Which one are you?

sarki sarki
I'm sub
06/26/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Sexually, my hubby is submissive but outside of the bedroom he is super dominant.
I'm just dominant all the time, but occasionally I enjoy subbing in the bedroom.
07/05/2011
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
In or out of the bedroom, I absolutely cannot stand being told what to do. Ask me, and I'll probably do it. Tell me, and I'll rip your throat out. (And I'm not exaggerating... much.) However, I do not tell people to do anything either. I will always ask. For the most part, I really do try to keep things balanced between hubby and I, both in the bedroom and out.

Recently, though, my hubby has expressed an interest in having me dominate him in the bedroom. I'm having a little trouble with this, because I know how badly I would respond to being dominated, so I don't want to do it to him. But I also know that he is wired very differently than I am, and so I am considering researching a bit about BDSM and maybe giving it a try.
07/05/2011
lanky lanky
depends on the day. tend to be more dominant.
07/05/2011
Kinkme Kinkme
Depends on the person. Some people I'm a strong dominant while with others I'm very submissive. I like to switch it up. It's also fun to fight for dominance.
07/05/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I'm usually dominant.
07/05/2011
heidi.carls heidi.carls
Its more of a blance for me
07/05/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
Def a switch depends on what i feel like at the time
07/05/2011
systematicweasel systematicweasel
For the most part, I'm dominant, but I can switch at any time ^^
08/08/2011
briluminary briluminary
Me and my boyfriend switch off a lot
08/09/2011
Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
I switch with my mood...
08/09/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I'm a sub.
I don't think I'd even know how to be the dominant one.
08/15/2011
AvianMinded AvianMinded
Sub here! Only in bed, though.
08/15/2011
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I'm a switch, but my wife prefers that I be dominant most of the time.
08/31/2011
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I switch a bit, but I'm much more dominant. I only submit when I'm in the mood for it (rarely), and I'm never a full submissive (I talk back, struggle, act playful). This created some problems in my first relationship, because he was a total Dom, and I think he felt somewhat rejected when I refused to submit to him.
08/31/2011
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I can be both.
08/31/2011
Jimmy Stevenson Jimmy Stevenson
She is scared to try a dominant stance. I enjoy being dominant, though.
09/03/2011
Silverdrop Silverdrop
I used to be hard-wired submissive, but in the past couple of years, I've had very strong dominant fantasies. Unfortunately, my partner is a hard-wired dominant, so they remain only fantasies.
09/11/2011
mcl272 mcl272
switch! it always depends on our mood, etc.. as to which one either of us are
09/11/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
I switch, but not often with the same partner. I almost always sub for my primary partner, for example. And dom to a play partner or two.
09/15/2011
geliebt geliebt
95% sub, but once in a blue mood I get really really in the mood to be dominant. However, the man isn't really that hot on being dominated and usually turns it around quickly. Of course, if there's any serious push back, I just melt into sub again it comes very naturally.
09/17/2011
Rawhide Rawhide
I switch
09/21/2011
NavyDoll87 NavyDoll87
I'm pretty dominant in my daily life however, I like being the submissive one when it comes to bedroom play. There are times when I take control and my husband loves it!
09/21/2011
Katastophy Katastophy
I'm mostly submissive, but I sometimes switch to dominant. I need a nice leather whip.
09/25/2011
LibertyGirl LibertyGirl
IMO this doesn't quite capture all the options, but okay, whatever!
09/25/2011
Vanille Vanille
I'm the submissive in my relationship.
09/30/2011
Beck Beck
I am more dominant but love to switch also.
10/01/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
I'm a switch, but I'm more Dom than sub. I still end up on both sides of the equation about equally with my lover, though.
10/01/2011
Teacookie Teacookie
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
If my partner is trying to get me in the mode i'm submissive. If i am incredibly aroused I take what I want. Mental stimulas works better on me.
12/28/2011
mistre$$ mistre$$
Mostly dominant.
12/28/2011
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