Which one are you?

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Which one are you?

sbon sbon
Definitely submissive.
12/13/2010
Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
I am very much a domme, but i will switch for my husband
12/15/2010
MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
I want to be a sub but my lover doesn't know how to be a dom so im left to dom over him.
01/02/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
In the outside world, I'm pretty overbearing, a "leader" type (not bragging, just going on everything from old report cards to every day confirmations from others) and a strong woman.

In bed, I'm subby. My Man is a natural ...
***My Man just DOES things, without much conversation and a most times it's exactly what I want. He often KNOWS before I do.***

Funny, I was just saying this the other day to my husband. That's why I am better at letting him be the Dom. He comes up with all sorts of wild things to do to me; the brain of an engineer is fantastic.
01/03/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Absolutely positively a submissive
01/10/2011
Gallowraven Gallowraven
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

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I am about 85% sub. 15% dom. thing is, I can only orgasm if he takes complete control. those times Im dominant, are just for him.
01/10/2011
KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
In my every day life I am Dom. In the bedroom, I started out as a Dom but found that I am more comfortable in a Sub role. I still have times where I feel the need and desire to be Dom in bed though.
01/12/2011
KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Interesting observation - naturally dominant - but 'better pleasured' as a sub?

Have any idea why that would be true? How does letting someone else control the action give you more pleasure?
by letting someone else have the control it makes it all the more intense due to the mental factor. we all know exactly how to please ourselves but when someone else does it for us it feels better because they are taking the time to make sure we enjoy it.
01/12/2011
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I am probably more dominant. I have tried switching it up, but it just never seems right when he is in charge. The couple of times I have tried, it got boring and it just seemed he didn't know what he was doing and wanted me to be in charge.
01/13/2011
PussyGalore PussyGalore
I'm shy, but I'm not submissive all of the time. Really depends on the vibe I get from him.
02/02/2011
Miss Madeline Miss Madeline
I am a submissive bottom, especially to my Owner. I have switched with others, topping from time to time but I have almost no interest in being anyone's dominant.
02/02/2011
ellejay ellejay
I identify as submissive about 90% of the time. Good fit with my partner!
02/03/2011
Alyjazz Alyjazz
I am in every way submissive and have no desire to become the Domme.
02/13/2011
CynicallyYours CynicallyYours
I've tried switch but I'm just more comfortable as a subbie.
02/13/2011
Eliza Eliza
I would prefer to be submissive all the time. I don't feel comfortable being dominant. Sometimes I switch, though, because my girlfriend is a switch by nature and wants to be the submissive one sometimes.
02/15/2011
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
subbie girl
02/15/2011
RammaJamma RammaJamma
I'm a switch, dominant in my actual life and submissive in the bedroom. I'm a very confident, in control woman in my day to day life and losing that control is such a relief.
03/12/2011
Michelle Menace Michelle Menace
Switch.
03/12/2011
REDRUM REDRUM
Switch.
It's nice to let someone else take control sometimes, but I love to be the one in control. It's just my personality.
04/27/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
I'd say switch. I like for hubby to be in control, but sometimes I want to take hold of the reigns. Even when I do though, he's still the one in control, lol.
04/28/2011
tickle me pink tickle me pink
Usually I'm a sub but sometimes I just love to switch. It keeps things interesting.
04/28/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
We definitely switch off, sometimes even in the same playtime.
04/28/2011
indiglo indiglo
I'm really not into BDSM that much myself. But when we do engage in that kind of dynamic, I am ONLY the dom. No subbing for me - no way, no how! Fortunately, my partner is more comfortable being the sub, so it works.
04/28/2011
markeagleone markeagleone
I tend to be more submissive in life as a whole. I would rather please my wife. Don't get me wrong, I get crabby. I usually stop talking or walk away from the situation. I don't like arguements, even if I start them.
04/28/2011
Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Dominant.
04/29/2011
Bonesdance Bonesdance
I'm a switch, but unfortunately my wife is pretty much only a submissive - I try to get her to take charge from time to time, but it's just not her thing.
05/08/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I switch!
05/08/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
more on the submissive side
05/09/2011
amandaco2011 amandaco2011
I would say I am more of a sub. My partner and I are starting to explore this side of our relationship.
05/09/2011
oopsy oopsy
Depends on my, and my partner's mood, but usually I prefer sub.
05/10/2011
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Unique posters: 225