What makes anal sex an enjoyable experience? Or if you didn't like it or haven't had it, why not?
Ladies, why do you enjoy anal?
02/25/2012
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The only thing that makes it an enjoyable experience for me is knowing that my partner is beyond satisfied when we do it. Other than that, nothing!
02/25/2012
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I should have put something like that as an option in the poll. That is one concern I have because I want my partner to enjoy it beyond the knowledge that I enjoy it; that's why I wanted to ask what women see in it.
Originally posted by
JessCee
The only thing that makes it an enjoyable experience for me is knowing that my partner is beyond satisfied when we do it. Other than that, nothing!
02/25/2012
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Oh, okay... I see where you're going now. LOL
Originally posted by
<3BF
I should have put something like that as an option in the poll. That is one concern I have because I want my partner to enjoy it beyond the knowledge that I enjoy it; that's why I wanted to ask what women see in it.
I can think of only one time where it was somewhat enjoyable to me. For some reason that night I was really, REALLY relaxed and lucky for me, he was really, REALLY patient. It took what seemed like forever (probably around 10 minutes) to get comfortable for me, but taking it slow, being patient, and being able to stay super relaxed worked. For some reason that hasn't happened since... I think it's mainly me not being able to relax *shrug* but I dunno.
I know there are many other people here that can give you answers 10x better though!!! LOL
02/25/2012
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Same here! It doesn't really do anything for me, personally, but my partner loves it
Originally posted by
JessCee
The only thing that makes it an enjoyable experience for me is knowing that my partner is beyond satisfied when we do it. Other than that, nothing!
02/25/2012
ass sex is the future. learn to love it, or go extinct!!!
02/25/2012
I enjoy it because it forces me to relax.
In order for me to enjoy anal sex, I have to force myself to be mentally and physically relaxed.
As a normally stressed out person, I enjoy this little break from stress
In order for me to enjoy anal sex, I have to force myself to be mentally and physically relaxed.
As a normally stressed out person, I enjoy this little break from stress
02/25/2012
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its not for me
Originally posted by
<3BF
What makes anal sex an enjoyable experience? Or if you didn't like it or haven't had it, why not?
02/25/2012
I enjoy the psychological effects of anal sex more than the physical side of it - tabooed and erotic sex! To me, anal sex itself isn't as pleasurable as vaginal sex, I always need additional stimulation on my clit, or else I cannot climax. My husband will pick PIV sex over anal any day.
02/25/2012
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It is amazingly intense. Very intimate and trusting. Probably a more "bonding" and intimate experience then vaginal sex in many ways. The feeling is incredible and my orgasms, when combined with clitoral and/or vaginal play is AMAZING. What is NOT to love???
Originally posted by
<3BF
What makes anal sex an enjoyable experience? Or if you didn't like it or haven't had it, why not?
02/26/2012
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It used to be a "taboo" psychological extra thrill" decades ago. Now it is part of our regular love life...so that is not a component. However, the TRUST needed for anal is far more then vaginal, so it IS a strong loving/bonding thing. I happen to find it different, but equally intense a feeling to vaginal penetration.
Originally posted by
Rossie
I enjoy the psychological effects of anal sex more than the physical side of it - tabooed and erotic sex! To me, anal sex itself isn't as pleasurable as vaginal sex, I always need additional stimulation on my clit, or else I cannot climax. My
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I enjoy the psychological effects of anal sex more than the physical side of it - tabooed and erotic sex! To me, anal sex itself isn't as pleasurable as vaginal sex, I always need additional stimulation on my clit, or else I cannot climax. My husband will pick PIV sex over anal any day.
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02/26/2012
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I love anal play, however, this is just....odd. I dare say if all we did was ANAL, then we WOULD go extinct.
Originally posted by
godweensatan
ass sex is the future. learn to love it, or go extinct!!!
02/26/2012
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VERY well said. YES, this is part of it indeed. EXCELLENT point. Thank you.
Originally posted by
Megan Jean
I enjoy it because it forces me to relax.
In order for me to enjoy anal sex, I have to force myself to be mentally and physically relaxed.
As a normally stressed out person, I enjoy this little break from stress
In order for me to enjoy anal sex, I have to force myself to be mentally and physically relaxed.
