I'm sub
Which one are you?
06/26/2011
Sexually, my hubby is submissive but outside of the bedroom he is super dominant.
I'm just dominant all the time, but occasionally I enjoy subbing in the bedroom.
I'm just dominant all the time, but occasionally I enjoy subbing in the bedroom.
07/05/2011
In or out of the bedroom, I absolutely cannot stand being told what to do. Ask me, and I'll probably do it. Tell me, and I'll rip your throat out. (And I'm not exaggerating... much.) However, I do not tell people to do anything either. I will always ask. For the most part, I really do try to keep things balanced between hubby and I, both in the bedroom and out.
Recently, though, my hubby has expressed an interest in having me dominate him in the bedroom. I'm having a little trouble with this, because I know how badly I would respond to being dominated, so I don't want to do it to him. But I also know that he is wired very differently than I am, and so I am considering researching a bit about BDSM and maybe giving it a try.
Recently, though, my hubby has expressed an interest in having me dominate him in the bedroom. I'm having a little trouble with this, because I know how badly I would respond to being dominated, so I don't want to do it to him. But I also know that he is wired very differently than I am, and so I am considering researching a bit about BDSM and maybe giving it a try.
07/05/2011
depends on the day. tend to be more dominant.
07/05/2011
Depends on the person. Some people I'm a strong dominant while with others I'm very submissive. I like to switch it up. It's also fun to fight for dominance.
07/05/2011
I'm usually dominant.
07/05/2011
Its more of a blance for me
07/05/2011
Def a switch depends on what i feel like at the time
07/05/2011
For the most part, I'm dominant, but I can switch at any time ^^
08/08/2011
Me and my boyfriend switch off a lot
08/09/2011
I switch with my mood...
08/09/2011
I'm a sub.
I don't think I'd even know how to be the dominant one.
I don't think I'd even know how to be the dominant one.
08/15/2011
Sub here! Only in bed, though.
08/15/2011
I'm a switch, but my wife prefers that I be dominant most of the time.
08/31/2011
I switch a bit, but I'm much more dominant. I only submit when I'm in the mood for it (rarely), and I'm never a full submissive (I talk back, struggle, act playful). This created some problems in my first relationship, because he was a total Dom, and I think he felt somewhat rejected when I refused to submit to him.
08/31/2011
I can be both.
08/31/2011
She is scared to try a dominant stance. I enjoy being dominant, though.
09/03/2011
I used to be hard-wired submissive, but in the past couple of years, I've had very strong dominant fantasies. Unfortunately, my partner is a hard-wired dominant, so they remain only fantasies.
09/11/2011
switch! it always depends on our mood, etc.. as to which one either of us are
09/11/2011
I switch, but not often with the same partner. I almost always sub for my primary partner, for example. And dom to a play partner or two.
09/15/2011
95% sub, but once in a blue mood I get really really in the mood to be dominant. However, the man isn't really that hot on being dominated and usually turns it around quickly. Of course, if there's any serious push back, I just melt into sub again it comes very naturally.
09/17/2011
I switch
09/21/2011
I'm pretty dominant in my daily life however, I like being the submissive one when it comes to bedroom play. There are times when I take control and my husband loves it!
09/21/2011
I'm mostly submissive, but I sometimes switch to dominant. I need a nice leather whip.
09/25/2011
IMO this doesn't quite capture all the options, but okay, whatever!
09/25/2011
I'm the submissive in my relationship.
09/30/2011
I am more dominant but love to switch also.
10/01/2011
I'm a switch, but I'm more Dom than sub. I still end up on both sides of the equation about equally with my lover, though.
10/01/2011
Quote:
If my partner is trying to get me in the mode i'm submissive. If i am incredibly aroused I take what I want. Mental stimulas works better on me.
Originally posted by
removedacnt
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?
I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
12/28/2011
Mostly dominant.
12/28/2011