Which one are you?

Boyfriend Boyfriend
switch
03/08/2013
lolisadist lolisadist
I'm primarily a dom but once in a while my submissive side comes out so I guess a switch
03/09/2013
Creepellah Creepellah
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

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I'm usually submissive.
03/09/2013
fizzygato fizzygato
I guess I'm a bit of a switch. Sometimes I can be dominant, sometimes submissive, but I'd say in general to most people I'm submissive in day to day activities, unless I know I'm the only one who can take charge. When it comes to sex and bdsm I'm almost always submissive by the default that it's them doing stuff to me to teach me how to do things, yet dominant because it's like they're serving me. It's complicated...
03/12/2013
gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
consistently submissive, husband is dominant, but we both switch and have a great time doin' it ;P
03/13/2013
woodsdragon woodsdragon
I prefer to be a sub but we switch up every now and then
03/13/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I'm a switch...but I'm 75% Submissive & 25% dominant.
03/13/2013
A Good Girl A Good Girl
I think I'm more of a bottom than a submissive.
03/14/2013
karenm karenm
Mostly submissive. I like being dominated.
03/18/2013
Nurse Katie Nurse Katie
Definitely a switch
03/18/2013
Teddixox Teddixox
I would always say I am dominant, not a switch. When my man is playing rough and tough though it may look like I'm the sub but we both know there is something unsaid in that where he can only do it because I allow him too or I've teased/manipulated him into it. More of like "He wants me so badly he has to take it, I'm so alluring and he is so desperate for my affection he is showing me the only ways he can." A sort of femme fatal, dirty tease kind of power play. Could be considered topping from the bottom. Whatever it is, we both love it.
04/01/2013
higs higs
Dominant all the way, I just don't get any satisfaction from being a sub, and vice versa for her
04/02/2013
SnapeyLove SnapeyLove
submissive
04/12/2013
treehugger treehugger
I'm always a sub.
04/13/2013
pocket-kate pocket-kate
My partner and I Are both switches. Im primarily a sub and she is dominant most of the time so it all works out
04/16/2013
lovelyzombie lovelyzombie
both
05/07/2013
twelve13 twelve13
I'm a switch, but I lean heavily toward submissive.
05/09/2013
GingerSpice GingerSpice
switch, would love to be dom more, but my partner is so-so on sub
06/08/2013
Septimus Septimus
My fiance and I aren't really all that into BDSM (although I can see us getting more into it in the future), but when we do play, I tend to fall into the submissive role.
06/08/2013
harvest harvest
I'm a switch, but I honestly prefer to bottom more than I do top, even though I enjoy them both quite a bit.
06/09/2013
Lavendar Lavendar
We switch roles.
06/09/2013
SickOnSin SickOnSin
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
I do crave to be dominant from time to time specially when I'm pissed which is also the best time to force me to submit. However I'm mainly submissive.
06/17/2013
FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
I'm a sub. I switch sometimes, but that's rare.
06/19/2013
Hipposterous Hipposterous
I am emotionally dominant except in certain situations.

My boyfriend is 22 years older than me and kind of naturally takes a Daddy role over me, so I allow him to be dominant toward me in that he makes sure I take my medicine, bathes me sometimes, and is very nurturing toward me. When he does that I kind of slip into a submissive mindset and let my guard down to "What Daddy wants Daddy gets".

However, we definitely don't have a 24/7 dynamic. So my natural setting is dominant.

Sexually we are both switches and I am learning how to top. I've always wanted to top, but I'm so afraid of hurting someone. Since I haven't yet had the ability to be mentored by another Domme, I've only done light topping.
06/19/2013
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
Quote:
Originally posted by NuMe
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
I like being both. switch it up every now & then.
06/19/2013
LittleBun91 LittleBun91
Both
07/10/2013
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Unique posters: 225