As a normally stressed out person, I enjoy this little break from stress
02/26/2012
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If you are enjoying HIM enjoying it, then start to TELL him what to do for YOU, to make it enjoyable. Honest, it can be AMAZING for you too. There are SO many happy nerves back there!!!!!!!!!!!
Originally posted by
JessCee
The only thing that makes it an enjoyable experience for me is knowing that my partner is beyond satisfied when we do it. Other than that, nothing!
02/26/2012
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JessCee, I have to have an orgasm or more than one before I can have anal sex. It's relaxing and encourages me to have more while we're busy later. We also figured out (well, it was My Man's idea) to use a dildo or phallic vibe vaginally, which is not only comfortable, but helps stimulate the G Spot making it even more fun. Also, there's no chance that the penis will "pop back in" the vagina and contaminate it when something is already in there. These two tips, plus lots of good water based lube works very well for us.
Originally posted by
JessCee
Oh, okay... I see where you're going now. LOL
I can think of only one time where it was somewhat enjoyable to me. For some reason that night I was really, REALLY relaxed and lucky for me, he was really, REALLY patient. It took what seemed ... more
I can think of only one time where it was somewhat enjoyable to me. For some reason that night I was really, REALLY relaxed and lucky for me, he was really, REALLY patient. It took what seemed ... more
Oh, okay... I see where you're going now. LOL
I can think of only one time where it was somewhat enjoyable to me. For some reason that night I was really, REALLY relaxed and lucky for me, he was really, REALLY patient. It took what seemed like forever (probably around 10 minutes) to get comfortable for me, but taking it slow, being patient, and being able to stay super relaxed worked. For some reason that hasn't happened since... I think it's mainly me not being able to relax *shrug* but I dunno.
I know there are many other people here that can give you answers 10x better though!!! LOL less
I can think of only one time where it was somewhat enjoyable to me. For some reason that night I was really, REALLY relaxed and lucky for me, he was really, REALLY patient. It took what seemed like forever (probably around 10 minutes) to get comfortable for me, but taking it slow, being patient, and being able to stay super relaxed worked. For some reason that hasn't happened since... I think it's mainly me not being able to relax *shrug* but I dunno.
I know there are many other people here that can give you answers 10x better though!!! LOL less
I enjoy it because it feels good, it, of course has that "nasty" reputation and of course because he likes it. But, it feels good for me, too. The feelings, physically and emotionally, during this form of sex are so intense. I go into an altered state of consciousness. It's really hard to explain.
02/26/2012
She really likes it on occasion. She usually lets me know when she's ready.
02/26/2012
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I do not enjoy anal sex
Originally posted by
<3BF
What makes anal sex an enjoyable experience? Or if you didn't like it or haven't had it, why not?
03/01/2012
I've only tried it a couple times, but I didn't particularly care for it.
03/06/2012
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I have only ever enjoyed it once and I honestly could not explain to you how or why. Every other time besides that one experience has hurt like hell and those experiences were before and after with the same guy.
Originally posted by
<3BF
What makes anal sex an enjoyable experience? Or if you didn't like it or haven't had it, why not?
03/08/2012
I like it but i have to be already WELL in the mood and have clitoral stimulation. It makes things more intense.
03/16/2012
its awesome!
03/16/2012
i love it.its a great feeling.
03/20/2012
My girlfriend loves it because it is a different feeling from vaginal.
03/20/2012
I love it
03/20/2012
My girlfriend and I are just beginners, but so far she is enjoying it. To her it has a different feel.
03/23/2012
I LOVE it! I beg for it. I do it sololy and I do it regularly. Anal can be amazing.
03/23/2012
I really like it. I wish I got it more often.
And... It feels amazing to be double stuffed!
And... It feels amazing to be double stuffed!
03/23/2012
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i fully agree
Originally posted by
Bignuf
It used to be a "taboo" psychological extra thrill" decades ago. Now it is part of our regular love life...so that is not a component. However, the TRUST needed for anal is far more then vaginal, so it IS a strong loving/bonding thing.
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more
It used to be a "taboo" psychological extra thrill" decades ago. Now it is part of our regular love life...so that is not a component. However, the TRUST needed for anal is far more then vaginal, so it IS a strong loving/bonding thing. I happen to find it different, but equally intense a feeling to vaginal penetration.
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03/29/2012
I only enjoy anal when I know that it will be clean and considerate.
03/29/2012
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