell you what we told her. Don't follow stereotypes. Don't label yourself. If you are interested in girls, then you just are. If you haven't experimented with girls, personally I feel that when I liked someone it isn't based on any particular factor, it is based on the person themselves. I tell people I am bisexual, but really I think of myself as pansexual, not limiting emotion and attraction to anything. Not gender, not age, not race, not social status.

I think that sometimes people can become lonely and will "settle", making them open their views and ideas of dating up, to allow "just anyone" to enter into their lives. My boyfriend was this way, before meeting me, dating anyone who would say yes because he had no friends, and had been hurt and heartbroken so badly he just wanted to feel loved and accepted. I also have a straight friend who dated women just so she could have someone to date, but she wasn't attracted to them, although she liked to experiment and have fun, she says she is straight, but I don't give her a label.

If you ever need a friend to talk to, I am a good listener

Excellent advice Peggi and I second that. We don't need labels...we're just people. I'm a good listener too.

Good job Peggi.

I like what Peggie said a lot. I classify myself as bisexual, but it's more about the individual person than male or female. I'm not attracted to all guys or all girls (which seems to be the outside world's opinion on what bisexual means). If you really want a label for yourself, I think you would need to see how things play out more and what type of people you are attracted to. If it happens to be women and men, well then you know. I wouldn't get too hung up on titles though. At the end of the day, they don't really matter much.