I'm a sub, always. I'm not a fan of being in charge, because it just makes me uncomfortable.
Outside of the bedroom, we're closer to being equal, but he still has most of the control.
I'm a switch. Usually the Dom, but I love bottoming for my girlfriend. She really knows how to spank my ass! She's more comfortable as the sub, but I'm bringing out the top in her.
Neither... I'm not comfortable enough in the bedroom to be the controlling dominant person. I also don't feel like I could be submissive enough to let my hubby tell me what to do or let him do whatever he wants.
With my last boyfriend, we switched on and off with being dominant and submissive, but with my current boyfriend we actually don't do much of either we are just more cudley then anything.