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Is there a position for anal sex that you find the most comfortable and/or enjoyable? Especially for a first timer?
I know a lot of folks have heard me say this here too many times....but here goes again. Sorry.
Unlike many here who enjoy Doggy Style, I don't. It is uncomfortable for anal. So, in MY humble opinion, as a lady who LOVES anal penetration, but HATES all pain, here is MY suggestions:
LUBE, LUBE,and MORE LUBE, then add MORE LUBE is my first suggestion, regardless of position.
As for position, for a first timer, I would suggest laying on your left side (left side down), with your top leg bent forward. Have your bottom right at or slightly over the edge of the bed and have your lover STAND (far better control) behind you, and penetrate SLOWLY and with YOU calling the shots (move, stop, go a bit deeper or enough), with his penis aiming towards your belly button, more or less. YOU will direct him to the angle that is MOST comfortable for YOU. Oh...did I mention ADD MORE LUBE???? Do so.
Once you are good with that, another position I love, and find super comfortable and sexy, is with me laying flat on my back, butt right at edge of the bed, legs hanging off. I usually have a pillow under my butt as well, to raise me higher (I love Liberator JAZ or HEART for this, by the way). Anyway, he walks up to me and raises my legs over his shoulders or puts my feet on his chest, so my position is like I am sitting, more or less....laying on my back. He then can penetrate me DEEPLY either vaginally or anally. We can look each other in the eye, he can play with my pussy or clit, or even reach down to play with my breasts. The biggest thing is that it is COMFORTABLE and NOT PAINFUL to me at all. I love it.
Oh....I hope this helps and 1. Go slow, 2. YOU call the shots. 3. It does not need to go ALL the way in every time. 4. Forget about the pile driving and pumping away as if it were vaginal sex or porn 5. ADD MORE LUBE.
I hope this helps.